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    wow, maybe this girl was just looking for someone to go to the prom with as not to be alone, not a serious relationship type of deal. that's what it looks like to me. if you want to make good impression, just be yourself. Pretty sure you've heard that one before, but it's your best bet. Don't focus so much on making the good impression, but focus more on the other person and show genuine interest in them, of course if you are indeed interested. I know how you feel though. for my senior prom, the guy i ws with barely made eye contact with me! Like if he looked at me i would laser his brain or something. We knew each other for years and when he said he would take me to the prom i was happy about it and wanted to have fun. I guess he was trying to show me not to develop feelings for him because this is just for fun....that's probably what this girl is doing to you, but who knows! have fun!!
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    i would like to know the same thiing, why is this posted in the self injury forum?? About the arm-crossing thing. I read in an article that folding of the arms indicates disinterest, shyness, and insecurity to some extent, but that doesnt mean that this girl you're referring to is shy or uniterested in you. Like everyone else said, you should look at her facial guestures and tone of voice when she speaks to you. good luck
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    your life is what you make it. If one sees life as only making and keeping money, then that's how one will live and only see it. If one sees life as something pleasurable and non-materialistic, well that person is way better off. Don't measure your life by human standards. Life is an adventure, not a challenge that has to be overcome. Take time to smell the roses, literally! Take time to yourself to enjoy nature. Walk around and listen to the wind, watch the swaying of the trees. listen to the birds. Forget about your financial problems!!You will see that these things are what matter. money is not what life is about. If you let money determine your happiness then you might as well be considered blind. Don't take your life, what would have accomplished by doing this? Don't let money win, an inademate object. Give yourself a second chance at life, discover what is really means to be alive!
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    yes, like everyone said It's the natural occurrences that come with slight embarrassment, although it can appear worse. In reality abobut 90% of the people will forget about the incident or never noticed you being embarrassed. Picture the group of people naked when giving presentations. You've probably heard this before and it really does work!
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    if the gold plating turned greenthen there was a chemical reaction with the body fluid and the minerals in the plating. i dont think anything s going to remove the green stain because it's not superficial. the chemical stain is related to rusted metal, you can't get the metal shiniy again because physical change has taken place. makes sense? i dont think anyone is going to know why it's green, let alone even noice or care. don't worry about it.
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    maybe we're no fully grasping to what's being spoken of, but more how how we will project ourselves. Maybe we're so caught up in making a good impression that we miss the whole conversation all together. Or maybe it's not interesting to us or we feel as though it will mean nothing when we speak, who knows!
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    have you considered therapy of some sort? Self harm to yourself is definitely not ok! Why are you doing this? what inner rage are you keeping to yourself. what happened to you as a child/teenager? you should ask yourself these questions before you can start the healing process. you shouldn't abuse the body that god as given you. you only get one you know. I hope you can find some comfort with yourself and seriously consider the therapy that is much needed. goos luck
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    wow, I don't think it was necessarily rude, but more unexpected to her. After having said the reply you should have jokingly said, "naw, I'm just kidding, but maybe one day when we get to know each other better. Don't beat yourself up over this. I see it as a honest mistake that shouldn't spoil the relationship. speak to her if it's really bugging you and if you want her to know that you're not a rude pig!!
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    i normally don't tell people "what turns me on", but for the sake of your article.... What i find a real "turn on" from the opposite sex is a confident smile and serious eye contact and a polite character. when a guy shows sincere interest in me, and not looking for easy sex and cheap thrills! I find that attractive in a guy.
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    you both are great! in fact i signed up for a public speaking course for next fall, because i knew it would help to some extent! Deep breaths!!
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    DN i never though about the "quick brain" thing!! Maybe I do!! Blueangle, very wise for your age. thanks I never thought about it that maybe I live in my head way too much that i never noticed. I try the suggestions you posted and work really hard at this
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    hello Have you heard of a store called "John t's"? It's this really misalleneous strore that has all this strange stuff. Think about what she really likes, her interests. You said she's into heavy metal? Pick something from that category. Does she have a collection or some sort? I know it can be tough. Take a few hours to browse the malls and talk to sales clerks and whatnot. good luck
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    That's all I hear from people in the family, "just talk". Easier said then done. While many people have physical disabilities, I feel i have a disabitilty with words. I couldn't carry a caoversation with another being if I had a gun pointed to my temple. It's not being shy or just at a loss of words it's not being able to be clear about what I want to say. I have everything I need/want to say to the person(s) and when i spaek the sentences are choppy and unclear, even to myself. You know this is a real self-esteem booster!! Is this some sort of communication problem that I don't know about? Anyone else know what I'm talking about? Any ideas on how to fox this problem before it carries into future relationships and friendships. I feel really abnormal about this and it's causing me to have confidence problems and I'd rather keep my mouth shut at times. I'm surprised I don't have grey hairs sprouting from my scalp from all the stress from this. Believe it or not, this "problem" is costing me current friendships with people. They're becoming distant and blank with me at our weekly gatherings on wednesdays. I get depressed and leave eariy. I've been spending way too much time alone for years that I talk to myself on a daily basis just to take the lonely feeling away, and when i'm thinking out loud the sentences are smooth and flowing, maybe I get too critical when in the presense of others, but why?? thanks in advance
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    i know exactly what you're talking about. yes you're completely normal. it's never anything wrong with wondering where your "true love" is. i go through that everyday as well, but it's not like i can't think of anything else as well. It's not an obsession so to speak. just be yourself and stop worrying about what the opposite sex is thinking of you. when you think like that you're actually generating negative energy and thus people will get negative vibes!! Think positively and be yourself and enjoy life! You're still young and you'll find love. just pray and enjoy each day. good luck
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    I suggest you read through the posts in this forum. believe me tons of other people asked this question, very common and can be found easily.
