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  1. jengh
    I wouldn't make a big deal about it at all. Really, there's no reason to get upset. As many other posters wrote, it's just like you getting Cosmo. Try taking the time to read one of his issues... it's actually a really good magazine. The "Found Porn" is hilarious.
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    wow.. good for you, michael! How did she take it? Was she upset?
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    wow--that sounds different...but it also sounds like I would really enjoy it!!!
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    very public places--city parks (Paris! did that while I was there), public beaches, in the water...
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    My boyfriend and I do everytime I'm on my period. For one thing, my already sky-high sex drive climbs even higher... but, it just doesn't seem to bother him. Certainly doesn't bother me. He wears a condom, we put a dark towel under me...it works out just fine
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    oh sucky... im sorry... i deal with this all too often... bananas help...my mom always makes me eat those... stay far away from alcohol (beer especially) and sugars... does the cork thing seriously work???
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    jeeeez....she should be more than happy to get ANY type of MP3 player! Those things aren't cheap! And please, her friends are NOT going to make fun of her...how ridiculous she is being! Does she appreciate ANY of the gifts you buy her? "you think im going to buy her an iPod?! pffft"---i agree. I wouldn't. Not if she's going to act like that.
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    well, if you've already discussed the boundaries and whatnot and he's agreed to be respectful of you, why not give it a shot?
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    I agree with the other posters, as long as it's not going to bother you when he gawks and gets turned on by the dancers, then it could definitely be a lot of fun...and a new thing for the two of you to do... Just think of the great sex when you get home!!!
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    YES, exactly.... It shouldn't be this hard! Out there, there is a girl who will treat you as well as you treat her, who will WANT to make love to you just for the connection it will give you. Everynight, she will look forward to getting into bed with you and having her hold you all night long... Isn't that what you want? Someone who loves you back, who doesn't want anything in return besides your unconditional love?
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    Okay, I want you to do one thing for me: Read and re-read both of your posts. I want you to read them objectively and pretend like you're reading another person's post. What would you say to a person in that situation? Be honest. Don't think, well, I'm talking about myself so i know it's not bad, etc... If I posted saying my boyfriend was all of those things and hit me...would you tell me to stay? that it's not that bad? I don't think you would. Please. You need to take care of your psychological-and physical-well being.
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    Im in a long-distance relationship, too... same problem. We get along great when we're together, but over the phone, we constantly snap at each other. I think it's because we can't see each other's faces (if they're being sarcastic, can't see the smile...maybe they're just tired and sound "down"). The only sure way to prevent this is less phone time. BUT that's hard, didn't work for me as I talk with my boyfriend a couple of times per day. Try having several short conversations throughout the day as opposed to one looong one. Make the conscious effort to realize "Okay, I'm overreacting. She isn't p*ssed off at me. " because 98% of the time, she probably isn't and vice versa.
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    I don't understand. What makes it so you two are even "in a relationship"? 1. she makes you sleep in a closet!!!. Last time I checked, when you live with a significant other, you share a bed! At least you would have your OWN bed! 2. She is intimate without you. Meaning, she won't let you be around her when she masturbates. 3. She, more or less, acts as a prostitute. In exchange for (bad) sex, you have to do things for her (dishes, cleaning, etc) 4. She has an internet boyfriend. In my opinion, physical or not, emotional cheating is just as bad, if not worse, as physical cheating. So does she not have a job? Who pays the rent? If it's you working, paying the rent...you are ENTITLED to a bed to sleep in at night! She needs to start pulling her weight. Even if she doesn't work, she should be doing the housework, cooking, laundry, etc. I understand she's had an abusive past, but there's nothing you can do to change that. It's something she needs to get over on her own, with some intense therapy. It seems to me that her ex's abusive tendencies are rubbing off on her and in turn, she is becoming very abusive to you. I am very sorry you have to deal with this. I can't even imagine how hard this has been on you. It's not going to be simple, but you NEED to get out of this toxic relationship!!! I truly wish you the best of luck
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    wow... I am so sorry about your situation. Although I'm a bit younger, 19, my parents were the EXACT same way when I came home from college for the semester (not in the religious aspects but in the control issues). They literally wouldn't let me out of the house. I had to beg and plead. Eventually, they would but I would have to be home by 11PM!!! I went from coming and going as I please down at school to being held captive at my parents' house. How did I solve this? Reminding them constantly that I am not 14 years old. I am a mature, responsible adult... that didn't work... So I started staying out later and later. They would get mad, try to ground me (!!!). Finally, I moved in temporarily with a friend. It made them SO mad at first... but after a while, they said I could move back in AND have my freedom. I still have to tell them where I'm going and who I'll be with but good lord...it's 10 billion times better than being kept on such a tight leash. In addition to moving out, I also took them with me to my therapist, who explained to them that I wasn't a little girl anymore. They had to let go.
