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Lets make this quick and eazy so all of you dont have to read much. She's 23 married My major question is, WHAT IF everything works out and we get together could I EVER trust her????? thx!!

All most the exact same thing happened to me!!!! I know how you feel, 0X everything! is how i feel my differences were, I've met her, hung around her a little bit. She REALLY likes me, but does not want to act on the feelings, same reasons as your girl... We both need to be friends with them.... If not we might lose em forever! Hit me up: AOL Mcbride61 yahoo whiteman18799

:2gunfire: What a JERK!!! He is doing that because you wont have sex with him anymore... YES that is FFFFed up, but some guys are like that. As far as i know girls CAN'T pressure guys into having sex... guy=sex. I would get a big friend of yours to teach him a lesson... Find someone who doesnt like him 0X are those ppl you "made out" with saying they did it to? or just him? You just need to set the record striaght with who ever asks you.... come on a girl pressuring a guy into sex... RIGHT!!? He is just a 'jerk' says, tell everyone he has a little.... ya you know

gracee She just turned 21 I turn 22 end of July. Shes had 2 bfs. I know she is VERY shy around "BOYS" As far as I can tell she totally flirts with me. Example...Last story link removed cookies I always try to stay positive She lives 3 hours away for the summer. So right now im only talking to her on the phone. So I can't just smile 8) But..She wants me and our mutal friends to come and visit her ASAP. dilemmaforlove Ya... I figured I shocked her, It was just spur of the moment. I hope you're right about her non-anwser = good things ill let ya know! ALL OF YOU im bored and I like 2 share..... A pic of us: link removed THANKS

Long story short, been talking to this girl, She HATES talking on the phone yet we talk for a long time, 45min to 1 1/2 hrs at a time. Anyways I alway get caught up in what we're talking about and don't ask her out..... Tonight we talked, made a few ref. towards how cute she was... she went to tan, got burn. she said she when she touched her butt it hurt... I asked If I could touch it She just laughed... All we do is laugh together. Ok.... Her phone was dying, so we were saying good bye's, I said something along the lines as "I've been wanted to ask you something... Will you go on a date with me?" Her "I cant believe you just asked me like that, im SOOO EMBARRASSED!" She didnt anwser me, she said she was Embarrassed like 2 more times. None of them were mean or rude. I know shes very shy towards guys. Was this a good sign or what? She NEVER told me an anwser..... She wants me to call her tomorrow.... another sign? Thanks, I hope I dont go crazy

DUDE!!! I've been there! All I have to say is dont be anything you're not just be you. You should try new things, such as going to school dances (im white i cant dance ) but every-1 can dance to slow songs!! You're 16 time to start driving now, Drive around, get out, met ppl! Even if is just to say "whats up?" Something that I've learned is that you will hardly catch a girl looking at you, but they do, Girl are more sly then guys! Guys, Like you and I aren't sly like that we always get caught. But all girl liked to be looked at. Attention is what they really crave. one last thing, if you have any girl----friends have see if they will hook you up with one of their other friends or met girls as only friends.

Honestly I've had the opposite side of you're exp. I wasnt/not afriad of death at all. A few things you need to remember is that dreams are crazy and scary. I've had many of dreams when I was trying to be killed, saw my self dead, but was looking at it. A movie like Fight Club helped me out in a lot of ways.... Who cares what kind of car you drive, where you live, "the things you own, own you" Another movie is Final Destination You have your time coming. there is nothing that you can do to stop it. Why waste your time worried, bothered, or scared. Have fun, stay outta trouble, do something that takes your mind off of it -hope i helped AOL mcbride61

Well what all went wrong? If you gone on one date she likes you. I would tell her that you are sorry about the last date, and would like to make it up to her with another date. Girls are ALWAYS busy... If she says shes busy Wait a week, ask... or until she says yes or tells you that she doesnt want to go with you. Hope this helps! GOOD LUCK

Long story: link removed Short: I Like this girl: Not sure if she likes me, she went home for the summer. What is the best way to go about asking her out or telling her that I like her... when I have to do it over the phone?? We are both pretty shy, but we have almost everything in common. She is very classy, but not a snob. I dont want to say anything rude or ghetto: aka you look fine girl.... you know that stupid stuff Any other ideas from my other post "long story" Just Cuz: A pic of us.. link removed

thx BUT.... 1) I havn't know her very long. "I've talk to her a few times when shes came over" FEW as in 4-5 2) Shes NOT my buddies GIRL its girl is my buddies' GF's Friend" (Shes a Classmate of my buddies girlfriend) I would never hook up with my buddies G/F's Thanks To every-1 whos helped!!

This girl is my buddies' GF's Friend... I've talk to her a few times when shes came over about random things. We all went out on her 21st birthday. In CA, it was hot I wore a small white shirt(I have a linebacker style body) While in the bar she grabs my arm (her)"do you work out?" (me) "no i just dont wear small shirts!" (her)"maybe you should" blah blah blah she was talking to me the enter night while this other dude was tryin' to hit on her... I'm pretty shy so i didnt make a move B4 she left from college for the summer. We took some pictures, all of us friends. I have a digital cam, we were going to take a pic together she got really close and huged my side very tight. the pic was taken. (my friend)"Ohh that was a good pic" (her)"ya it is, WE LOOK GOOD TOGETHER!" (me) I called her to get her e-mail for the digital pics. when I called she sounded excited. she shoe'd her mom outta the room. She showed her mom the pics and all that(her)"thats him...blah blah blah, WE LOOK GOOD TOGETHER" (me)"yes we do!" (her)" i told my mom about you...." (me) " all good things right" (her) "of course, everythings good" BACKTRACK: 1st thing she said to me, "I HATE talking on the phone" but we talked for over 1 hour. about she had pic frames for some of our pics... how her dad would love me.... Just random things... also we all(including my friends) are planning to come visit her. She told me that she'd call me the next day, she didnt(no biggie) How long should I wait to call her? ANYWAYS i really dont know if she wants anything more.. or just friends. How else can I tell? what could I do to show/say that I want to be more then friends(Im usally in the "Friends zone") thanx