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i would give her a time table. Seems that she maybe reaching your limits of your generousity. eg, 1 month to get a job 3 months to move out.

the realization that we are not victims unless we allow ourselve to become victims. Decisions has to be made to get out of a situation, outcomes may be good or bad which is irrigradeless because i got strenght from making decisions and moved from being a victim to a fighter. What have you accomplished in your life?

You are not alone but niether are you helpless! realise to able to move on from where you are, YOU will need to make your own DECISIONS! and to accept the consequences of those decisions. It may hurt alittle but you will be able to move on. Sitting there whining and not doing anything makes you a victim, 'helpless'. You choose not to move or to grow. Eventually people around will get tired of it and move on away from you. THey aren't to blame YOU are. SO you have a choice. TO move or not to move, but remember you are not alone until you choose to be helpless then no one can help you.

i work in the media industry but that is bexide the point. exeryone is awake during that day and this problem is killing my drive and my potenial to meet people.

Well, sorry about the crp you are going through. We ll make mistakes, it is something that is necessary in life The only advice i can give you is this, dont be helpless, don't let yourself be helpless. Comig here is great for getting advice but to actually movo on you have to make YOUR OWN decisions a live with it. Good or Bad. It actually helps you move on with things faster. As for the southern gentleman, "when you are ready."

This really bothers me, during that dy i cant focus or work properly. But at night i can really focus Some people say that i might have attention problems, but when i can focus i really do great work. It is so frustrating. Someone help!! btw. i am way past my teensage years.

i havent been to one but i would like to know if anyone here has been to one and felt guilty going to one? Has anyone been with a escort whilst the ar ein a relationship and did it affect your relationship. Did yo become better at sex after being with an escort.???

"I have heard that all before". WHo hasnt heard that one before when trying to explain how we are feeling when apologising for a situation? They might have heard it all before but have they really head it all before? Or is it that they arent getting it. Which of us are guilty of saying that only to realise that though we have heard it all before we didnt "get it"?? and accused our SO of apologising for doing that same thing again when actually it maybe the same situation but we arent getting our partners perspectives?

Hi all, it has been sometime. I suppose that i am the women in this particular situation. I am complainting that my GF doesnt open up. How do you get a woman that is closed off to express herself? She finds talking about friends and general life mundane so she doesnt enjoy talkig about it. I am finding it harder and harder having things to talk to her about. It is the small talk that means so much to me but boring to her. Trying to have her talk about her past is nearly impossible! having her talk about the future is impossible! but yet she says loves me, we talked about ending the relationship and it is she that didnt want to do it. What am i not seeing?? what am i doing wrong? If i am not doing anything wrong, how do i improve this situation?

it the risk of sounding like the dalai lama, i think it would be better to forgive him. It is a strange thing hanging on to anger, it consumes you. I'll bet occasionally you think of your ex and you feel sad and angry which basically makes you unhappy. i know it isn't easy, but if you can accept it as a mistake and a bad judgment on his behalf you can let it go easier. Things happen for good reasons, you were meant to be. Good luck. set yourself free.

expectations changes as the relationship moves on. The differences in expectation in a new relationship and a married relaionship is totally different and it is different from person to person and couple to couple.. I expect my girlfriend and i to see/talk to each other eveyday when she or i are on a business trip. It is my requirement, it keeps us communicating and also allows us to share but from her perspective, it can be draining. So it is something to be negociated about, neither is right or wrong. There is no simple answer

i have normal working hours, but during that day i feel really tired. I MEAN i have having problems to stay awake. I have realised that i sleep really well dring the day. Must be a security thing. I suppose my ucle showig me a dracula movie when i was 10 and scared the sh!t otta me and maybe i stil have the fear there. (if a igrl ask me, i will deny it!)

maybe you are being too picky?? i am not saying that you should be a * * * *, but maybe you shouldnt look at it as finding the ONE, but look at it as experiencing diffent ones. Go out with all kinds of guys ust avoid the drug takers etc. but guys of all sorts. You may accidently find the ONE where you didnt expect to find him. Good LUCK!

he isn really to setle down i think. THe thing about expats in asia, they feel that the are not reaaly themselves, i dont know how to explain it. What yopu may have is a cultural differnce in the way a relationship moves. Asians are different that way, when an asian decides to have a relationship they put their trust and loyolity at 1000 percent on that person. I suppose western culture is different, where they loyolity and trust is slowly built. So from an asain point of view, you are having a relationship but not having a relaitonship because it isnt commited. That part maybe where you guys may have problems. Other then that, he may not be into you and maybe you are just the asian thing. If you think you are not getting anywhere with this guy, i suppse it is time to step back and reaccess the situation on whether he is the one for you and if you are competible. Good luck

Hi all, does anyone her ehave problems sleeping at night but no problems sleeping during daylight hours???

