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  1. i dunno, i just have a feeling somethings up. ive logged on to her email and myspace account to find some messages that made me wonder whats going on...i just dont know that know she has a habit of cheating on me and something she said made a guy say "we'll never be a thing" makes me suspicious and scared
  2. im worried shes either cheating on me or shes off doing something she knows i would not be comfortable. but again her PARENTS told me something, i really dont think they would lie to me unless theres something up. i just dont know. im so confused and so hurt...
  3. ok so alot of you know that me and my gf has had some issues. friday she left school early to go to a depression meeting with her doctor. a few hours later i didnt hear anything and on my way to the pep band game i get stopped by her mom who says theres been a family emergancy and they were going over there. that was about 6:00pm Friday and its 9:00pm on Monday and I STILL havent heard ANYTHING from my gf. no phone call, not a damn thing! shes one of those girls who has to call you everyday or every other day just fyi. im getting pissed and at the same time concerned that maybe shes not really at her aunts and shes doing something else. this is the same weekend she joked around to me that she and a guy friend were going to new york, which i find suspicious. im going crazy wondering whats really going on. i reeeeeally need help. what should i do when she finally calls me??? help!
  4. im so heart broken. me and my girlfriend have been dating for the past 9 months and in the last month shes told me that im not the guy she pictured she'd be with and that shes been tempted to cheat on me but wont because she loves me. shes told me shes cheated on all of her boyfriends. well heres my problem. in the last 2-3 weeks ive noticed her change. ever since she got a job shes a changed person. well, shes been awfully close to new guys from work and even my friends. the other night she went to a movie, alone, with one of my guy friends and i was home sick. lately i've sensed shes doing something behind my back. a few months ago she told me her password to her myspace and being curious, i logged on it. what i found shocked me. lately shes been trying to talk to him and pretty much flirting. shes been calling him cute and saying she misses him and that she wants to give him her #. tonight i found a message where she called him hot stuff, said she missed his cute face and cant wait to see him at work again and that she hopes he dreams well...im crushed. i know something is going on but I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!! please help. do i confront her and tell her ive been reading her myspace or do i let this go and feel humiliated???? HELP!](*,)
  5. thanks to all the replys...i do have 2 more things to add to it: 1. we were not planning on getting pregnant but after we do have sex were both always worried she is. this time after having sex i fingered her a little and when i stopped i noticed some white substance on my fingers. i couldnt tell if it was as thick as my "runoff" but could women have the same white color fluids at times? 2. if she is pregnant, and im 18, can her parents have me arrested?
  6. ok so me and my girlfriend have been really good lately and active. we havent had sex for awhile (since we got caught months ago) but were thinking of having sex. i JUST turned 18 and shes a few months from 17. i live in wisconsin. would this be violating the AOC laws and can i go to jail if she gets pregnant?
  7. ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 8 months. we've had sex a few times and i was wondering how long most people last.
  8. me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months. around the 4th month we were caught having sex. ever since then we've been on a tight leash and not allowed to do anything. she agreed we shouldnt do anything sexual but i didnt totally agree but whatever. she started working alot last month and thats when she started to seem to change. ever since then we've been fighting a little more often. yesterday we were having such a great and fun day until we went to see a friend. she talked about calling me a few days earlier and talking about college and moving and stuff like that. well, my girlfriend got royally pissed off at this. she accused me of being bored with her and cheating/flirting w/ other girls because shes working. now she tells me she kinda likes another guy. i truly love this girl and sure she can be controlling and manipulative but im hoping with love and understanding she can see what shes doing and needs to work on. were talking today to maybe try to fix some things. i really dont know what to do. i want to end all this hurt and devestation but then again i cant stand losing the girl i love. WHAT DO I DO!?! ](*,)
  9. im 17, shes 16. all were basically allowed to do is be in public or whatnot, cant be at the park (since we did something there at night), if were at a house a parent must be home, and just treating us like little kids, like we dont know what to do unless they tell us. its ruined our relationship.
  10. ok the last few days have been kinda hard on me. my girlfriend of 6 months wants to break up because she says we have no passion anymore. im not even sure what she means by passion but i'll give you some info on the last few months. her stepdad in june found out that we had sex a few times, one of which in the basement of his house. even since then he says that we've lost his trust and hes banned me from his basement, taking her to the park (at all), and not being alone with her ever, aside from that also treating us like were 10. her brother is the same age and he and his girlfriend can do WHATEVER they want, when and however long they want. so were being treated unfairly and we both think thats whats ruining our relationship. theres not much we can do in this city after his restrictions, so we keep doing the same things over. how can i get the passion back in our relationship and prove to her i still love her?
  11. my parents hate me...thinking of me as a and a no good kid who thinks about no one but himself, looking for work for about a year and getting blown off on a regularly basis, my relationship is going to . it seems petty but theres nothing worse than your family hating you, and feeling alone all the time. i try to be a good kid but nothing seems to work. i cant help but feel alone in this world and thinking i feel alone, why not BE alone.
  12. lately ive been having a really hard time and i cant stop thinking of ending it all. all life does to me is hurt me and i take take it anymore. i just want to die and never deal with this anymore.....i keep thinking "so people may be hurt"...but im hurting now more they can ever imagine. i dont want this anymore. i dont know what to do.....
  13. well its my money thats was left to me. ive been trying to get a job and theyre happy im trying. i asked to use MY money but i still need their permission to use it.
  14. ok so ive been driving my moms car for almost a year now. im 18 in a few months and for the last few months ive been trying to ask them to get a car for me. but everytime i try they just say no without any talk or anything. i thought i knew better to get my hopes up around my parents but i guess i dont. anyone have any advice on what i can do to at least talk about it.
  15. thats what im hoping to do. i respect him and i want him to respect me to. i just want him to know we want to be safe and we love each other and we want to be able to show it when its a good and special time. tonight was not the night to say i want to continue having sex, mainly because he was very pissed at me and shoving the pictures in my face. hes talking with her mom and we will be discussing this before she comes next month. i just need time to think about all this.
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