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  1. Duderanomi
    My now ex-girlfriend broke up with me because she wasn't in love with me anymore. In a way, I guess I deserved it. Anyhow, now she wants to stay friends and see if perhaps our flame will be rekindled in the future. The problem is that right now, I'm hurting pretty bad. I can't stop thinking about her and I just want to call her every minute that I'm not busy with something. I would really love to stay friends with her too, but all I want to do in her presense is lean over and kiss her. I'm not too sure how she's feeling about me, since she has reached over and held my hand in the most unexpected times. I'm just so damn sad, I've never been this sad, so I'm just wondering if anyone can tell me how to deal with this kind of sadness.
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    Takes me a looooooooooooooooong time. Like 30 minutes. Takes me a while with handjobs, and sex too.
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    This is pretty much exactly my story, aside from the kissing while on a break.
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    I dumped my ex-girlfriend because I was convinced I was making her unhappy, and she was the kind of girl that would rather be unhappy than break up with me and make me go through it, so I didn't see a point in going on. I started regretting my decision the minute I told her because I couldn't be 100% sure that I was the cause of her unhappiness. There were a lot of things going on in her life, but nothing serious if I recall correctly. We didn't speak for 3 weeks, but as soon as we spoke, my resolve broke down and we started working things out to get back together. I would say we were meant to be, but she just dumped me this week, so that can't be.
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    Looks like you've already made your choice (by appearance it seems), so why are you asking us?
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    I'm a guy so I take neither.
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    I don't know about the feeling you get from your dreams being unrealistic. Real sex for me felt pretty much like sex in my dreams, even before I lost my virginity.
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    I'm in college and making about 500$ canadian a month.
  9. Duderanomi
    Well, being a guy that enjoys a good blowjob, (like any guy wouldn't?) I can tell you that for me, it's just more mentally/visually stimulating, whereas intercourse is more sensual/emotional. For example, the last month or so, my girlfriend and I were in kind of a rut, always arguing, but she gave me head intermittently when she was feeling turned on. While it was erotically satisfying, I felt like a huge chunk of our relationship was disappearing because there was no bond being forged with fellatio and I needed sex to feel close to her Now, onto your problem. I'd say that the best idea would probably be to start your boyfriend off with a BJ but just as foreplay, and move on to intercourse after all. That way, he gets the erotic visual image he craves so much (the reason he likes porno) and you get the connection from sex that you want. If he EXPECTS you to just give him blowjobs whenever he feels like getting one, he's just being selfish. Oral sex should be given voluntarily and asking for it is just... wrong. Demanding it is just ridiculous. I don't know if I've rambled too much to be coherent. Hope I helped.
  10. Duderanomi
    You answered your own question.
  11. Duderanomi
    Lick her clitoris, it's the most sensitive part of the female's sexual anatomy. Of course, it's always better not to go straight for the gold and linger in all sorts of places before actually going there.
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    No way to know except by confronting her, I think.
  13. Duderanomi
    I don't feel like living anymore, but suicide is for idiots. What the hell am I gonna do? She was everything to me...
  14. Duderanomi
    I don't see how talking about this to him could hurt his feelings. You could just do it and have fun experimenting though, I doubt he'd mind that. Your problem sounds a little complicated tho, since you want to kiss, but you seem to have had surgery that prevents you from doing so, yet you still want to try out different types of kissing.
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    Eatz, that was one of the smartest posts I've read so far on this forum.
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    I think what the original poster meant for the second option was that the girl waits until a set deadline she hasn't shared with her boyfriend to call it quits, and not the "you've got 20 days to marry me" scenario.
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    I'm in the same boat as you buddy. I feel for ya.
  18. Duderanomi
    This post made me think of something. Is there such a thing as a woman being a commitment-phobic? I don't recall ever hearing about that.
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    I think you're just posting so that we confirm what you already think. Seems to me like you want to try and work things out with this guy, so why not just go ahead and do that? If he's still dwelling on the ego thing, then let it be his loss.
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    Sounds to me like you're just crying out for attention. Evne though you think your life is ruined already, I can guarantee that you'll eventually fall in love, whether you want to or not, and then you won't care whether that person's slept with 100 people or no one because they'll make you feel all fuzzy inside. Besides, you know the saying, "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." I can guarantee to you that it's true. Don't give up on your love life when it hasn't even started yet.
  21. Duderanomi
    Well, you have to remember that the woman is a very emotional creature, and you have to use that to your advantage if you're going to please your woman. Instead of trying all sorts of weird sexual arts, I think a romantic dinner with moody music would do a much better job. Of course, that's only a suggestion, there's a million and one romantic things you could do. That's about all the help I can give you. Good luck.
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    Going to see the doctor is the best idea I think. I doubt nay of us here on eNotalone are qualified to answer a medical question concerning the most important part of your body. I'd play it safe and go see the doc.
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    Reorganize that into paragraphs and maybe I'll read past the 5th line.
  24. Duderanomi
    It's kind of odd you should mention that, since my girlfriend is an avid poster on eNotalone. Thanks for the quick feedback!
  25. Duderanomi
    I don't get what's so different between kissing someone who has kissed before and someone who hasn't. Not like the girl would make fun of you because your first kisses are a little awkward, not if she cares about you anyhow. As long as you don't go all out with your tongue or something, I bet you'd do fine anyway. Same goes with girls who have lost their virginity already. They were perfectly allowed to be in love and make love with whoever they pleased before they met you, and if they care about you, they wouldn't mind your inexperience either. I even know some girls who enjoy teaching guys how to do it right. I just think that you should've shut your eyes to all the possibilities, the longer you wait for the perfect virgin of your choice, the higher the chance of you ending up being a 40 year old virgin with weird facial hair.
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