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I never even said the word 'masculinity'! It does however show your lack of integrity and lack of strength! You could have paid her back with a phone call to 911 and have her arrested for battery. That would have done the trick. By her slapping you...how does that say she's acting like a man? Obviously not only men slap!
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Yep, do her a favor and never go back to her. She deserves better. It's never right for anyone to hit....and at the same time, you sound proud that you hit her back! Like it makes you some sort of bigger man that you didn't let that witch get by with hitting you.... I'm glad that I raised my son to be a real man. If a woman ever hits him, he turns and walks away. That...shows integrity and strength!
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Um...I dont live there so I have no clue..can you look it up in the online yellow pages?
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Sounds fair to me. I cant say that I blame you. It would be too hard for me too. But, do you really think she will be honest with you if she is just using you? You could do this....but it will be a waiting game and you've shown you dont have a great track record with patients.....lol
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She has zero trust in you. It's too hard to play mind reader so just take her for what she says and don't read between the lines. Apparently she wants to remain friends with you but doesn't like it when you push for a relationship. Thats when she backs off. When the balls in her court and she calls you... she feels she has the control over the situation....and that is just keeping it a friendship. She may be using you too!
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I think your relationship has run it's course! It doesn't mean that she doesn't love you anymore, or that seeing you talk to other women doesn't hurt....because she still cares for you and of course that type of thing will hurt her. But I think she knows in her own mind that your relationship was toxic. It held too much pain to endure any longer. Your not compatible. This is what she said...so this is what she wants. You cant make more of it then what it is. I believe she said this because she really does/did love you....but all the problems just tarnished and soured your relationship. I think your playing head games with her to purposely hurt her...that will come back to haunt you. You don't do this to ppl you love and care about. And....I doubt she will forget it. It just adds another nail in your coffin so to speak...because you said.. ^too many times!
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husband cheated and is now avoiding confrontation
doyathink replied to santh2007's topic in Infidelity
Words of wisdom Dako! God forgives all sin other then denying him as lord and savior! He also states that if you have done all you can do...counseling and such...and if your partner has committed adultery....he gives his permission to seek a divorce. Matthew 19:9 (King James Version) And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Matthew 5:32 (New International Version) But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery -
I'm good, miss talking with ya tho... your rarely on anymore... Hey, from what I've seen you would be a great catch and I'm sure she's noticed that...she works with you, she knows you somewhat. If she told you that she should just break up with her bf and go out with you....joking or not....most ppl wouldn't say that to just anyone off the street would they. She must have some interest in you. I would never allow someone to sleep in my bed and snuggle with me that I wasn't really interested in. I would assume most would think the same. Maybe ask her if she would want to go out for dinner...or a drink ....a coke...whatever, and see where the convo goes. If shes interested she should give off some sort of signal.
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I agree with the other that he is lying. He text her saying "It was indeed very nice to meet you, and I wouldn't mind talking to you but since you are not okay with it then this is how it is then. You are very attracive I might add, before you cut me off". Now how bold of a statement is this? his intent was to start something with this lady. This speaks volumes. It's hard to leave and when you have kids that makes it so much harder. The thing to remember is .....he will most likely cheat on you at some point. Use that for your motivation for packing your bags.
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Yep, I do. I love my kids more tho.
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Hey Iron....nice to see ya again. Hey, I agree with the others.....contact her and just ask a few questions. How long did her and her x go out? Were they pretty serious?
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I would think if he had ill intentions he would go out of his way to hide it. Like have the flowers delivered to her or something. Maybe he takes her for a fool!
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I agree with the others on this....but I wonder, why did he ask her if he could do it first? He could have done it behind her back and never said a word to her.
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The Official Valentine's Day Gift Suggestion Thread
doyathink replied to annie24's topic in Sex and Romance
Steak dinner by candle light. A nice bottle of wine. Fire in the fireplace. NO KIDS! Imagination. -
cantexplain, I have to tell you..I admire your posts. You and Northalius truly have my appreciation when it comes to the way you think and treat women. I know in my younger years I didn't always think the way I do now...and it would usually lead me to trouble. I don't know how any one would not want their partner to be exclusive to them...mind, body and soul. It's so easy for any of us to fantasize about other attractive ppl...were human....and to some degree, I suppose we all do. It's when we allow ourselves to do it in a sexual way that, in my mind, is cheating. Having self control over ones mind is not always an easy task...however, it does make that commitment even stronger. I know that if my partner would do this.....I would and could love him the way he wants me too, but when I see him looking up other women ALL the time on the internet....it brings resentment and I have withdrawn from the relationship. I have a wall up now, which has kept me from giving all of my love to him because it hurts me. Anyway, I commend the both of you for such honesty and integrity.
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A relationship is supposed to be built on trust and respect. When you start the lying and covering up...or just flat leaving out important information...you are tearing at the very heart of this foundation! This 'kiss' and the heavy flirting already shows lack of good judgment and integrity....why further the problem and continue to hide it? If she finds out from some other source....then you have two indiscretions to explain.
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I hear what you are saying...I find it childish to say the least. They need to grow up and stop being completely driven by their member. Showing some discipline and self control goes a long way.
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I eat yogurt everyday.....maybe that has something to do with it... TM..The girl you were talking about was either really dirty or had an STD for her to smell that pungent. I used to shower with 40 girls in school after PE and I never once smelled another girls crotch filling the room up...so I bet she was filth or loaded with something...lol
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It's your choice...but think of this. what if she agrees to this and starts seeing another dude and FALLS FOR HIM?
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Does he get upset with you when you tell him 'no' or ' I don't want to' in other areas of your life? Like say, he wants to go out and you don't...does he get upset with that too? I agree he may feel 'rejected'...at the same time I wonder if he's just putting a guilt trip on her because he wants it and he's not getting his way all the time.
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Trust is a horrible thing to lose......once lost, it takes a concerted effort to regain...if ever 100%.
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Thanks I just wanted to hear what you would do in a situation like this. If you weren't in the mood...what you would tell your gf... I really didn't need you to tell your side again....but thats cool too....lol
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She didn't say that she is 'never' in the mood. But I asked you a question! What do you suggest she say to him when she isn't? Everyone has times that they aren't in the mood...everyone. So, what do you think she should say to him if she isn't?
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Tiredman, if she isn't in the mood...should she just go ahead and do it anyway? What would you suggest she do?
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This is why he left her....
