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I'm not sure... I just talk about my life... but i'm very careful not to say anything negative... i smile a lot... i get very shy though.
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I emailed him a couple of days later because I thought that maybe he was too shy or something like you said. But he ignored it. So if I was to ask him in an email or text msg (i'm too scared to call him) what would I write?? Can you give me an example? Also if i'm too casual he might just write something nice so that he doesnt hurt my feelings.
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Yes I think you should say this to him because it will make you feel better. But dont expect him to say sorry or even admit that its true. Maybe email it to him so that you dont have to hear him saying your wrong. Also dont try and convince him... tell him how much you tried and that you aren't going to tolerate it any longer and thats why the relationship is over.
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Wow that is awful! Anyone who did that would have to have a very good reason. I did something similar once though. I moved out when my bf was away. But it was because he was always threatening to throw me out and change the locks. So I was terrified if I told him he would send his friend over who has a spare key to change the locks on me. I rang him and told him once I had moved everything out. And we are still friends now.
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Thanks! Maybe that is why i'm so screwed up. Maybe its really obvious but I cant see it cause I'm so screwed up?
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Well I havent heard anything and I know I wont. I understand that sometimes people dont click or whatever. But we seemed to get along so well and have a lot in common. Do you really think I should ask him? What would I say? I dont want it to come accross as I'm interested in him and am really sad that HE doesnt like me or something. I'm just upset because I cant figure out what I'm doing wrong all the time.
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Oh sorry... maybe they are better over here. I didnt realise.
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What Age Were You When You Moved Out ?
sweetheart21 replied to Night Pumpkin's topic in Parenting and Families
To the previous poster. There is nothing wrong with living at home. But if you feel so strongly about it then move out. Simple as that. Find a place that is cheap or share with some other people. -
Exactly!! I really disagree with the other posts. I myself have an abusive father and it really does affect you VERY badly. I dont think you are wrong at all for feeling this way. I also feel sorry for your mum because she deserves to have friends and not be ashamed. Have you spoken to your mother about putting him in a nursing home? I have volunteered in nursing homes and they are not bad places. You can still visit him if you like and he will be well looked after.
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Yes you need to relax. She will start to feel smothered if you're not careful. 3 times in a couple of weeks isnt really that much. Unless you are both very busy.
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Wow I'm so impressed about how sensible you are being about all of this When I just read your posts I was shocked. Because usually a female in this kind of controling relationship, especially after 3 years, will have lost self esteem and end up standing up for their partners behaviour, blaming themselfs etc. Its so great that you can see now how unhealthy this relationship is!
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Congratulations for losing 50 pounds!! I bet you feel good about yourself now not only for losing weight but for the hard work you did to achieve it You wont get that feeling if you get lipo. How much weight would you get taken out? I heard of a lady getting it done once that ended up putting on more weight then before she got the lipo because she was in so much pain and was sitting around the house eating for a couple of weeks Maybe since your friend has the money she could hire a personal trainer for the both of you. Or buy some guy equipment and you could motivate each other. But if you decide to do it I dont think its a bad thing. Just make sure YOU want to do it and your not doing it just because your friend will pay for it.
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Smile and give a little wave. They will probably start giggling. Then you could flirt with them.
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Maybe send a text message saying- Are you still up for ice skating tomorrow? or something casual like that. You wont sound desperate
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Wow thats very specific Caterina. I wonder if there is a man out there like that. Personally I like guys with dark eyebrows and pretty eyes. I also like it when they are a little bit silly/quirky/joke around a lot.
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I dont think that that statement relates only to women. Its similar to the saying "actions speak louder then words" It just means people (not just women) usually say how they feel through body language and actions rather then words.
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Yes totally ignoring him is best. I had en ex who would keep calling me (not as bad as yours sounds though!). I ignored all his calls and when he called with a private number I said I cant talk now and hung up. He kept sending me text messages and emails but I knew if I replyed it would just get him excited and he would just write more and more. It took a while for him to lose interest but he doesnt contact me at all anymore.
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This sounds a little odd. You have to get your teeth fixed so worrying about stuff like this isn't going to do you any good. Dont waste your energy worrying about things you cant change. I have a crown on my front tooth and it is perfect. It looks like all my other teeth.
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Yes I guess your right. I think I'm just annoyed cuz I cant figure it out. P.S I love your signature quote. It made me laugh hehe
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Oh I know... but its been 4 days since the date... & this isnt the first time its happened.
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This happens all the time... a guy will ask me out on a date... the date will go ok... I dont hear from him again. Sometimes its a few dates and then they just disappear. I'm not that bothered if I have a bf or not. In fact I'd rather not have one. But I'm getting really paronoid that there is something wrong with me. I had a coffee with a guy on saturday. We seemed to have a bit in common, we were both a bit shy, but it seemed to go ok. He said he would message me later. But I havent heard from him since. I sent him a little email yesterday asking about his new job (he started monday)... but he didnt write back. I'm usually very smiley but a bit shy with new people. I dont think I'm ugly. I think I look alright. I'm 5ft 8 and weigh 148 pounds. I thought I was an average weight but maybe i'm chubbier then I thought? I dont know what it is How can I find out? Should I ask him? Or would that be way too weird? I know it would be weird but I dont know how else to figure this out. Any advice?
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I have like 1 friend.
sweetheart21 replied to puff.tm.dragon's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
Try volunteering somewhere that is a regular thing, like once a week. And choose something that will have people your age. That way you can slowly make friends with the other people there. Or while your waiting to go back to school find a job where young people work. Bars are fun and have lots of young staff and customers to talk to. -
You have to change around your program every so often or you will become bored with it and be less likely to do it. You also need to have a bit of cardio. Talk to the personal trainers at the gym. Ask them to make a program for you.
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Hey Ziggy, I think the asking questions thing is a good idea. I have tried this a few times before, but what happens is that we have a nice little chat about the weather or something similarly dumb… & then we walk off and that’s it. I don’t understand how that turns into a friendship? Is it just after a whole bunch of the little chats that you end up being friends? Or do you have to do something? Also if I was talking to someone before class should I sit next to them when we walk in the classroom? Would they get annoyed that I'm presuming that they want me to sit next to them?
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I'm 14 and I'm having sex. NEEDS ADVICE!
sweetheart21 replied to alexx is a girl's topic in Sex and Romance
It would be almost impossible to stop having sex once you have started. Why dont you use condoms? Tell you boyfriend about being worried about getting pregnant. He seems like a nice guy if he has helped you stop drinking etc and hopefully will start using condoms. I'm also wondering why you had been using drugs and alcohol? Did something happen or is happening in your life that you are having trouble dealing with?