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hey all, sorry i read these a bit late, i was busy, but thank u sooo much!!! u all helped me, and im off to check the websites some of u put thank u again!!!
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i understand that, and im a true believer in not beliving that things r perfect, but i also believe that our partner needs to be as perfect as they can be for us, not "societies perfect", but OUR perfect, the "perfect" match for us. my point is...how do u know that the person your with is "the one" and that theres no one better...how do u know that person is the best for you?
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if you suppposedly love a person, their not perfect, they have their flaws but u love them and they love u and treat u right do u eventually marry that person? or do u break up and hope somebody that IS perfect will come along?
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hi shes2smart, I totally understand what your saying and i honestly try to be the appyest person and i try to think positive but my bad temper just wont allow me to, it sux and its a bad habbit and i know i can change it, u seem like a smart person...is there anyway i can trick my mind or do something..ANYTHING to make me realise i dont have to stress out over every little thing!?
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hey, uve gotten a few replies so u might nto read mine, but i just wanted to tell u that no matter how much your hurting on the inside, no physical pain, will EVER make it better. i use to be somewhat suicidal before, when i was about 15 or 16. because i use to get in the worst problems and i thought that i would never get out of them, eventually i started to realise that after every ba dthing that happened to me, something good would happen, it wouldnt always happen, but it sometimes would, life is FULL of ups and downs, but just because the downs r the worst, doesnt mean u have to stay there...on the contrary, get up from the downs, and proove to yourself that nothing will bring u down again! i feel there is a black curtain over you, and seems to me like everything i say or anyone else says will not get trhough to you, so all i can tell u is that the ABSOLUT BEST person who can help u, is you. u r the only one that will be able to get u out of this, just use our help as motivation good luck!!
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i know this is almost imposible, considering life and its ups and downs, but i need ur help, motivation of some sort, i want to at least TRY to feel happy every day of my life, i just feel its a waste if i dont, maybe not even be extreamly happy, but just be satisfied with myself, the ppl around me, the things i do, my life overall...any suggestions? quotes? experiences? poems? i need motivation that will hopefully last a life time, so please anything u have can help. i just want to live everyday as if it were my last, live it to the max. thank u! p.s. i get quite frustrated and angry easily, (which is probably y i have a hard time finding happyness so if any of u have some sort of "cure" for that, ID BE ENTERNALLY GRATEFUL! im open to all ideas! THANK U!!
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hiya...well it seems like uve got a bit of a problem, but to sum it all up i just basically think the best thing for u to do, is keep going with your life, being ALWAYS very respectful, it doesnt matter how much ppl hate u or how they bother u or treat u badly(as long as theres no extreme physical or emotional harm) u should always be respectful and kind to others, maybe not now...but eventually they will see that u r a good friend, and overall a good person and they'll miss u, it just takes time to see that, and when they do realise that, its better for them to feel bad and say "oh, i should have been nicer to her, she was always kind" than for them to say, "i should have been nicer, but she was a b*tch to me, so it doenst matter" About your friends that think ur annoing, there r always gonna be those kind of ppl in the world, the kind that dont appreciate things, and simply dont care, the ones that seem that their only purpuse in life is to make your life miserable, dont let them make it that way, if u do, then it would just be giving them their way wouldnt it? u keep going with ur life, enjoy 6th form, concentrate on school, do what YOU want to do. its your life, there is absolutley no reason y u should depend on ppl that dont even visit u when your ill...live life to teh fullest...take care!
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another one of those note things that would be cute, would be to put it in their jacket, in their pocket and when they go get something they'll see it. or i think its cute when randon pl come up to u and say "____ says he loves u" so just tell someone to tell him that or something.
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i know day dreaming is "normal" when ur tired and what not, but i dunno wuts wrong with me, i feel like im on drugs (which im not) but lately ive been sooo...dreamy...i just will doze off, while im awake and think about whatever and be totally in my world, not so much to be like autistic or anything! i know that for a fact, but its just relaxing. but sometimes its bad cuz ppl will be talking to me and ill just daze off and wont know what they said, cuz im thinking about something else, or im telling a story and ill just totally forget what i wanted to say, is this ..."normal"?? and im not tired or anything, maybe i have too much on my mind? y is this happening?
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that behaviour usually comes from some kind of sititution, im no psicologist, but i assume that thosse kinds of behaviours dont just show up out of nowhere, they have some sort of roots, maybe when u were a TINY child, 1-2 years old, something happened to u or someone did somehting to u, and u just dont rememeber, but that still stays in your brain, and eveyrthing that gets in your way, u resolve it with violence, because of that incident, all i can say is im glad u realised that that was wrong and stopped doing it, if nothing happened to u, then maybe it was just a reaction from watching violent films, or things like that, something had to provoke it, im pretty positive u werent just BORN a violent child. i say just try to forget about it and be glad ur over that fase Concerning your soon to be motherhood, as i said before, im no psicologist but i DOUBT that ppl r just BORN that way, they have to have some sort of stimulant to make them feel that anger, so i say just be very careful with ur child, no violent films, no being aggressive with anyone, dont let him/her SEE any aggressiveness, remember that kids abosorb information like a sponge! so anything u do or dont do will influence them. just act as any precautious parent would do, and im absolutely sure u and your child will be fine!! good luck!!
