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  1. rusty_boi
    just say to her you wanna go out for dinner on saturday. and if she says yes then at the end of the date lean in to kiss her and see what happeneds
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    i once had a gf like this and im not a jealous person im really trusting. but it does get too much eventually. your gona have to tell her how you feel. but she might not like it and may not change (im not saying dump her im just telling you a possibility). if this is the case you may have to adapt. But here is the way id look at it. if you and her are going out you would have to have sum trust in her so your gonna have to go with that. and if she did do sumthn wrong it will get back to you eventually. thats the worst case scenario. Best case she acknowledges it and stops. its all about how you approach her. dont go there yelling or make her feel judged. just tell her calmly that you feel uncomfortable with her doing it
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    ummm its really hard to tell from my point of view because there is no direct hints. She may be like that naturally in her personality. The only reason im going to say yes is because when you were going to move she seemed keen. But the only real person who can tell you is yuki. Ask her, tell her you like her. worst case scenario she says no and you go bakc to being friends. heres a quote i live by and it works in alot of things not just girls "the only thing worse than failing (being rejected in this case) is not knowing".
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    ok well its obvious use feel strong for each other, and being 16 aswell i know views of marriage and kids etc are common ure probably not taking it seriously which is good and if you are taking it seriously dont. its ages away. Anyway now with your problem. what seems to of happened to the realtionship is its gotten too deep for you to cope with, very common in teenagers, the only thing i can suggest is maybe take it back a notch to a level your happy at. just but not being as close and intimate. i dont mean stop kissing her or telling her how you feel. i mean more of less talk about the future and more talk of the present. it might take a while to get into effect. try to set yourself a goal of the furthest in the future youll talk about is 1 month away. Hope this helped
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    Hi everyone Well heres my problem, My best friend (james) and i have just changed a group of friends to an out of school group. I have just come part of the group so im not as close with the other people as he is (im getting there but). Anyway i guess im starting to feel a bit left out by him. also recently another school m8 (mark) has started going out with us. Anyway ill give you an example of stuff thats happened. Last week we all went to a party and met at a our friend bens house. there was one spare spot in the car so me and mark walked and they drove (it was a 20 minute walk). Anyway at the party we hung out a bit but james kinda left me on my own with mark. i dont mind because i started talking to other people and mark went off with a girl. But the thing that got me is he left the party early and left me and mark there.He never would of done that before, he would actually stay because i was there. I havnt spoken to him since (it was about 2 days ago). so now im feeling left out because he always goes out with them and i dont go out as much(because of room in the car). Ive known him since 2nd grade but we been close mates for 3 years. And we have not fought once. The thing is because we dont like our school friends much at school hes fine. We get on great and stuff. I tried talking to him about it once before this but he said it was just a coincidence that there was no room in the car. there is only one person who can drive a car in the group. And james can drive in about a month. so i guess what im askin is what do i do?. Am i over reacting?. Is it a big coinscidnece? will it be different when james drives?. i dont wanna loose my best m8 iv had for ages. Any help would be appreictiated thanks
  6. rusty_boi
    its not they dont like me its they dont know me.
  7. rusty_boi
    Hey everyone Ok well heres my problem, i have a group of friends at school, but me and my best friend as much as we like being their friends prefer another group of out of school friends. We met this group from a girl we work with (i dont work their anymore). And he and her used to go out, but now they are friends (sam). At work we made another friend named ben and he and my best friend are really close. Anyway so now he and ben now are really good friends with sam and all of her friends, but for some reason im not, and i dont know why. If they go out ben and james (mi best friend) are invited and james always has 2 ask if i can go. They now have another friend and he is close with the two of them, and i met him once and all of a sudden he hates me. So the three of them go out and i feel left out now. James does try to balance it out and he does a good job. But i think he shouldnt have to. I am exactly like him and ben, so i want to fit in with the group of friends. I talk to sam and sams best friend on the internet but thats about it. i message on the phone and dont get a reply and stuff (i dont message too much). i dont really have anything in common with any of my school mates apart from james. So what im asking is is there anything i can do to try and become apart of the group aswell. i know i cant make people like me, but its not that they dont like me i just can get close with them.
