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They will have been together a year on valentine's day. She's cheated on him before, why wouldn't she do it again?
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And her boyfriend has no idea, of course.
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Yeah, exactly. All she had to do was tell me. Not be deceitful. I just thought I knew her better than that. We grew up together. We were neighbors for 15 years.
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Oh, I forgot to mention that my roommate also has a boyfriend. And the thing that bothers me most is she PROMISED she wouldn't go for him...
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Okay so here's the deal. I met a really attractive, sweet guy at a club last week on my birthday. We seemed to hit it off really well. He came over on Saturday night, we cuddled and stuff like that. My best friend, who is also my roommate, was there. She flirted with him the entire time. He made up an excuse and left early. 10 minutes later, he called me and told me he was more attracted to my roommate than me. I was absolutely crushed. I really liked the guy. My best friend promised me she wouldn't talk to him. She knew how much emotional pain I was in. It turns out she called him up after she found out from ME that he was into her. They talked for like an hour. She swore to me she was just {Mod Edit} him out. Last night we had a little get-together for the premiere of American Idol. It was just supposed to be me, her and a couple of other people. She invited him without asking or telling me. They sat super close the entire night and flirted with playful touching and such. I was pretty drunk so I didn't say anything. Well, just a few minutes ago, I was trying to nap when I heard his voice. He was over here again. I got up, went to my roommate and asked what the hell he was doing here. "Oh, we're going out for coffee." I can guarantee she wouldn't have told me if I hadn't gotten up and asked. After promising me she wouldn't, I think she's falling for this guy. I am so hurt and feel so betrayed. Does anyone have any advice for me on how to handle this? I have told her how much it bothers me.
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can you get over your first love?
jengh replied to dreamingwithabrokenheart's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
It was very hard for me for a long time... but I've come to the conclusion that I will ALWAYS love him. Not necissarily be IN love with him, but there will always be that little piece of my heart that will never let go completely. -
Emotional affairs are just as, if not more, painful as physical affairs. But when it comes to cheating, it varies drastically with different couples. If you feel, in your heart, that you are being wronged and hurt, then it absolutely is cheating.
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no, he was the complete opposite which I think is what attracted me to him in the first place.
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No, it definitely was not worth it... I ruined an amazing relationship....he forgave me but things were never the same again
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Honestly, I can't stand it when guys play with them... However, my boyfriend loves it (surprise, right?). I find it very uncomfortable when my nipples are sucked on, touched in general.... Ive known girls who can orgasm just from breast stimulation.... I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum... I find it very uncomfortable
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Is your girlfriend on birth control? You may want to consider this as a back-up...just in case...This by no means says you don't have to use a condom.
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Are you on anytype of anti-depressant? I was on Effexor for years and it KILLED my sex drive... There are all sorts of meds that can mess with your libido
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Oh god, that is seriously the sweetest thing I've ever heard. I'm such a sap--makes me want to cry But yeah, boats are very easy to charter for the night or whatever.
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No, 24 is not too young, in my opinion. Like Newo Ikkin, I'd like to get it over with in my early-mid 20s. As long as you're committed to each other and have your lives in order, there is nothing wrong with marrying at that age. Now, if they're only marrying because of the army or whatever, then perhaps they should take a step back...
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Where will he be staying? With you or in a hotel? If he's staying with you, then I think he could pay his own way since you'd be accomodating him. But if he's getting a hotel, I would split it.
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no, as long as you're 18 you're considered to be an adult legally... as long as YOU are comfortable that's all that matters
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(as a joke) my friend liz and i would walk up to random guys and ask, "may I hump your leg?" We got quite a few "Yes"
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hahahaha...thats funny
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YES... tanning does wonders!!! I was AMAZED at what ONE little session did... so now I go about once a week just to get that boost
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Okay, I'm really curious. That sounds like an awesome job. I can see how the travel would be hard on some people but traveling is my passion... How did you get into this field? Do you have an art degree or anything? I've always wanted to do something creative and artsy 1:
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I am an international busines major with a spanish and french minor. Also concentrating on art history. As for a job, I'm poor and unemployed. Thanks mom for supporting my sorry a*s
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YES.... i have SED also and ever since I got one of those lights, I have felt like it's summer... They are really fantastic. Try to do outdoor stuff as much as possible with her. Getting her out into the daylight will do wonders.
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aw, im sorry... your freshman year sounds identical to mine, though mine had nothing to do with skin problems. Just other aspects.... I know how much it sucks being alone all the time... But Hazey Amber is dead-on... most people don't give a crap about whether or not you have acne... It's a really small thing, but it works wonders for me: Crabtree and Evelyn makes this glycerine-based soap called Rosewater... I use it twice a day and it seriously clears my face right up. I have no idea what's in it that makes it do that, maybe the rose extract. But, it couldn't hurt to try, right? You can order it online. Other than that, diet has a huge effect on your skin, like the others have posted... I know dorm food is god-awful... everything is deep-fried... If possible, try eating as much fresh produce as possible and avoid grease at all costs. I've battled with acne since 5th grade. I know how it can kill self confidence. Try seeing a dermatologist. They have pills you can take that really can help.
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Yes, I agree... I do like this quite a bit.. but after it's been up my butt? eek...definitely not brave enough to try that
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hahaha, i totally measured my nose and thumb after I read that.... then read "i bet people measure..." I'm a loser