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hey, well i think ur right about if a girl wants to have sex with a lot of guys she should just be with a stud, and if she really loves u she shouldnt mind who she has sex with....anyway... PERSONALLY, i wouldnt want to have sex witha guy because hes a virgina nd doenst knwo how, if anything id be scared of taking his virginity, because i know he will always remember me, but not because he wouldnt knwo how, believe me, ive taken 2 guys' virginity and they know how to do it, its just kind of natural...hope i helped bye
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i was drunk and i kissed her just for the fun of it, and its not like i cant commit to him, i would never have done it with a boy, because I FEEL that with a boy, it implies some sort of follow through, a kiss with a boy, doesnt usually end with a kiss, theres usually something MORE there. with a girl, FOR ME, its just a kiss and were still friends and whatever, life goes on.
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OH GOD NO!!!, i dunno how old u r or your mothers age. But NOO, its FINE if he lets u go out!! i love to have my freedom, i mean at least your inviting him!! it would be bad if u DIDINT invite him and he just stayed at home. but ur doing absolutley noting wrong, i believe in love and having a good relationship, but a very important thing about that is to have your own space. yes, u might really love each other, and be a whole, bla bla, but when it comes down to it, ur 2 different ppl who happen to have 2 lives!! and part of your life includes him, but u also have friends, school, work, or what not. its totally fine to go out with your friends, its good to have your own space every once in a while.
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i have a bf but yesterday i kissed a girl and she gave me a hickey on my neck and my parents saw it and they didnt think anything of it, cuz they thinks it was my bf, and my brother saw it as well, and hes young and i dont want him to tell my bf anything cuz i dont want him to know!! and for my bf thats as good as cheating on him even if it was with a girl! and i dont know what to do if he finds out! ps. any GOOD tips for getting rid of hickeys?...FAST
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awww i think its really cute, i love colours and t seems like u really express them in your poem, its no shakespeare, but its totally cute and fun! i like it alot!! good job!
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well, ive had a few bf's and theyve been fine, but ive ALWAYS had this problem: i can go out with a guy as many times as ud like and id feel nice and id love the guy bla bla bla...but once he asks me to be his gf, and i accept...i dunno if its pressure or what...but i start regreting eveyrthing like: oh i shouldnt have said yes. and i get kinda nervous and uncomfortable around that person...and its not just a specific person, its every bf ive had! and i know that feeling eventually goes away...which is why i always deal with that feeling and never say anything..but y is that!? what am i so nervous about? and like i said, im totally fine with going out with the guy and holding hands and everything B4 we r somethinng official...y is that?
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well, i can only tell u a few things, im kinda shy but anyone who knows me will probably tell u the absolute opposite. but i can assure u that i am WAY shier with a guy i really like, its just pressure for me to act perfect, so that the guy will like me. i really dont know what to tell u about this girl though, since i dont know her at all, it could be 2 things: 1. she likes u alot, shes just too shy to talk to u, and when u didnt talk to her she was probably sad and thats y she didnt talk to u or even smile 2. she doesnt like u at all, and shy ppl tend to be nice, so by smiling shes just trying to be nice so those r 2 really different answers...but it could be either one. i say talk to her, just one day be like hey, ur cute bla bla or u knwo what! write her a letter and leave it somewhere she will see it. just soemthing really short, ur cute, i like u, hope we can talk later or something. or talk to one of her friends! that always works! just to at least find out if the girl knows who u r!! u need some kind of information!
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hmm well i think its mainly a psicological problem u have here, ur just paranoid because of what ur last bf did, and its totally normal and undertsandable. First of all, i think its normal that he doesnt say as much wonderful things to u as he use to, because in a relationship, the first step is to "reel" that person in, and OVERAPRECIATE them, so they know u care. and hes done that, and its not that he stopped caring, i hope its just that hes realized that u both r a kind ov couple, and, also (U KNOW MEN!) they think its ok if they dont have to CONSTANTLY remind u how much they care, they assume that u already know, and u should know! anyway, solution: BE YOURSELF! wether his friends like u or not...r u dating his friends? i didnt think so! your dating him, and as long as your comforatble with him and hes comfortable with u, then thats fine, u can even maybe make a lil comment on your behaviour such as: " i kinda get shy around your friends" just so he knows thats not the REAL u. i say YOU should remind him that u love him/like him whatever...nice things, so he KNOWS u appreciate him but remember alot of ppl get frustrated easily and dont like to be constantly stuck to their partners, so also know when to give him his space. a relationship is tricky, but u can basically get the idea of wut u should do, depending on how hes acting example: if u hold his hand and he isnt gripping u very well, gently let go, let him make the move next time. things like that. if thats not working then deffinately talk to him. hope i helped bye!