  8. rusty_boi
    umm i havnt got a tongue ring but i was there when a friend did ,and it swells heaps there is also alot of food restricitons for you for a couple of weeks along with no oral sex. and it does have alot of maintenance for a while. but personally i think they dont look good on girls anyway.
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    Hey guys ok theres this girl i used to work with, and shes really cool. Anyway my best friend still works there and hes really good friends with her now (he lieks her aswell) anyway i see her only once every blue moon and i wanna become good mates with her aswell. everytime i go out with her shes always hanging with or talking to my best mate (im not jealous i jus wanna become friends with her). I have her mobile phone number but i cant call because shes with a different mobile company and it costs heaps, and shes never replies to text messages (anyones not just mine). so any suggestions
  10. rusty_boi
    ummm how her trip is goin, what she dis during the day, what you did, any funny stories that happened to you, is she shopping where she is, these are just some points you need to expand off these to get a conversation rolling on.
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    hey guys me and some friends just wanna meet some new cool people we just dont know where to go where do you guys all go to meet new people, were aged between 16-17 and weve already got beach, ice skating , football games, shops and work but yeh were kind of over that so any suggestions thanks
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    hey jetta i know exaclty how you feel, i wont get into my problems but i really can understand, and im moving out of home at the end of next year after school to try and hopefully get rid of some of my problems because they are family related. So the way i deal with it is just be positive and try turn everything into a joke. you may use a different technique to deal with your problems. and some days it is harder than others to deal. but if you can try look on the bright side and get through it you will be stronger. do whatever you need to do to get through it.
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    wow dats really kool congrats
  14. rusty_boi
    ok i think your long term goal should be to open up a music store and give lessons. but right now i think maybe applying to work in a movie store. or just give lessons. Have you also ever thought of looking at another thing you like and trying to incorporate that into a job like if you like a sport mayb try coaching at levels that pay money. Also one more thing no matter what job you do your going to start at the bottom its not going to be awesome right away so be prepared. I was also thinking maybe firefighter or police officer if you would like to help people
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    Hey everyone well there is this girl i like and she is a acuiatance of a girl i know anyway. I was interested for tha past 3 months but havent seen her because no1 i know knows her anyway. it turns out one of my friends had her email so i spoke to her on msn once and she was dancing at a fair in town and i was goin so i was going to see her dance and see her after.we got each others phone numbers and that was it. Well me and my friend went on a ride and he got sick so we had to go home early and i dint get to see her. so then another firend of mine suggests i call her and i did we spoke for 5 minutes and she told me to call her back because she was on the phone. i did so and then it rung for a bit then stopped i heared silence and then the phone computer lady said message sent. so i tried the next night same ting finally i spoke to her last night and she said call back because she s dropping a friend home i did , then she said im nearly home call back i did then her mum answered and said can you call back in 10 minutes so i did and the weird phone thing happened again keep in mind my phone number was on private the whole time. so all i wanted to do was call her and invite her to a party on friday. so i dont wanna seem desperate so what do you guys think i should do because i dont think shes avoiding me because she wouldnt say call back. so i dunno i wanna invite her to the party but how and how do i get her 2 speak 2 me. Afirend suggested i message her tonight and ask her but i duno she hasnt got phone credit and wont reply.
