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  1. hi, that was really strong, i really felt that...are you ok? if you ever want to talk, message me.
  2. hey, well i think the problems you are having is because of the loss you both are feeling, as well, as the fact that you're a teenager and maybe your mum is going through menopause, which means you both are having alot of hormone changes, and its hard to talk to us women, when we have these little problems, i think its nice that you want to say sorry and i totally recomend it, but you say that when you try you just get into an argument again, i think you should try a different aproach, write her a letter with EVERYTHING you feel, that way she cant interrupt you while you're talking to start an argument, she'll just have to read the whole letter. i hope i helped bye!!
  3. i need help on being responsable, im going on 19, and i lose things all the time, (ie. money) and im sooo lazy, and im going to univsersity in september, all by myself, no parents no noone to help me! i cant be like this anymore! and i need these last few months to learn to be 100% independent, i know its an experience thing, its not like you can take lessons for it. but any suggestions? any experiences that made you more independent? HELP ME PLEASE!
  4. hm, well all my guys have always done the precum thing, and ive talked to them about it and they say its normal, so i think all guys should do it, also maybe he does it right before he comes, and thats why you dont even feel it, it doesnt necesarily mean he has to do it way before he cums, and if your having trouble, tyr using some lotion, or vaseline to help the lubrication and just say that you want it so that he can feel better, im sure he wont mind.
  5. yea something that wont be fattening...would help more thanx
  6. whats this about pinapple juice for taste? as in if someone licks you it'll taste good? how does this work? how long before or about how many times should you drink it before your partner goes down on you?
  7. what can fill u up? if suppose you dont have a lot of money, and are really hungry, does bread and water do the trick? cuz it "inflates" you. just at least until you eat your proper meal? is eating bread with water bad? but will it make you fat? cuz of the starch....any information on this topic can help thanx bye!!!
  8. hi, well im a girl, obviously i have a vagina, but does anyone know how to make that horrible, vagina smell go away? or at least make it a bit prettier smelling? anything at all that is effective, will help thank you very much bye!!!
  9. hi,im a girl, and my best friend is a boy, weve been best friends for 2 and a half years, its our last year in high school and i have to admit, we have had problems in the past, nothing grave, hes just very sentimental, and im very proud, weve always had our colisions and gotten over them, but now, i feel like our whole friendship is falling apart, and i have no idea why, for the last 2 weeks, weve been fighting everyday! i`ll ask him something and hell respond in a kind of sentimental/angry way and ill get angry because i know hes angry at me for soemthing, but he denies it and swears that eveyrthing is TOTALLY FINE!...and just stupid things like that, and weve tried talking but we just end up saying "we`ll both change and we wont get angry anymore" and the next day the same thing happens!...what the hell is going on? i feel like im going crazy!! y cant we just have a normal friendship like we use to? PS this is JUST A FRIENDSHIP, weve talked about the whole having feelings for each other, but it does not go farther than a friendship, please understand....and please help!
  10. ive had 3 bfs, one: i broke up because he was just a jerk, he just treated me with out the respect i deserved, no infidelity, but just...ugh it makes me angry just thinking about it!...ok next, 2nd one, was soo sweet, but soo shy, and i needed more comunication from him, and i didnt like his shyness (he didnt even hold the 3rd one was because of age, he was just way younger than me, and a bit immature, and i dated him just to feel loved and now, im seeing the 2nd one again, and things couldnt be going better! now that weve known each other for longer he opens up so much! hes not shy anymore, and we talk abotu eveyrthing! although were not officially dating, its just nice to talk to someone.
  11. hi, well i havent lived in a situation like that, but all i can tell u is i think u should maybe try to look for a female figure, a teacher, a neighbor, an aunt, your dads girl friend, someone u can talk to, and if there is still no one remember, u always have friends! if theres still no one after that, remember u have me here for whenveer u need me, and a lot of other ppl on this web site! also i know it must be hard, but remember that ur mother didnt treat u nicely, so, i personally dont think its not your mother who u r missing, what u need is just a female figure. take care bye!
  12. hi, well it sounds like ur going through a rough time, im sorry. well i think everything happens for a reason, and it seemed like he really liked you. so i think he didnt tell u because HE was too hurt, and on top of that he didnt want to hurt u, although i know he did. maybe he just didnt want to make it so difficult, and thought it would be "easier" to just leave" or maybe, it was an emegency and he might come back, i think now all u can do is wait to see what happens. good luck take care bye!