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i say try it! theres is nothing wrong with trying something, maybe u guys tried once and it didnt work out, but i say EVERYONE deserves a second chance. but go really slow, nice and easy, dont be in a rush. believe me u have a whole lifetime! and it seems like she really loves u. just pretend shes a new person, start over as u would with anyone new. what happened between u 2 before, consider it as an advantage: u know her alot better than an average girl. THATS GOOD! just keep it nice and easy.
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Friend with ex?
PersonalMe replied to Southern_Belle's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
when u say " oh this friend in my class has this really cool pen(or whatever)..." do u really mean that that person is your friend!? or do we just call them friends...? i think that there r sooo many levels of "friends" but to keep it simple: there r a) your best friends, which u see all the time know eveyrthing about and tell them eveyrthing, b) your friend friends which r the ones u see quite alot, theyre really nice, cool ppl but its not like u hang out with them every weekend! and c) there r your not so friend friends, which r the ppl u know and say hi to, but never say anything more to them! i think the ex would def land somewhere in between the b) friend friends and the c) not so friend friends...ppl say it all the time!!!!: "we have a really good relationship, but it would be soo much better if we were just friends dont ya think?" i think its just an excuse, OBVISOULY (like in everything...) there r exceptions, but most of the time, i think its just a way of saying "i really dont want to see you anymore, but maybe if i tell u that we'll be friends, u wont get too mad at me for breaking up with u" ...but think about it!! if ur relationship was kind ov ok, but u just dont want to deal with it anymore, what r u gonna tell your partner?: "u know what, im soo sick of u, get out of my face!" obviously not, u gotta let em down slowly...the truth hurts. -
Brothers Best friend likes me
PersonalMe replied to metallicachica247's topic in Relationship Advice
i say just tell him that u really do like someone else and he likes u...and the kiss was just part of the game, u never thought it would mean something real!...which sounds totally cool, cuz i mean it was a game! right!? just say: "i thought we were really good friends, i never thought of us as anything more, i like u sooo much as a friend" bla bla bla...and just tell him it was a game. i think that will work. just take it really calmly, like u thought it was no big deal. hope i helped bye! -
why is he taking so long to ask me!?
PersonalMe replied to PersonalMe's topic in Relationship Advice
well the thing is...where i come from, u have to make it official, and i mean he DOES NOT consider me his gf at all, i mean he knows were purely "friends waiting to become something" everyone does...but i just dont understand what hes waiting for? we have eveything we need to move on...i dunno. and i dont want to ask him, cuz a week ago his friend told me he was going to ask me, so ive just been waiting hoping that tomorrow will be the day that he asks me, and i would ask him, but i dont want to ruin his plan...so im just waiting... -
hey, ive been seeing this guy, younger than me, for about 2 months, hes kinda shy but holds my hand when w go out and stuff, weve never kissed cuz he wants to "respect me" bla bla..whatever, i think its a nice lil detail, but hes taking SOOOO long to ask me to be be his gf...WHY IS THAT!? and everyone tells him to ask me out..but he just doesnt do it, and he says he likes me and he says he IS going to ask me, but i mean...ive been waiting and waiting...he just says hes slow at these kind of things...and i like him soo much...and i told him id wait for when he was ready but hes taking soo long...its not like hes asking to marry me! (also consider im gonna be his first real gf) ..what do i do?
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hey, i know its hard cuz your shy...but get out there!! go to parties, meet ppl!! be loud!!...your in uni!! ENJOY IT! do soemthing for YOU...listen to music, paint, read a good book, watch a film, distract yourself!! and dont be shy...shyness is soo horrible, i was shy, believe me...but u just have to go for it!....a person who cant take risks, cant win anything.
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hey, well i personally think race is an important issue, im not racist and i hate racism, but we should also think that free speach is also very important, i PERSONALLY think your bf's views are "wrong", but in this world, who knows whats wrong and right anymore. I think that as long as he doesnt HURT ANYONE physically or emotionally, it should be fine for him to have his personal view on this subject, as should a person who is TOTALLY againts racisim, we all have different views and its ok, but like i said and it is VERY important: for him not to cross the line between thinking something and actually DOING or SAYING something about it. so just be careful about that. If you can, try to see where he gets these ideas from...why does he think jews are "lower class" or whatever? is it a personal thing? did a jew do somehting to him? or is it just "in general"? because also make him see that EVEYRONE in this world is different, just because a person with green eyes stole someones wallet, DOES NOT mean that EVERY SINGLE person with green eyes, steal wallets...get my point? hope i helped bye!