  16. rusty_boi
    ok im gonna add every punk band form mi music list Against me All american rejects american hi-fi antiskeptic (there awesome) bowling for soup breaking benjamin cauterize fallout boy finch from autumn to ashes goldfinger good riddance greenday guttermouth ( have a song called skaters anthem you should check it out) gyroscope hey mike hot water music reel big fish jebediah left front tire lit lo-tel matchbook romance (a really good band) mest no use for a name not by choice punchline rancid (soo good) rufio saves the day something corporate sparta story of the year ( good aswell) strung out sugarcult ( awesome) the ataris the salads the starting line the unseen UVR the used wakefield yellowcard ( i luv dem)
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    hey everyone well about halfway through last year i wanted 2 live with one of my 3 sisters because i wasnt happy with the area i was living in and i was really depressed. anway so they all gave me false hope and led me to believe it was ok to move with them then changed their mind. i never really opened up to them until i was led to believe i was getting out of here and then i started to. the funny thing is not one of them apologised for doing that. im not hurt at the fact i couldnt go but the fact they led me to believe i could and then burst my bubble. ive tried to tell them how much it hurt but they just said your only 16 and i dont want you 2 be my responsibility. the funny thing is if the situations were reversed id still take them in even after the pain they caused me. so basically i forgave them i dint 4get wat they did and accepted i got 2 more years in this hole. but now its 4th week of school and i get depressed for no reason sometimes but other times i feel fine all i want to know is does anyone know a way i can stop these random depressions. and how can i stop it
  18. rusty_boi
    well think of it like this if he said yes then youd be more hurt because the realtionship would mean the world to you but nothing to him because he doesnt like you as much as you like him. so i know it hurts now but think of how it culd be and also are you chasing the wrong type of guy? mayb rethink stargeties aswell
  19. rusty_boi
    well i have older sisters so i know exactly what its like ummm the best way to deal with it is try not 2 provoke them or annoy them in any way just try give them time and when there mean to you you have 2 cop it on the chin and say nothing because it will make matters worse if u do its just what i have gathered
  20. rusty_boi
    i think all you have to do to help him feel comfortable is make him feel not pressured into impressing you and just show him that you like him for who he is and wouldnt want him any other way. and you do also need patience and be reassuring. you have to boost his self confidence up it will be really good for him and intern good 4 u
  21. rusty_boi
    well i have 4 older sisters and from what i have learned is the job is just degrading, no one should ever have to lower themselves to do that. a womans body is a beautiful thing and should be shared with a person she loves not anybody with a bit of money on them. just my thoughts anyway
  22. rusty_boi
    ok well all i can really suggest is as hard as it is break it off with her. beacause of the facts 1) she is in a completely different country to you 2) sounds like she isnt too honest because allthough she is ashamed of her past if she loved you truly she would of told you 3) you are going to be sucked into alot of problems that you dont seem to be prepared and ajusted to 4) her family needs money now im not saying this isnt love but it just seems like you can get a girl a bit closer to home thats a bit more suited to you. i dont mean to be negative or anything because i know you feel strongly for each other but there was a quote i once heard and it goes " sometimes when you love someone, you have to set them free" and it applies here it be better for you both overall
  23. rusty_boi
    well wha i can suggest if your scared to be hurt again then maybe your not ready it al depends if you want to put it all on the line the risk of being hurt and the friendship. if she is willing to aswell is another factor. umm i havent been in that situation so unforunantly thats all the advice i can give you
  24. rusty_boi
    hi ok heres my story my two best friends are going out. but before they met she liked me but i didnt know what i wanted to do so i kinda wanted to get to know her better. anyway my other friend tells me he likes her and i never get head over heels for anyone anyway so i told him to go for her. now me and her became close and i took her to my formal/prom and i kind of liked her at the end of the night so i just told my m8 (cause he wasnt going out with her) and he asked her out that night and at the party and it was offical and asked me if i was cool with it and i was cause i missed my chance and wasnt head over heels anyway. so now im over it all. but every single person i know,no1 in my family or my friends dont believe me when i say were just friends. i dont like her but no1 believes me. and no1 xcept mi m8 and me knew about formal night. she belevies me completely and my m8 (her bf) has doubts about me. and i feel like where ever i go everyone doesnt believe me. they do it more behind my back aswell. and it really hurts me that no one belevies me. the people im meant to go to and hu are meant to trust me dont. so what do i do no matter what i say its not going 2 change their minds.
  25. rusty_boi
    hey everyone ok a friend of mine recently told his gf he loved her. they only been going out for a month. and when he told me i told him its not love because were teenagers and havent got the slightest clue about it, he just likes her a whole heap and lusts her. so he said to me then how do you know when its love. so i said you just do. he goes well i just do then. now this brings it to my question how do you know the difference between love and lust in a relationship?, what do you feel, whats it like being in love. anything and everything will be apreciated. thanks
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