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    It sounds like your wife has some serious depression. I also read that they put her on Zoloft. Be VERY careful with this medication. It does wonders for many people, but for some (me), it causes suicidal ideations. I acted on mine and spent 2 weeks in the hospital. Make sure she doesn't drink while on it. This, I believe, is why I had such a horrible side effect. I'm sure she will be fine on it, but just wanted to warn you to be careful
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    A great online bra-retailer for women of ANY size: link removed seriously...if you're huge like me, they have bras that aren't in style for 60yr old women. They're actually sexy and stylish (a little on the expensive side though)... and if you're smaller chested, there are TONS and TONS of cute ones..
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    I would gladly give you 3/4 of mine!!! I'm a 34DDD. completely naturally. It SUCKS! They are so heavy, get in the way of everything. Instead of "elbowing" people, I "boob" people. If I had the choice of being super flat and slim or super huge boobs and average-ish....I would choose the former in a second.... why is it we always want what we can't have? Even when I do lose weight, the boobs stay exactly the same...which makes me look even more out of proportion!!! I had to start wearing a bra in 4th grade!!!
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    thanks for the female ejaculation 101 BTR.. I'm definitely going to try this on Thursday night when I next see my boyfriend gives me something to look forward to!! (along with his company, of course )
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    I've read that you can train yourself to do it but I'm not sure how to. I'd like to know how because I've also read that it can intensify your orgasms. According to most guys I've talked to, a majority find it very hot and any guy who thinks you "peed" on him is an idiot.
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    What did the superintendent have to say? Was he/she supportive and willing to take action? Great for filing a report. Did the police station say whether or not they were going to take immediate action? It must be such a hard time for you and your daughter Im sorry. Self-defense is a great thing for a young girl to learn, whatever the reason may be for starting it. I suppose it's probably a good thing she doesn't want to hit people
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    That's how my parents raised me. I very rarely got spanked ( I can think of only one time, when I ran out in front of a busy road). They gave me time outs and took away privilages... but thoroughly discussed with me what I did wrong, how it was wrong, why i did it, etc.... Let me tell you, not being able to have a sleepover or stay up to watch TGIF made a HUGE impact on me... I almost never repeated my "offenses".
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    wow, how rude... Where does he get the nerve to say things like that to you when he doesn't even live on his own, still relies on your parent(s)? I would definitely call him on it next time he says something. You don't deserve to be talked to like that.
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    everyone makes a very good point, which i definitely agree with.. BUT...yes, I have felt that from time to time (just letting my imagination run wild...)...and I just have to STOP myself and say "okay...you are being ridiculous and unreasonable. there is a reason they broke up and a reason he is with you now"... take the time to really think about why you're jealous
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    oh. my. god. is he serious? "don't ever feel like you need to "getme back" for things in the future.....just knowing you are with me andwe're having fun, that's all that matters" yeah because he's OBVIOUSLY the one who's been paying for everything and supporting you (thick sarcasm) how could anyone be this dense? seriously? good lord........
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    well, my first question is are you on any type of medication? Many anti-depressants, after a while, will make you feel "numb", exactly everything you just described...
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