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doie she like surprises? why don't you give him a surprise visit.. but be careful okay.. that kind of guy are chauvinists.. don't offer him money okay... try to look jobs for him and then give the company's name but be sure that before you tell him you already inquire to the company and you see to it that it would fit to his qualifications okay?? give his son a gift and take him out for treat...

i think both of you has aproblem, is your bf a sex addict??? on your first time to do it how did he feels?? i think you do something that would excite him nore than what the scene is on tv, try to give him the so called oral sex.. i don't know but most guys like it.. i haven't try it bec. i haven't had a husband but maybe you should try...

i don't know exactly what happened to you and to your bf during your relationship but i guess you should confront about this...

firstly, i commend you for being a man enough to settle things, it seems that you still care for your "mistress" but you said she has $22000 in the bank, i think in short time that you had, you already did help her and now that your through, i guess its about time that she should learn to fix herself alone without the help of oyhers..if you want to help her, just leave her that.... eventually she will be strong and how can she stand on her own if are always there for her.... i know its hard but there' s no easy way....

hello, im back again, i wanna know how does it feel to have sex on the first time??? it sounds weird, im already 21 and i haven't try it... im afraid of the pain and im afraid that my bf will leave afterwards....

thank you for your advices, he really forget it bec. we had a break before and he erased all infos. about me, we just got back together... anyway.. he knows our anniversary, we're both busy bec. he is taking up law while im also taking up my master's degree. thanks guys!!!

hi, im not new here, i used to give advices but now i don't know, im confused, i just celebrate my 21st bday , i never asked every people to greet me except for my boyfriend. unfortunately, he doesn't know the date of my birthdate... i thought maybe he just putting a joke on it, but no, he really doesn't know about it as he confessed to me that he don't knew it, he had forgotten it.... im lonely.... do you think he really loves me?he even told me that i should be thankful bec. he is too honest to tell that he don't know my bday, and he kept asking me when was my bday, but im too disappointed that time and so i said forget it...we were more that a year a bf-gf relationship...

i envy your soon to be ex-wife bec. she had you, well i don't know what happen to the two of you during your 3 years of marriage, but i hope that you would still hold on to her, we are all human beings and its normal for us to sometimes feel that we need space....have you talked to her heart to heart? were you able to go through with the details?

would you mind telling me how the two of you get into relationship so that i can analyze your case... bec. if the boy really loves you, he will accept who you are, as you said it before you've changed but yu come back...maybe you are not yet matured.. your ex-bf must in anyway accept you and if he could see you've changed, meaning you've tried, right?

i agree with what they said, don't ask girls to go out with you just to used them so that your friends would stop teasing you... if your bothering why you haven't had a gf, time will come for that, maybe she's just out there.

how old are you?how about the girl? maybe she's so shy about dating, just tryt to talk some tuff like that, maybe she'll get used to it, or maybe she like to go out, but she's hesistant. did she have bf before?how's that experience according to her?

that kind of feeling (easy to lose temper) is just a result of what bothers you about your situation you had with your bf, but since you can't do anything about it, you unknowingly and unwittingly let it out by shouting at other people, it serves as your outlet and unless you open up such iritating problem with your bf you won't get over with that. it happens to me everytime my bf and i had a problem and i don't know what to do or whom to talked to, as a result i let it out by hurting other people's feelings.

if i were you, i would try to have a long distance relationship, no one will knows unless you try it, i had a long distance relationship with a guy for a year before he moved closer to me, he lived in an island while i lived here in the city, its pretty weird most especially if you had a problem and wished he was with me so that i could have somkeone to share, but we became determined and you know there were times where i met boys here, but bec, i love him i was able to focus on my studies, we sent emails, phone calls and text messages...try it...

hello. sorry if i wasn't able to response bec. our office days here runs from monday-friday only and last friday i had my enrolment thats why im absent..anyway, im so happy that you are getting a little better now..don't worry i'll send my picture to you... by the way, what kind of job are you doing?how old are you?

well on woman perspective, try to tell her about your feelings try to talk to your chik girl and lets see what will happen...maybe what you are feeling right now to your friend is just a big crush and if you think that your love to your gf has gone maybe wrong....its just that it was overlooked or you too overwhelmed by your feelings to your friend...

you really loved her, but i guess you don't know your gf truly, try to asked her about her fears in life and his opinions of relationships, it seems that she would only say "i love you" to you only when she wants to or would hang-out when she wants, i know you don't wan a relationship which is like a "weather" that changes right?? talk to her and if the out come is not goodjust learn to accept it and move on...

i commend you for truly loving that bitchy girl (oops sorry) but i guess you should try to explore the world, what i meant is that you are still young and you deserve a more better person right? don't worry you could forget her in time...

