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  1. freedom
    She2smart??? are you single..??
  2. freedom
    A qoute from a commitment phobe? Basically says, appriciate what i give you, even though it may not be suffiecient to mantain a relationship. If you want to be with me, that is just too bad.
  3. freedom
    NC'ing because of PMT .IMO that is silly. I mean if you were to ever have a long term relationship that isnt the answer. TSK. Have you been to the doc's to see ifyou can get control over your PMT. SOmetimes the pill helps. TO be honest PMT or not i think self control is another thing. PMT does NOT give you the right to be a cow. I have heard too many excusses from women with PMT that it is getting a little old. I have friends that have very bad PMT's but are still able to function and control themselves. Having PMT is not an excuss for Bad behaviour. Self control and discipline is what is required. If it get really bad, explain and take time out.
  4. freedom
    take away any chance of contacting him or him contacting you. That means... 1: you have to change your phone number. (if he does know it he cant call you) 2: Remove yourself from any online chat programs. Wheni say remove i mean delete/uninstall. (people that you know on line will understand) IF yo have to be online because of family oversea then install a different chat program. 3: stay away from home as much as possible. 4: (this help me most) dont take your mobile phone out with you. You have survived without it, you can survive without it.
  5. freedom
    Good grief!!!.. You shouldn't think like THAT!! You do it when you are ready, not any sooner.
  6. freedom
    part 1: if she doesnt want to have you as a friend then let go. part 2: You are obsessing about a person you met once. This is usually a problem after someone on a rebound. Let go and find more girls to date and hang out with. Final advice: STOP lookking at her MYspace then you wont be jealous!!. Don't be so clingy and needy for the next girl you meet.
  7. freedom
    Sorry to hear tht you are going through this. THis is the way i look at it, there is not point staying with someone that doesnt want to be with you. In my opinion you dont have to explain about the myspace login at all, it was just a means to an end. It is prety clear that she doesnt want to be wit you because she has said that she has thought about cheating on you, worst still she has a histroy of cheating. So why put yourself throught the hurt by hanging on to somethig that doesnt want you? I know it hurt to let go, but in this situation letting go earlier would be better then hanging on to thin air. I suppose the way to go about ending it (if you choose it) is to end it because the feelings are not mutual and the fact that she though of cheating on you indicates that.
  8. freedom
    From the prespective hat you have told us, it seems to me she knows what she wants... She want to be single but she misses being with you. Isnt that what she is saying? It doesnt mean that she wants to be with you, it just means that she misses you, nothing more nothing less. Maybe it is time to move on?
  9. freedom
    Momeme... sometimes your advice comes accross as harsh.... but they come accross to me as good food for thought.
  10. freedom
    we didnt quite help did we... just confused you more .. Simple question is,... has he ever mentioned about going to paris??? if not, drop a hint and see his reaction.
  11. freedom
    wwwwwooooooowwww!!!... Again you are the last to know... and so much for being anonymous. I can also see your point of view buddy that you cared. but i suppose it is they way to put it accross that makes it so controlling. Love isnt about one way conditions.
  12. freedom
    TVR!!! for me but at the same time.. paris sounds god for US.
  13. freedom
    look like she has alot of issues. Things SHE has to sort out herself. She has a long way to go and to be honest i don;t think i should be your problem. I am not saying that you should be selfish, what i am saying is that she isnt a good match. Relationships are about matching and to be honest you guys just dont match. A clear indiction is that you argue till you either one of you breaks down. Relationships should be postive and it looks to me that you are in a negative relationship. You dont need this at your age. Look for a more positive enviroement.
  14. freedom
    Only you can answer this yourself. no one can help you. We can only say be careful. YO uon the other hand should know if she is more then a friend to YOU and then do something about it.
  15. freedom
    what an idiot!!!.. dump him.... a guy that measures losing wieght to the level of trust... BLAH... What a dork!... not worth it!!..
  16. freedom
    I wouldnt like it. Kinda disrespectful i my opinion. I would agree with the other, you cant control her but you can say that you want to meet this guy because they have a history. THen you make the decsion based on her answer.
  17. freedom
    GOOD GOD.. i read the post thru!! TIme to put your hinking cap on. You have been with her 5 weeks and chemistry is great. good start. DO you love her??... you dont know becuase you dont know her, that is the reason you are going nuts. Does she love you??.. She doesnt know.. because she doesnt know you. What you have here is infactuation, the early stages of luuuvvveeee. Whch is a great start but you re driving yourself stir crazy because she is going from hot to cold and hot again. It is the chase. My advice is not to look at the hot to cold but to look at the person and find out more about them. Control yourself and the situation. About her moving, the primary reason you have to remain cool.
  18. freedom
    she is going to feel like * * * * when she takes the morning after. it is beter to feel like * * * * then to be unexpectedly pregnant i suppose.
  19. freedom
    sometimes, eople uses others not intensionally, it is just weakness. Approaching her and asking is just a waste of tie because: 1) she will deny it (who isn;t) 2) She did not intend to 'use' you. If she just plays the wait and see game maybe it you should detech yourself and put your energy into YOUR future.
  20. freedom
    Experience and mistake makes us grow. Learning from them make us a better person.
  21. freedom

    moving on

    freedom replied to Jacl's topic in Breaking Up Advice

    Erhhh??? what is that vent all about?? Totally went iover my head.
  22. freedom
    Just for a laugh. you might want to watch.. When Harry met Sally.
  23. freedom
    Hey.. Here is my 2 cents worth. He isnt interested in a relationship with you. He could be afraid that if he hangs out with you you might want more. (you might have inadvertantly shown it) He is a nice guy, he like you as a friend but he doesnt want more. I maybe wrong, but that is what i see. How do you handle it?? Remember that he doesnt want more. Wait and see what happens.
  24. freedom
    btw... if you are staying with this person... you aer wasting your energy on someone that doesnt want you all that much. There isnt anything wrong with you. It is just that she knows what she wants in her future. If you decide to end it, maybe you will have more energy to look for someone else OR more energy for your own needs and interest. Have you thought about your own future?? about what you want?? Maybe this is a good thing to help you think about your future, Uni, college, become a millionaire, skydiver?? I am saying is dont waste your energy on something that doesnt see you in the future. YOu might as well use the energy on yourself. I can truly tell you that it will be worth it. ABout LDR. Someone has said that they want to end it in 8 months. You just hanging around till that time will look weak from her perspective. What people wait is something they cant have. If you start thinking about yourself and aiming for your own goals irrigardless to what she wants she will gain respect for you and MAYBE think about LDR. until then you are on the weaker end of the stick.
  25. freedom
    Look dude... She is using you now. She knows what she wants... She wants her careera first and there is nothing wrong with that and maybe that is what you should focus on too. But if you continue this relationship knowing that this person will love you till 8 months time.. i will just say its just plain stupid. You are looking for hurt. Why be with someone that doesnt value YOU or the relationship? She will say things to keep it as they are, till 8 months time where she will end it. I would recommend to end it know whilst things are clearer and emotions and feeling arent so deep.
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