You can say that if you are a man and with sufficient amounts of money I assume that you are a man because you never mentioned about the female biological clock that is winding down. It adds a whole different dynamics to the problem. "Find the person who wants the same thing at that time and go for it", how many people do you see can find the right person at any point in their lives. Finding the right person is hard and rare, finding the right person when you timer is running low is a bigger challenge! Even if ouare ready now you might have passed up Mr right 3 years ago Being single is so easy to say but so hard to do. Most of the time singles will hop into bed with someone just to get the intimate feeling and then move on. That doesnt make then strong and single, it makes them selfish and needy because they just take and dont give back unless they are so damn good in the sack (which i doubt cos F#$king is F#$#ing having great sex relies on trust) IMO

muy opinion, since you broke up with him. dont be his friend and tell him that. maybe in the future but rightnow you dont like him. Dont answer his calls avoid any contact. He might become mean but ignor him. It will make him realise there is not future and he will be ablle to move on. sometimes it is good the be cruel.

I have always wanted to be single until i found love. Now I always want to be loved but i am always single.

mwhahaha!. confidence, new found freedom, blahblah blah Tattoos?? whatever...i few year we'll ll be complaintig about the tatoes, freedom and independence... all we will want is to be attached to someone, security, company soulmates... and blah blah blah, What you re gong thru is a kid in the candy store syndrome. when u have eaten enough candy you be sick of it !!! Like a few already said, they got maried!!1 back to the same routine but with a better relationship. Am i sounding negative??

Trust is so hard to build and so easy to lose. Sometimes you dont even know that you have lost it. When trust is lost, you have to remember that you are back to less then Zero. You are going to have to put up with all the insecurities, the untrusting questions (that never been asked except at the starting of a relationship) the frustration. Basically everything that has something to do with trust is going to be put into question. Who said that because he has lost trust in you that it is only his problem? Both of you have to make the decisions to build that trust again from scratch. Which means that he has to put the effort to trust you again, and you will have to put in the effort to build that trust which means answering to where you are and with whom you are with. About you making friends. The thing is, if you go out with friends, my advice is to come back to him and tell him everything. Keep doing that till he get tired of it, and when he tires of it he basically trust you in that area. Dont leave out things, dont censor, tell him everything. Yes it is like reporting to someone, but that is just it. You have to do this crap. Basically, keep him up to date about everything. Gossip to him. whatever. Just keep ihim in the loop at all times. Yes it can become a control thing after a while. That is why you give it a time limit. Gaining trust back is awfully hard. It can feel you just have to keep proving yourself. That is why most people just give up. As for abuse, No one has the right to verbally or physically abuse you. Point it out that you did do something wrong nd you are willing to put in the effort to build the relations again, but that doesnt mean that he can abuse you. Good luck. As i say again, keep himin the loop at all times. He is not some much controlling you but want you to tell hi everything and not miss out anything.

oh yeah You should not have to use too many ultimatums. If you do, you are in the wrong relationship! I believe that in a relationship, you are given the privilege of having 2 ultimatums. Use them wisely, use them well.

YOu have done well and to be honest you hve nothing to be ashamed of. Your family is your family. They are screwed somewhat but you should not be embrassed about who you are. If this topic is giving you so much anxiety, it is best to pull him aside and sit him down to prepare him about how YOU feel about what you are going to tell him. I dont think it is about your family, i think it is more about YOUR own embrassment towards your family.

OK guy, This is what i have been wondering, When does dirty talk come in? What is 'dirty' a turn ON and what is 'dirty talk' a totally turn off?? What do you guys say when talking dirty to your partner? This is a serious question so pls dont delete it.

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