eden420
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my closest friend is seeing my ex's closest friend. Its alot harder for me because they both live together now, so whenever she is going to visit him she invites me, or he invites me to hangout too. I dont mind hanging out with them but im trying to do NC with my ex since he broke up with me 2 months ago. He told me he still wants me to be a close friend after the break up but thats some sht i dont really buy anymore. and when i asked is there a chance in the future, he answers "whatever happens, happens". i still want him back, but im trying to focuse on myself and im afraid that if i bring up what we had i would end up getting turned down. im not sure what to do because i like hanging out with my best friend and my 2 other friends, but they all live in my ex's house. i dont know if i should stop chilling at that house because i might end up begging him back, or he might not want to see me at times. or should i just act casual and hangout even though i know i still want to be with him? i was thinking maybe those feelings of attachment would vanish if i get the hang of just really being friends with my ex... and see that maybe being just friends is way better and healthier than being in a romantic relationship. any thoughts would help
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i dont really like hanging out with his friends. i mean ive met most of them once, but im not totally comfortable hanging out with them, and i dont want that to affect my relationship with the guy im dating. im not sure what to do or say to him about this, i dont want it to be weird. it could be my insecurities, it bothers me that if i dont get along with them it would affect how he thinks about me.
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ive been on the patch for almost 2 months now, i never missed a date or anything. and i had sex tonight, but the guy came inside me without a condom, twice, should i worry?
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i had sex with this guy twice, the first time was unexpected cause it was the first time that i really hungout with him. when i was about to go home, he told me he wanted to get to know me better, and he likes me etc..and that we should hangout soon... i get no calls for 6 days, we didnt exchange numbers, so after 6 days i finally just asked a friend for his number. and i called him and we hungout the next day.. i ended up sleepin over at this house.. when we woke up it was awkward as hell. he didnt say much, he just said take care and i left. i dont know what to do, i feel like im already attached to him, and i do want more than just friends with benefits or whatever we are.. but i dont want to feel vulnerable by telling him i do want to be with him, and end up being rejected. he hasnt called in a week after i slept at his house, and i dont know if i should call him and tell him what i really feel, or just let it go and wait for him to call me or contact me in any way..
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start a relationship with someone who you had sex with before goin out with them? like friends with benefits, is it a slim chance that it will turn in to a committed relationship?
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it worries me that he might get attached to me, or i might get attached to him, then it will get complicated. im 17, he is almost 18. and i have another question, can friends with benefits become a relationship that might actually work? or does that usually end up being messed up and filled with issues?
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well... i do think he is good enough to start a relationship with but the problem is im dating someone, but its kind of an open relationship. i think right now, i dont really want to be committed to anyone.
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i need some advice.. is sex the fastest way to ruin a friendship? im in to my friend and im scared that if we do have sex things will go downhill from there. like i want to be friends with benefits but i also dont want our friendship to get screwed up.
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im 17, he is 18.. thanks muneca for the advice!
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ive been going out with this guy for 2 weeks, we see each other like once a week after we went out on a first date. and i was wondering is that bad in a relationship, i asked him what will happen when school starts for both of us. he said we are still going to hangout but not too often.. and i dont get how once a week is often for him. Im more used to seeing the person im dating at least 3 times a week. he said he is really dedicated to his work and he takes school seriously, and i dont know if i should tell him i want more of his time. or should i just let it go? im really in to him and i dont want to scare him by crowding him or by coming off as a dependent girlfriend. he told me he is happy with the relationship, i am too, but i feel like i dont see him enough.
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yeah its clear that we are going out, we talked about that. but im just not sure if he wants to be serious, or that if its okay with him if i mess around with other people
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im really confused and i dont know what to do. ive been seeing this guy for more than a week now. we see each other like twice a week. but how do i know its something serious, not just casual dating. is it too early for me to figure it out if we are serious or not? i really like him, and he is great , but i also just want to have fun. but if i know he is serious about me then i can commit. how should i tell him this, or how should i ask him if we are in a committed relationship. we have only been dating for more than a week, and i dont want to scare him off by asking about the future or commitments. his longest relationship lasted for 6 weeks, i dont really want to rush what we have but in a way i am getting frustrated. i know he likes me but i just feel like i give alot of effort and he doesnt give that much effort. i dotn know what to do, should i just talk to him, or should i give this time? any advice would be great...
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yes i havent done it with him, i woudnt say he is nervous he is actually confident, but his actions just doesnt turn me on. ive never been with a guy thats really in touch with his feminine side, he is bi curious, and maybe bi, that doesnt bother me, but its hard for me to get aroused with what he is doing.
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i wasnt sexually abused when i was younger. its just that i just get turned off when we are about to do it. another issue is that he is feminine for a guy, i posted that before in a different forum. i think that affects me, he is attractive and all but its hard for me be in the mood to do it.
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another one of my dilemmas... ive been seeing this guy for 2 weeks now and i like him and all, im attracted to him, but when we do a sexual activity i just get turned off right away. like his personality is kinda strange, he is a bit fruity and emotional, ive never dated a guy thats like that so i think it affects us sexually, actually just me. i dont know what to do, like its hard to keep avoiding and stopping him when he wants to do something, i mean i like kissing him but when we go further i jsut get turned off either because of his actions or the things he says... is it just me? maybe ill get used to him, or do i say and try to communicate to him about this