gracee

i agree with other posts, it appears to e that girl is just using u if she's experiencing a bad time, man u deserve someone better! go on and move on!

girl, i dunno what this man od to you to still go on with him, u said that ur intelligent so i guess u need to be very objective this time. love urself and of course love the child! never mind mike if he can't manage being a father more than a sexual partner, yes! as i see it he is just a sexual partner to you and i hope that you can talked to him soon!

ooohh.u must b ein a very difficult situation, being too inlove sometimes can lead to to much sensitivity..but i understand ur case..however, if your wife do it once or twice doesn't make her do it all the time right?but of course oi now its kina hrad to believe her now, but if i were you try to give urself a break maybe u need to be alone for a week and try to figure out things, explain to ur wife why are u doing this..of cours eits not easy when u find that the love of ur lifecheated on u right?

hi pals, i hope swing fox and other veterans will remember me, well i wana give update about what happene dto me and to the bf whom i used to tell here, well i found out that he is a bisexual that's why he can't give the love that a bf gives to a gf, but hwta hurts me more is that he didn't respect me, after i broke up with him, i gave him all the respect but not asking about his "guy" and let him go but when i met some of his friends they told me that my ex told them that he's the one who broke up with me bec. of my attitude..grr.this made me mad but i just pray that he'll be enlighten..now im happily committed though at the age of 23 is still a virgin...wehehehe

hi!it seems that i remmeber myself on ur gf's situation,well there are gals who love making themselves the center of their partner's life and in my own experience, i learned that such attitude mad emy relationships failed..i just hope that ur gf will learn to change her attitude, i think ur doing just fine but a relationship to work needs cooperation for both sides and if she's not changing at all, its goo dto leave her and give her more time.....

oohhh, i see my ex-bf in you, well i have my first bf and our relationship lasted for about 4 years after i fell out of love i had several bfs after him and guess what he just confessed to me that he's still inlove with me and haven't had any serious relationships after me, this made me felt guilty and i told him to just live his life and the reason why he can't look for another gf is bec. he is trying to see my qualities in them which is i think unfair. so if i were you just learn tomove on and dont try to look for another her, just come what may, who knows at the end but you know hoping too much could give you much pain and too many frustrations in life so i hope you'll try to date more girls but dont set any criteria to them.

it seems like you've got a protective mom there.anyways, just give your mom a time, maybe she doesn't like you and your gf having sex while she's there or the fact that you're doing it at your home, try to find other place okay?well asked your gf to prove that your mom is wrong, ask your gf to do well in school!

oohh...well i dunno what to say but i think ur still a virgin though its prety close to lose it.anyways, would like to ask, if agirl masturbates say twice a day or even everyday is there any complication could happen to her?i mean any health problems like being incapble of having a child and the like, sorry im kinda paranoid.

i hope my reply is not yet late, i have been in that situtation (in the girl's place) i don't know but maybe she just slowly feel the "falling out of love" maybe bec. of non-stop petty quarrels....in my case, i found another man, but in your case i strongly believed that she wanted to be free to have some relaxation just like whta you needed too...let her go and if she comes bak then maybe it is when you can work things out..don't forced her now..just give her time...

okay my sister, for you to know i also had a break-up with my bf for years..all along i thought i knew i've got so many questions about him but bec.of love i didn't ask himnow i just found out that aside from having an affair wit gays he also do it with guys,it hurts me but i let him go bec. i love him i wnat him to find his happiness. i still cry every night and i don't know when i will be okay but i know things have reasons and im praying to gOD that it will not happen to anyone bec.it is unbearable..just be strong okay..we can make it..

thanks! i really appreciate your responses, don't woory i'll talk to him if our path crossed, he doesn't have a cellphone since he was held-up and for added infos, last two days i saw him eating in a restaurant with a guy, i walked with my friend and he saw us but he has no reaction and when we enter in the place and sit down he went out with his male companion, i don't know i feel something fishy, actually he used to have a sex with agay and some people just told me that he is a bisexual, i didn't ask me about that bec. i love him and now im confused and maybe that is the reason why even if i love him now nad he keep on telling me he loves me too i just don't have the energy to go back to him bec. im afraid what if he is having an affair with a guy...

hello, don't worry you are just undergoing the same stages and for me our feelings are just getting used to it, the pain is unbearable only at first and sooner and the more we are prone to it the more we will be okay?just continue to live each day, you were born and raised without him, don't make him a whole just a part so as to have stiil something in yourself. gracee

hello "kabayan" im a filipino to, maybe the girl really don't like you the way you are to her, im sorry to say that..but based on your story she's not a filipino too and most people from other culture really differs from us, to them being close to someone doesn't mean anything bec. for them kissing and hugging are just simple things maybe she is too liberated in expressing her grstitude towards to you and you took it on the wrong way, we live in a conservative society. thanks!

hello, im back, after reading problems posted here and giving advices as well, its really hard when you are the one in a situation..okay here's my problem; i had a bf, i love him so much and when we were together and shared intimate moments i know he loves me. but sometimes i feel being used. im the one always finding ways just to see him, he don't even ask for a date and i observed that whenever he needed extra money or help he would call me and find time to see me, this flatters me bec. i always bear in mind that im his first person to lean on and i am really willing to help him without anything inreturn but lately i found myself giving him so much and yet getting nothing. im not asking in return i am just hoping that he would treat me as his gf, someone special just like any other bf treated their gf, right? when we were together he used to send text messages to his friends and telling me that its important to text them back, and when we are not together and i sent a message to me he didn't even care to text me back and i have to wait hours for his reply. one night, somebody sent a text message for him and when i asked him, he even hide his cellphone and didn't care telling me at all, i walked out and he didn't even care what happen to me. i just received an email and there he explains things. i told him that if he only explains things earlier things should not happen and how i can i trust him that he is telling the truth?now im really tired, i love him but im tired, iwith all my relationships i remember when you love the person, love makes you stronger and love move you to go on but now i don't feel anything like that, im so tired..i don't know what to do, i want him back and he wants the same thing but the more i love him the more pain i get and worst i don't trust him anymore.. i want to cry but i just can't. evrynight i found myself awake and thinking that we are still on.. i just don't know..he told me that i kept on counting my sacrifices, well in fact im not, i just told him all of this to make him realized how much i love him but now he took it on the wrong way.. help me, he didn't even remember my birthday and i forgave him for that, instead of trying to off-set that he doesn't make any effort at all, do you think he loves me? thanks

wow! i feel so great reading advices for you, i think your gf and i have the same problem, we are afraid of getting hurt..anyway, i am still a virgin and my bf is getting pissed off whenever we would try it just cant, but he is patient for now since we are not yet married, but i guees give your wife the most romantic feeling and try to talk to her and ask hed to open up things, she might not able to tell you everything..why don't you try to ask questions and if she didn't answer try to give possible answer and tell it to her if she don't react maybe it is the answer right? hope to hear good news from you!