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    it really hard to say that when the activiites are taken to the bedroom his personality changes. who knows? maybe hi feels inadequate of unsure of himself. like you said, you should explain the matter to him if it's really a concern for you. say something like, "i don't know if it's me, but i feel that whenever we get sexual with each other i feel like something is wrong. I get this negative vibe from you and i get turned off. id something bothering you...." you know something like that so his feelings won't ger hurt. communication is the key. use it wisely!
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    hi hmmm,.. with her being a girl i would say she's going through some emotional swings about the whole relatioship thing. maybe she's having flash backs from her past relationship and is having some some trust issues. I can really say why she would behave this way. Maybe sh'e just confused about you and her and don't want to tell you personally. Who knows! i'd talk to her about it if it's really a concern for you.
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    yes slow dowm a re-read the question! you know suicide is more of a mental act than a physical. if you view that it be better off dying than living, your mind will automatically begin to "make" life miserable for you and you'll act out on sucide. i suggest you take some time out for yourself and smlie in the mirror. yes it may sound crazy and awkward at first, but you'll begin to actually feel better within sometime. try it out before you end your life over something that is reversable. believe me what you're going through is definitely reversable, things will get better with time! if you die, you'll just be taking the pain with you, it will never leave.
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    affrimation is more than just visualizing something you want and hoping magically it will fall in you lap. As you strive for something mentally, physically you should be working towards it. The more you "believe" and work your subconscious mind is processing positive thoughts which result in you actually making these dreams come true, without you fully being aware of it. Does this make any sense to you? It's a mind process that takes some practice to achieve. start with something small like. I will do this, this, and this today. keep telling yourself you will do it which performing the act itself. once you start "forcing" yourself to do what you desire then only will these dreams come a reality. hope im making any sense here! good luck
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    skip the pathetic games, if i were you I'd just wait until we're alone and i would tell her how i feel. I know that everyone isn't that brave and would well saty away from an approach like that, but it sure beats the awkward stares and silences! You should do what is comfortable for you, my friend, but if you ever want her to know your true feelings, muster up the courage to speak about it. She'll greatly respect you for it and it shows great maturity. good luck
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    Hi josh, I know just how you feel. i had the same pimple problem at that age, just like annie said you're going through that phrase. Have you heard of On-the-Spot acne treatment? the stuff works GREAT. you apply a small amount of the cream on each acne pimple and rub it in. you do this twice dailyfor the first few days. when you see the pimples begin to dry out you apply less, like once each two days. Ive has the same bottle for over a year because you only use so much of it. After a month or so my face was pimple free! Each day i'd wash my face with face wash, just like you, and apply the cream. Also i would use a swivel stick of cocoa butter lighten any scars that the pimples left. This treatment worked for me, hope it does for you Try not to stress of this as it will cause more pimples to emerge. Almost everyone has had a pimple or two, no big deal. if you are really concerned you should see your dermatologist, like you mentioned. good luck
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    he's a real jerk. i cant believe he would act so b**chy to you!! guys dont normally act that way. really immature. like DN said, just ignore him and move on with your life. if necessary, tell him that he needs to grow up and accept the fact that he messed up and now he must live with his actions. The childish behavior is just plain stupid. toell him to be a man and leave you alone
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    hi Im an so sorry that you are going through this. NO ONE should have to endure this. relatioships are built on communication, honesty and companionship. I'm pretty sure you heard this a thousand times! it's really quite true if you think about it... you say should you be mad about these matters? LIKE EVER! Not so much as the simple fact that he said "i love you" to someone else, but because he violated "rule" number 1. Thtose three words are so over=rated. Who knows what they mean! lol. Communication. He never explained to ou why he behaved in the matter he did, obviously because you're angry about it. i suggest you two have serious talk about where the relationship is going. is the outlook all candy and rainbows? Or is it a huge pile of worthless garbage. (excuse the weird analogies! lol) but seriously, think about it. you have the right to know . if he can't be man enough to explain his actions then who would want to be with him? Im not giving you any ideas, but this typr of stuff needs to be thought through to ensure no one's feelings are hurt. good luck and hope everything works well
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    wow, put things into perspective here. i think you should really look deep within yourself and find what you really, truly want. Who do you want to be involved with? How do you feel now in your current relationship? How's it been going. What is the communication like, with your current bf and his friends? are you happy with this guy now? these are just some questions you should ask youself to know what you're truly feeling and wanting in a relationship. there's no straight answer to give because there are several things you can do to make things somewhat suitable. Just think about what YOU want . feelings may be hurt,but sometimes that's the best to "break" out of this shell. good luck and hope things work out
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    wow this thread really got off topic. i forgot what the initial question was!!! lol i think that everyone is entitled to their own opioion regarding masturbation and religion. there's nothignt o prove here because we all have our own views and beliefs. there's no sense in trying to prove the other person wrong
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