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  1. Leonhart
    Yeah, I just don't see a lot of hot girls interested in gaming. They're more concerned with, you know; looking pretty, doing their make-up and hair, how that outfit looks on them, what that 'ugly' girl was wearing the other day, that sort of thing.
  2. Leonhart
    I love a good, moving tragedy. Nothing helps us get in touch with our humanity more than sadness and sorrow. Hmm, maybe I'm self-destructing my own life and relationships because of this...? Who knows? Either way, it makes for quite a ride.
  3. Leonhart
    ENTPs, huh? I don't think I know anyone who is one. Anyway, I remember going out with a girl who said she was an INFP. Same as myself. Well, we got along great - we met online - it didn't over so well in person though. I wasn't at all attracted to her, so no second date. It was kind of sad too, because we thought so much alike. I guess it goes to show that there is so much more involved in romance than just having the same MBTI. lol Attraction, goals, dreams, attitudes and chemistry all factor in. That said, after 3 weeks, how can anyone know if they've found the right person, short of God Himself telling you?
  4. Leonhart
    Asking is lame. It's supposed to be one of those things that just 'happens.' Unfortunately, not everyone thinks that way about it.
  5. Leonhart
    Oh really? And just where do these hotties exist, anyway?
  6. Leonhart
    Cute is still a compliment. You would prefer they call you 'ugly?' I'd take cute over ugly any day of the week.
  7. Leonhart
    Well, they don't have to say 'date' for it to be one. A rose by any other name... you know.
  8. Leonhart
    Well, crazy thought: You could just try dating one girl at time.
  9. Leonhart
    Yes. Which is the world that so many hate-groups desire. But we all know they're not right, so why think that way? Nothing is ever as simple as "one size fits all" thinking.
  10. Leonhart
    Of such, I am. For better or worse, who can say?
  11. Leonhart
    Absolutely, dead-on correct. Happened to me, numerous times. If I had not waited so long, I wouldn't have been so crushed when they said no. In fact, they probably would not have said no, because I would've been displaying confidence, decisiveness and they wouldn't have had time to find someone else. They probably would've thought, "Hey, this guy I like likes me too. Cool!" Instead of "What the hell? You're asking me out now... after I flirted with you two months ago!?" lol
  12. Leonhart
    I don't think being eccentric is going to work... unless you're trying to meet another crazy person. lol (Which I'm not anyway.)
  13. Leonhart
    That was fast. Uh... congrats. lol As for what to do from here... take it slow, don't rush things and relax. Everything will follow its flow in its own time.
  14. Leonhart
    I guess. But since people find such different things and qualities attractive in others, there's hope for just about everyone. If we all liked the exact same thing, the species would have already died off. lol
  15. Leonhart
    I would say the opposite of what hazey said. If you are not attracted, don't waste either of your time. You can't force attraction, so give it up and move on to someone you DO like.
  16. Leonhart
    I'd say the chances of me getting one are about slim to none. I can live with that.
  17. Leonhart
    Online is obviously easier, but it lacks the human touch. What signals do you have to go by? Where is the glancing, the touching, the hair flipping, the smiling? Bah, to heck with online flirting. Real life is MUCH more fun. Except for the rejection factor. That makes it more difficult for men to approach women in real life.
  18. Leonhart
    True, that. But, how would I do such a thing? Even the most seasoned gambler can't always skew the odds in his favour... sadly.
  19. Leonhart
    That's one reason why I really almost refuse to ask out a girl from class. You'll definitely be seeing her again, so if she says no, then you have to still be around her, to some extent. Makes it a little awkward. But, don't let that stop YOU! You follow your heart and do what you think is right.
  20. Leonhart
    Some useful advice: How do you present yourself? Do you carry your head with pride, walk with confidence and look decent? Or do you do the opposite of that? Also, where are you seeing these girls? Work? School? Church? On the street? A bar? The setting makes ALL the difference as to how to go about the approach. Let us know, so we can help you. Some settings are more conducive to meeting women than others, and your body language, clothes, attitude and self-image play huge in this area to. How do you measure up?
  21. Leonhart
    Ugh. I think I can safely say this: Meeting women in post-secondary education is near impossible. At least IN class. Try going to parties and doing the usual bar/club/party scene. You're bound to hook up with someone that way. I'm pretty sure that's the ONLY way people get together at our age. Sad, isn't it? Oh well. Can't beat 'em, join 'em, right?
  22. Leonhart
    You know, I can really relate to you. I've felt like you, so many times. The only thing keeping me here is that I know dying isn't going to "solve" my problems. If there really is a hereafter, then I'll just end up taking my miserable problems with me there too. So might as well stick around and see how the play unfolds. Maybe (just maybe) there's a plot twist in the second act, where things work out for us both! You never know.
  23. Leonhart
    Nah, I'm just incredibly happy for other people. I figure, just because I am not happy/cannot be happy, doesn't mean I can't share someone else's joy! I'm all for trying my luck, but somehow I don't think the odds are stacked in my favour. I like it better when the odds are an even 50/50.
  24. Leonhart
    I agree completely with that.
  25. Leonhart
    I feel things very intensely myself, Lily. I know how it is. But being a male, I tend to hide my emotions, rather than express them for anyone to see. I used to be a huge perfectionist myself - and I probably am, in some ways - but as I've gotten older, I've become more and more relaxed and less rigid, thank God. I don't think you can stop feeling things deeply. I haven't been able to, and I've even tried killing my feelings. Doesn't work. What you CAN control is how you respond to situations. Putting things into perspective can be helpful. For instance is it really worth getting all upset over something that won't matter in a year? Two years? Or even five years? Is it worth making yourself feel unhappy, stressed and depressed over something that, in the long run, won't really matter? Few things we do in life, actually matter, so while it's good to focus on doing things right, why worry when one day you'll just be dead, and none of it will have mattered anyway? I'm not trying to be negative, mind you, just honest. And I know trying to use logic to overcome emotionalism is a tough battle. But it's probably the best tool you have to rationalize and calm your emotional outbursts. Just a thought (...possibly...) lol Good luck.
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