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  1. Duderanomi
    It's customary to put our mouths up against genitalia anyway, so why make a fuss out of your hands touching your own?
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    alright, in case you guys need an update. I'm thinking about her less and less now that we don't talk anymore. Every few hours I'll get the urge to call her but I don't. She wanted her space so she'll have it. Deep down I keep thinking I'll just find out she hooked up with someone else and it'll just rip the wound open again, so I think NC is the best idea at the moment. Of course, she reads this forum so she knows my master. Ah well. As long as I get better, that's the important part. If I somehow regain emotional stability, who knows, we might be friends again.
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    Basically, my ex-gf and I are lying on my bed. We were still erm... experimenting sexually? Anyhow, she was masturbating me and then I'm like, "Ah crap, I'm gonna come." and she goes "what?" instead of getting a kleenex or something and I just splurted in the air. The thing is, we were in the dark, and it landed allllll over. It was so hilariously funny heh.
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    Slim to none. Did you guys fool around at all before that? Semen can get there in all sorts of weird and unexpected ways. I had one incident which my ex-gf and I jokingly called the Fountain of Joy, and if you did anything similar, maybe you should be worried.
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    Wow, I wish I had that kind of conviction. I just kinda mope around.
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    This is the best topic ever. I just read it from the beginning to the end.
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    I love that. I know everything you said is true ogie764, and I've been dumped before so I do have the experience of how to deal with it (Although I was never very good at it). The problem for me right now lies in the fact that I've never even met someone who could come close to what my ex is. Any little thing I would want in a person, she had. And don't think I'm saying that because she is those things and I want her, I'd dreamed about a girl like that since I was 11 or so, and now she's gone because I screwed up, I didn't know what I had. To add to the problems, I realized how I was screwing up about a week before she dumped me. I was cleaning up my act when she decided she'd had enough. *PROFANITY DELETED BY MODERATOR* happens, unfortunately, it all happens to me.
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    Alright, I've taken a habit of going out pretty much every weekend. I'm pretty drunk at the moment, about 45 minutes ago, I was in a nightclub packed with people, and I just can't bring myself to approach girls. I'm still much too in love with my ex-gf. This is really blowing my chances at getting a rebound because if I see a good looking girl, instead of making a move, I sit there and think of my girlfriend. Err. I meant ex-gf there. It's getting really hard to type without typos. It's funny how you guys read one sentence and yet I rewrote it 3 times to make sure there were no typos. As always, I'm not even sure there's a point to this email.
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    I like masturbating, I'm sure everyone does. There's also nothing sexier than knowing a girl is doing it thinking about you either.
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    Wow, it seems a lot of us are going through this and none of us are coping too well. This doesn't look too promising.
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    My ex-girlfriend dumped me nearly 4 months ago, we'd been going out for nearly 2 years. Anyhow, we tried being friends after she dumped me, but since she had no feelings for me and I still did, it made things really hard. Now, I know there's no chance of getting her back, and I've tried everything to make that happen. In my mind, I'm 100% sure she doesn't want me anymore, but I just can't seem to let go emotionally. If I'm not busy for one second, I'll start thinking about her. The emotions arising from that will range from anger, to jealousy, to sadness, and sometimes happiness from certain memories with her. I'm just wondering how I can mentally know there's no hope, and still have my heart holding on for dear life. I mean, the girl is practically terrified of seeing me, and she'll barely talk to me anymore on the phone or the net, so it's obvious she doesn't want anything to do with me, yet the rejection just doesn't seem to phase the love I still have for her. Obviously this is hurting a lot, I don't believe I've ever had to go through so much grief, and I doubt someone could give me a magic recipe to get over her either, so once again I guess I'm just venting. It'd be at least one step towards understanding how to quit torturing myself like this if someone could explain why I'm doing it I guess, must be why I'm bothering to post. Anyhow, if you guys need more details, I'll be checking up on this thread. No idea what else I should be saying.
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    I like it when girls are aggressive.
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    I sure had fun reading that! LMAO
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    Well, I guess it all depends on how forgiving you are. She completely shut you out, didn't explain anything, and avoids you. In your position, I would stop trying to contact her, and if she ever wants to make the first step, then I would be receptive. I'd rule out ever making that first step though. Seems to me like she's ashamed of you guys, and I wouldn't want to hang out with someone who's ashamed of me. Hope that helps.
