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  1. jna35
    Well, I'm assuming heis out of high school. Personally, I think at this point in your life the age can make a difference because you are at different stages. Every situation is unique. I wouldn't have wanted a guy I'm interested in to call me "kiddo!" That's something my brother would call me! I know you really like him, but I would suggest that you look for a guy closer to your own age. That doesn't mean that you can't keep him as a friend.
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    From what you've said it seems to me like it's a one way relationship on your part. He doesn't seem to give you the time of day unless he needs something and that isn't healthy. You're not even sure if you love him, so why not take a "break' for yourself and figure out if this is a relationship you really want to be in. He sounds VERY immature and I honestly don't think he's ready for a relationship. It's not about you. It's his issues. I would highly recommend taking a step back and let him figure things out. I know you are sad, but do you REALLY want to be with someone who shows so little respect for you? I would however let him know EXACTLY how he makes you feel and then go from there.
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    I don't see anything wrong with your hair now, but it's your opinion that counts. I understand that money is tight, but why not check into a place like Super Cuts? They have all kinds of magazines and books with hairstyles. That might help you decide what to do.
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    I also agree with what maggie said.
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    Unfortunately, there's always the risk that you will get hurt when entering any relationship. Before you make any decisions, sit down and have a heart to heart with him.
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    I'm sorry if you're hurting, but you are waaaaay better off with out him!!!! He sounds as though he has A LOT of growing up to do! Find someone who will respect you and treat you well!
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    Relationships can't be lived by books. They can offer lots of great advice, but as you know each one is unique. It would be so nice if we got a handbook for each one though! I sure could use one, lol! I don't know of any advice lines, although I'm sure there's one out there somewhere, but BE CAREFUL!! If I were your girl, I would rather have words from YOUR heart, not some service. Just a thought. Good luck!
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    Yikes!!! I am sorry you are hurting. I guess, it boils down to what YOU want for yourself? Are you willing to take the chance that he will stomp all over your heart again? I don't know as if I would rush right back in. I understand that you love him, but that said, it may be better to take some time to heal first. It just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. Love doesn't tear you down or treat you with disrespect, so keep that in mind. Good luck to you!
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    I agree with yokohama. I think it's important that you approach him in person. Why not pay him a visit? Why the concern that he lives next to the son of your boss? I say go for it, what have you got to lose?
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    That's an awful feeling!! Give yourself a break though, I mean your feelings are completely normal and understandable. If you feel like the depression is out of hand I would suggest talking to someone, like a counselor. They may be able to help you or point you in the direction of a support group.
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    You are sooooooo young!! How old is this guy? If your parents are going to allow you to date, I would keep it really casual. You don't want to get in over your head. If he has a girlfriend, don't get involved. It's not fair to any of you. Find a nice guy who is single. Remember, some guys will use all kinds of flattery to try to get what they want, so watch yourself!
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    I agree 100% with RayKay!
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    I'm sorry for your pain; that must be a horrible feeling!! You can't force someone to love you, which I know you understand. I know how hurt you are right now, but it really will get better. Do you have any friends you can have some fun with? Have you thought about putting your energies into something else, like volunteering, a hobby? I know that may seem like a simplistic answer, but it may help to get involved in something other than your pain. There is a guy worthy of your love and in time, when you least expect it, you'll find each other.
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    It's nice that you found someone you like. I would be a bit concerned about the age difference, but it's not a huge problem. I don't see the harm in going out on a casual date.
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    Have you had orgasms before? Without being on top? Through direct oral stimulation? What you are describing "sounds" like an orgasm. Just remember, not all orgasms are going to be the mind blowing ones like in When Harry Met Sally.
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    First off, I think it would have been nice if he could have relaxed for HIS sake, not yours. It sounds like he has a lot of stress that he's dealing with and just couldn't handle your sister's attitude. There's no crime in that. It's too bad that you didn't have as good of time as you would like, but if you're planning on being with this guy for the long haul then you best get used to the "bumps in the road." Sometimes stress gets the best of us. It's no one's fault, it just kinda happens. I don't particularly see why you resent your bf. He didn't act that way to hurt you- he's just stressed out!! If I were to be mad at anyone, I'd be mad at your sister for causing more undue stress!! I wouldn't worry about future vacations. Just because this one didn't turn out doesn't mean that all future ones will be ruined as well. I would acknowledge his feelings, give him a hug, and let it go!! Don't hold on to the petty things. They ruin relationships. Good luck!
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    I am sorry that you are hurting. To be honest, she's young and it sounds to me like she doesn't want a serious committment. She more than likely wants to go out and have fun, date other people, and not have any ties. Good luck to you and go out there and find a girl who will appreciate you!
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    First off, PLEASE get that notion out of your head that you want a guy to take care of you. No woman needs a man to take care of them. We need to learn to stand on our own two feet and care for ourselves. That said, boys that age do tend to be fairly immature. This isn't true for all boys. Of course he's not going to have a lot of experience since he's only 14 and this is more than likely new to him. If you like him, give him a chance. If not then you may just want to move on.
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    Outback- YUM!!!!! I'm glad you went out for that dinner!!! Hey, I wouldn't pass it up either! I like your sister! She's right on. This girl is flat out rude. You are too sweet and personally, I think you can do a whole lot better. I know oyu like her though, so hopefully that was her brother and you can get to the bottom of her strange behavior! Let me know what you find out.
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    First, I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage! Speaking from experience, I married at 19, I always try to dissuade people from marrying too young. It's a HUGE committment and I'm not saying it can't work, as a matter of fact I've been married for 17 years, but it's a tough road. I would suggest that you both finish your college educations, get yourselves situated with your careers and THEN plan your wedding. There's no rush. If you truly love each other that won't change. Good luck to you!!
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    I would suggest you get your own place!! Also, good for you for realizing how ignorant your parents' thoughts on people are!! I hope one day they realize that people are people and there are good and bad people in every race, shape and size. Maybe you can be instrumental in teaching them! Good luck!
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    He's in college and having fun. I think it would have been irresponsible had he stayed out all night and then bailed on work. From what you said he actually went to work, unless I misunderstood what you said. I wouldn't read too much into it. Long distance relationships can be hard, but trust in the love you share.
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    Everyone has a different feeling when it comes to porn. I wouldn't like it if I found it on my significant other's computer either. It's obvious you are not comfortable with him looking at it especially since it seems to be behind your back. I would talk to him and let him know how much it bothers you and why. If he respects you, he'll leave the porn behind or at least make a compromise you can both live with.
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    I think michelemybell said it perfectly!!
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    Is there a reason you feel the need to bring it up? I mean are you afraid of STDs or something? Was he having unprotected sex with them? If not, perhaps it's best to leave it alone unless it's something he wishes to share with you. You could be opening a can of worms. I would advise you to just use your best judgement.
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