  13. hi, well i guess it all depends on the girl, if shes a real party animal type, id suppose shed like u to initiate, but if shes a bit shy then maybe she likes to initiate cuz thats the only time she feels comfortable kissing u. also it depends how much u like each other for exmp: i was once in a relationship which i didnt really like, so obviously i didnt like the guy kissing me too much, but now im in a relationship, and i love the guy, and i think the best thing he can do is initiate a kiss, I LOVE THAT! but in your case, u say shes started the kisses b4, so i think shell TOTALLY love u kissing her! TOTALLY go for it! dont be scared! and when ur in a situation like that: that u think she might think u just want to make out, just give her a lil kiss, a SWEET CUTE kiss, ya know, kissing doesnt always have to be vulgar or whatever, it can be so sweet and so apropriate at times! good luck!
  14. well im going to uni in june, and itll be the first time im all by myself (no parents) i was wondering, since many of u r older: do u have any tips? just ANYTHING, little or big, just things that u would have liked to know before u went to college by yourself. anything from social things, to career things, id appreciate it! thank u! PS im really excited so hopefully u wont say anything too drastic that might scare me! thanx!! bye!
  15. thank u! that was helpful...this is the kind of stuff i need guys!!...keep it up!!
  16. ive smoked for a while now, and im angry for doing it, because i had already quit. how u can help: tell me ANYTHING thats really gross, bad for your health, personal expieriences, anything that will help me quit, i can do anything i put my mind to, i know that, but i just need a lil encouragement. thank u!
  17. i deffinatley think u should talk to him ..or make a simple question like "when we have sex? what do u think of?" and see if he tells u soemthing like a teenager or something, obviously he wont tell u at the first try, but just keep talking about it, or ask him how he feels about teen porn and why. conversation should be the best solution.
  18. well, ive had my tongue pierced twice and i had it doen in the exact same spot, and nothing happened, i actually did it myself (kinda stupid i know) but nothing happeend, it didnt get infected at all, and if u get it done at a profesional place, im sure it will be fine. as for belly rings, i PERSONALLY dont like them, i just love my tummy TOO MUCH to have a hole going threw it, i dont find them at all attractive, but if u do, then i say go for it! whatever pleases u is most important.
  19. what i did, and i think is most simple: i stored eveyrthing in a box, in my closet, somewhere i couldnt see very easily, and sometimes id look at them...but not often! and time pases, and there came a day when i saw them and decided i was over him and didnt need the things, so i just threw em out. TIME IS THE BEST HEALER
  20. i honestly feel uncomfortable when guys ask for a number really quickly, im a bit more reserved and if a random guy asks for my number id NEVER give it to him, because id think that all he was looking for was soemthng else, although i tend to think all guys r looking for sex. it also depends on how he aproaches me, and if i like the guy or not. you, as a male, can usually be able to read the girls body language, if shes looking at your eyes, and is paying attention to you, then u should ask for it, if shes looking away or changing the subject or what not, dont ask for it...i dont think the number of times u talk to her matters, i think its more about how u feel and how she feels.
  21. im sry...im a female...ill put it on my profile
  22. ive kissed girls and boys, but to get turned on, i have to think of 2 girls together. ive never had a gf, and ive had 2 bfs. but i never feel comletley comfortable with having one. i dunno if its because its a boy, or if its because im just scared of commitment...the point here is...how am i suppose to know if im really gay or bi? and if i am, how do i accept it? and no offence...but that whole "think of how u feel" thing doesnt work for me because i DONT know how i feel, thats why im asking for help. thank u
  23. well, ive dated this guy for 2 months before, in june. but now i kinda like him again, and he flirts with me and i flirt back, but plus hes soo shy soemtimes and hes a hard-to-read person, u kinda dont know what hes feeling, and i dont want to ask him cuz i dont want to make eveyrthing akward and ruin our new friendship...we broke up before cuz of my stupid weird feelings i get of not wanting to be commited to someone, and he hated me for a while and i dont want him to again. but if i have the chance...should i try being with him again?
  24. well, i know its hard, and sux, and nobody really likes to do it..but it really think its the best thing to do: TALK TO HER! ask her why she has lost interest, maybe she hasnt even noticed she does it! but if she has, just talk to her in a nice calm way say something like i think a relationship should be about 2 people, and those 2 ppl have to cooperate, and i love you so much, but i dont want to be the only one cooperating, do u think u can be more cooperative in the relationship? or do you just want to leave it here?" i think that would be a perfect start to a conversation, because she should also learn that communication, especially with your bf is the best thing u can do, and also, dont let her off so easily, byt saying "yes, no" make her talk to you, and let her make you understand what shes feeling. hope i helped bye!
  25. well i really love clothes, but i have quite a collection, and i dont want to buy anything new, but is there anyway i can improve the way i dress? just a much more realxed style, vintage or something, i like the new style of fashion which is like lots of layers of clothing and mixing and matching things that dont really match, but yet it still looks really cute...any ideas of how i can let my imagination flow? or make it easier for me to match things differently?
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