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    Seems to me, being rather unaccepting of these poly relationships, that you should just focus on being happy with your current boyfriend. Hell, the girl is 16 years younger than you, and in a completely different stage in her life, I don't think sleeping with you guys is the best thing for her, then again, neither is Ted or her family. I'm really dumbfounded tho, there's no good way out of this in my opinion.
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    Ex's are stupid. They tell themselves that you're the devil so they don't feel guilty about breaking up with you. It hurts, but that's life.
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    I'm thinking it's more likely that you guys just ripped something in there.
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    Thing is, it doesn't really make me feel better. Just sorta leads me into this path of self-pity that I need to avoid all the time. Just feels like I'm in an emotional whirlpool and I can't swim out of the murky depths.
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    My ex gf almost raped me the first few times I wore Orion. Hope that helps you.
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    I got dumped by my ex-girlfriend 3 months ago, and unfortunately it still hurts like it happened yesterday. The thing is, some days I'm fine, and some days I miss her so much I'd rather die than go on. To complicate things, sometimes I'll be really jolly one second, and then something will remind me of her and I'll have the uncontrollable urge to cry. (If I'm in public I obviously hold myself back.) I've been spending most of my time in front of my computer in my room, so whenever it happens then, I'll just bawl my eyes out for a while. It's also happened a few times with her actually around, and I know she pities me and doesn't want to hurt me, so it makes her feel like crap if I start crying in front of her (I think). Anyhow, every time it happens, I keep thinking I should just stop it, take it bluntly and just get over it, but everyone tells me I should just let it all out. Unfortunately, letting it all out doesn't seem to be working. Is it possible I'm just making myself miserable by going through this little crying ritual over and over?
  21. Duderanomi
    From the way you're talking, you seem to be getting desperate. Girls don't like guys that are desperate. Try playing it cool, show some interest, but keep them guessing. If they know they've got you wrapped around their finger, you're not going to do too well. It's also all about having confidence in yourself. Girls generally won't dig guys who don't assert themselves.
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    I couldn't even stay hard with a condom on man, it's definitely better without it.
  23. Duderanomi
    Alright, I've been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for just about 3 months now, and I'm still in love with her, but unfortunately, I've made the last mistake I'll ever make as far as she's concerned. Makes things awkward because she frequents this forum, and I would post somewhere else if I knew of another forum like this one, but I don't. Anyhow, going on. Basically, I snapped and got angry at her, she got angry back, and things just escalated. I doubt she'll ever want to see me again, and I'm trying to decided whether that's a good thing or not. Since we've broken up, she's told me a hundred times about all the wrongs I've committed, and I listened to her with next to no comments. Lately, however, she'd escalated this reminding with insulting me. I have to admit my self-esteem was non-existent after she dumped me, so that's probably why I took the insults for so long. I know I did plenty of things wrong, some of which I'll never forgive myself, or forget about, and I don't really think it was necessary for her to remind me constantly of them if she really did want to entertain a friendship like she said she did. Anyhow, I realized that everybody makes mistakes, and that just because I was relatively stupid back then and had no idea that I was hurting her so bad, it didn't mean I was the horrible person she portrayed me to be. Now, the problem arises that basically, this girl was the best friend I ever had, and I guess when my emotions are involved, I just can't think straight because driving her away was the last thing I would've wanted to do. I don't think I'm even going to bother trying to reconcile with her, she's made it clear she hates me. If she ever feels the need to talk to me, I'm sure she will. I saw her today and she was crying, which means I hurt her feelings pretty bad in my outrage, something I will probably regret until I forget about it. I suppose this is all a rant so I can figure out what just happened. Time to hold my head back up and just keep on truckin' I suppose. I sure am gonna miss her. Anyone got any idea what I should be doing in this situation?
  24. Duderanomi
    My ex won't take me back and she keeps blocking me on msn, it sucks. She also doesn't answer her phone.
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    I wouldn't make too much of it. There's no need to talk every single day with your boy/girlfriend. Maybe she's just waiting for you to make the first move.
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