actually ive got friends online and im keeping them until now, im happy that i could sense a little lighter feelings on you....im happy that you are starting to accept your faults like being too pessismistic....don't worry i'll be here for you friend!i hope that you could send your family picture with me and i could give mine to you, just send it to my email ad email removed or email removed. its a good thing that you faced each day with little hope, i guess the reason why you got dejected is because you set a high expectations..i know there good things that is happening to you its just that sometimes you are blind to see because you only see what you wanna see....im happy that we are communicating very fast...do you have your computer at home, bec. i have mine only at my office (we don't have money to buy our own computer)..im working at the office of the Vice-pres.in the school where i graduated college, im a clerk here but i work as all-around yet getting low salary but im giving myself a time to have my promotion or gain experience so that i could land in a more good companies in the future, i also work here as the budget officer..and i'm still pushing thru with my Masterals Degree in one of the prestigous university here,they say that i should quit my job or my school, but i prefer of having both, i know its kinda hard, but i need a job to sustain my school needs and "there's no easy way to success" right???? you know what, in our home there is also restriction, i can't open up things even to my friends here because im afraid they wouldn't understand at all thats why i have my online friends....another thing im a very open-minded person, so don't worry i wont get tired of listening to your problems...we are all brothers and sisters.....just look around you and you will see how fortunate you still, bec.you are not a beggar like others, you have a house and food unlike others... be strong....

i know its hard to forgive but what is much harder is really to forget, its your pride/ ego that drives you to get mad and if i were you i would take a time to think things over,i know you're afraid of lossing her but what she did hunts you,right??that is the problem, ask for a vacation say one week and go to some place and examined yourself if you are still willing to go with this girl, who slept with a guy and eventually goes back to you bec. she was afraid of commitment and what does she thinks of your relationship with you???? you will not asked her to have a break or cool-off just tell her you need to leave for few days, don't tell her the reasons, tell her that you'll go back, you just need to finish something ok???? sometimes spending time alone could help us more to analyzed things...

im so happy that now you've come to realized your worth, you may not noticed, but i can see it in your letter that though you feel helpless, you continue to face each day (even if with little hope ) its bec. your family, so you see its still our family!!! another problem i noticed is that your like a ship without destination, well since you started looking for another job, hope you could start doing things that would enrich your personality...don't be pessismistic.,please.... its a good thing that despite of your struggles in life you still have your health, you don't have leukemia or anything that would add up to your miseries..love yourself first before you can love others, learn to be optimistic sometimes....just hold on...God will not ever abandon...

if you have special feeling for a person before you knew it your tongues are twisting...just kiss her lips and let it stay for a while and you'll see both of you are responding.

do you know when st.theresa's stll alive, she met a person with leukemia and she asked mother theresa, why she needs to suffer when in fact she doesn't do anything wrong with other person, she just said that God loves you much that he wants to share his pains with you... if you think that you lived your life just to please the people around, it is so bec. you allowed it to, you never resisted and you always go with the flow...looking for a job, just like what youa re doing right now is a good start that you won't stay in that company just to please your boss...in the case of your family, i know its hard bec. what ever happens you can't just kick them out in your life, what you can do is have a talk to them...i know that you are soo depressed but think of this, what if you die right now, would you take it to see you family without you?do you think there will be someone who will still look and support them, the answer is no, you are the chosen one for them, unless you are willing to accept the trials in your life, that is the only time your feeling would be lighter...acceptance is all we need...ive experienced taht when you are doing things only to satisfies others, it upsets me and im not happy anymore, what i did is i went to church near to us and in our house when no one is there, i just pray and close my eyes by saying if others can, why can't i!!!

if i were you, i won't choose any of them, so you see i've experienced that, what i did was i take time and asked them to court me, bec.as i can see you are confused and unwittingly you are afraid to lose one of them...don't rush on things, who knows if someone really loves you right??just take time and get to know them more..ok?

hey don't think of that!that is not a curse, remember this GOd won't give us a problem when he knows that we can't fight it. i must confess this to you, i've experienced so much down in my life and to the extent that i said bad things to god,hope it won't happen to you, i was too young then and i lost my temper, bec.there are so many bad things that is happening and i cursed god, now i just realized that things happen because they have reasons and it help me made a better person,now i must say that saying sorry to god is not enough, imagine i said bad things to him, i sometimes bothered by my conscience, i just bear in mind that God is forgiving and i hope he forgives me for doing that....so don't lose hope, don't be afraid to try to look for another job, a good person like will land to much more good job than you have right now. think this, GOd is still god, because even if we made mistakes, he still shares to us the rays of the sun, he still aloows us to breath the air he owns and still allows us to see the stars in the sky, bec. if you think that GOd is not good, will he allow us to see his creation despite of our stubborness?

hi there!well if its true that your ex-bf is not showy, then why is he doing that to you? what is he thinking of you just a toy? well, you got to do something before you get hurt okay??