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    Well, for starters, oral sex is "sexual," but you are asking about the bumps. It could just be a heat rash. Does it itch? Maybe give it a couple days and see if it goes away on its own. If it gets worse though or doesn't go away, see your doctor. P.S. If you aren't doing anything sexual your bf won't see.
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    Geez.... don't apologize for your spelling. We all knew what you meant I do the same thing. I get on a roll and don't really notice what I've typed. That question of love and infatuation is a good one! I think love is unconditional (well, should be), it's accepting, kind, gentle, and patient. For me, infatuation is more of a lustful thing. I'm sure you will get many different definitions. I think they mean different things to everyone. As far as conversations with shy people, just be patient. The more comfortable they are, the more they will open up!
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    I agree. I don't think it's too late to ask her out to dinner. Good luck to you!!
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    You know what, I'm sure he will find you just as attractive rash or nor rash. He obviously likes you. I know it can make you self conscious and I understand. It seems he already sees you as beautiful inside and out. Besides, I'm sure he has things that he's self conscious about too. I don't think there are many people that can say otherwise. Let us know what you find out.
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    First, congrats on your graduation!! I think the idea of summer classes is a real good one and it would get you out of the house and socializing again. Also, if you don't want to take up a hobby, have you considered doing some volunteer work? I want to wish you luck in college and I am sure you will make a ton of new friends and create many special memories!
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    I agree with Hope. No matter how you slice it, cheating is cheating!
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    I'm sorry that your mom didn't acknowledge your feelings about your rash- that's unthinkable to me!! I suffer from constant rashes. I've been dubbed a dermatologist's dream, lol! Sometimes I am embarrassed too, but the people that matter love me anyway. I suffer from eczema especially when I'm stressed. I manage mine real well now with various creams.I'm glad your friend convinced you to get it checked out, that's half the battle. It sounds to me like you probably do have either psoriasis or eczema, both are treatable by the way.. My sister suffers from both! I'm sure you will be fine and that your guy will accept you as you are. P.S. Any guy that would leave you or not want to be with you based on a skin condition is not worth your time.
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    Regardless of what you decide, just be safe!
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    VERY well said shes2smart!!
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    I don't want you to feel like you are being judged. You asked for advice on a VERY sensitive topic and a life altering one for you. We all care what happens to you and just want you to be able to see ALL the angles and possible consequences. Maybe he is a nice guy. We don't know him, so can't really say, but some of things oyu've told us send up some MAJOR red flags! If he's so nice, why not just get to know him and have fun. If he is a nice guy, he will respect you and won't mind waiting. Listen to RayKay's advice on the drug use. They can have very dangerous effects, not only on one's health, but their personality as well. We just don't want to see you get hurt.
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    You are going to hurt someone no matter what you do, but if you indeed care about your current bf then respect his feelings. I understand you are feeling torn, but remember the "grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence," Meaning, you may leave your bf and then regret it. P.S. Don't cut, that won't give you anything but scars. Trust me, been there, done that! Good luck. I know it's got to be a tough decision for you!!
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    Consider it done! I hope everything is O.K.!!
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    Here's a website that has the state consent ages- link removed Hope that helps.
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    Because under the law you are not old enough to "consent" to sex. He could be arrested for rape. Check out the website I posted. It'll give you a better idea and explain things. There is an age of consent, but it varies from state to state.
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    No problem Darkblue.
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    You can check out this site for a little info on statutory rape. link removed
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    It's considered statutory rape in the U.S. too!
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    You said it perfectly misery!!
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    Well, in response to your comment to me. I misinterpreted what you had said about "clean." It does have many definitions. As for my daughter and our relationship, we are VERY close and it's not a "show." You did not offend me. It would take a lot more than that! I hope you will at least consider what we have to say. We do have a bit of experience. Ultimately, the decision is yours. If you felt it was the right thing to do, I don't believe oyu would have posted to begin with. Good luck!!
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    Sorry, I have to respectfully disagree with you. She's much too young for that. I certainly wouldn't want to encourage her any further!
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    That said, I want to ask everyone something. 13 is clearly too young to be having sex, but when do most people usually have sex for the first time? Grade 11, 12, University? I think it depends on the individual. I was 19 and married.
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    P.S. Cleaniness doesn't mean you won't get an STD. You not knowing that, also shows you are NOT ready to do this!
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    First of all, you are only 13; You are NOT a prude for not having sex!!! Don't have sex with him just because you like him. He's on drugs for Pete sake!! Do you have any idea how dangerous that is? You may not like yourself much, which is quite evident from what you have said, but at least respect yourself enough to make a responsible decision. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will. You are looking at years of regret if you go through with this and lots of emotional damage. I think you should talk to your mom. I know if my daugher, (yes, I have one) was considering this, I would want to discuss it with her. We have an open relationship though based on trust. If you can't talk to her find another adult to offer you some guidance. Look, I am not passing judgement on you. I know that 13 is a hard age and peer pressure can be hard to deal with, but this is a life altering decision with very serious ramifications. PLEASE think long and hard because once you do it there's no going back!
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    RayKay took the words right out of my mouth- well said!!!
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    jna35 replied to desertgirl's topic in Sex and Romance

    We're all unique, so don't compare yourself to others. I don't think there's a "right" way or "wrong" way for it to look. If you are in physical pain, you could consult your OB/GYN, but it could just be that the direct stimulation is too much. Maybe he's not being gentle enough, just a thought.
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