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  1. lonelyandblue
    Girls scratch and bite because it's a way of letting out our enthusiasm for the event that's happening.
  2. lonelyandblue
    maybe he just wanted to be close?
  3. lonelyandblue
    maybe he hit a nerve?? You aren't alone, but I don't have a great explanation, sorry.
  4. lonelyandblue
    well, last night, my "ex"-alcoholic husband got himself some wine and after he got pretty buzzed, we went out to dinner with my brother and sister in law. We had a pretty good time, except for the fact that he kept "flirting", with my sister in law and making crappy comments towards me. For instance, my brother wouldn't look at the waitress so he couldn't be accused of checking her out. And my husband chimed in that it's ok, i am. etc. I am getting so tired of putting up with instances like this. Does this sound disrespectful to you?
  5. lonelyandblue
    If you aren't already in too deep, dump him. You were trying to help him out. And it looks like an indication of an anger problem.
  6. lonelyandblue
    Don't forget to dim the lighting, if possible. And maybe have a drink beforehand to help you relax. But don't feel like an idiot because he will enjoy that you put the effort to do this for him. Even if you make a mistake.
  7. lonelyandblue
    Turn off arrogance, turn on patience.
  8. lonelyandblue
    write in a journal, dream, set goals, learn to cook, learn how to invest money.......
  9. lonelyandblue
    I see my life as driven by emotions, lacking logical thought and reasoning. Lots of this stems from childhood neglect and abuse. This has been a struggle to get past. And I struggle in life to find social acceptance. I find I am too nice of a person and get walked on. I often take personal offense to things that may be totally unrelated to anything about me.My life for the moment seems paused and it is hard to go on because I feel like so much is going/ has gone on and I just feel like I can't function well these days. Anyone else understand?
  10. lonelyandblue
    It is so nice to hear a man say that about his wife. Have you tried "dating" her? Where you get a babysitter for your girl (s) and go out for a night on the town with your wife? And is life in the bedroom routine? Maybe you could spice it up a bit?? You could buy a tantric sex book or something?
  11. lonelyandblue
    Can you say pyramid scam??? Do not just look away....RUN!!!
  12. lonelyandblue
    to me, around 25 and after, is a turn off. I can understand staying a little after college till you find a job or something, but not longer than that.
  13. lonelyandblue
    I also am going through it. All of these issues which apart are easy, but together add up and take their toll. Good luck. YOu CAN get through it.
  14. lonelyandblue
    Please take it from me, when a guy says
  15. lonelyandblue
    How much are you supposed to put up with before you throw the towel in on your marriage?? I feel like I've put in my fair share. Or maybe we just have too many differences. Either way. It's like I'm just in this thing for my daughter now. I've tried talking, changing and to no avail. I hate his anger problem that I put up with daily. We can't hold a conversation without getting angry at each other. He is only nice to me when he wants sex. And sex is just that. It is like a crude act. Not loving like I feel it should be. We have a daughter, so I try to be unselfish and do this for her. But I am so unhappy. I want MORE in my life. And the other problem is I want custody of her if something came about. But she is crazy about her father. GRR!
  16. lonelyandblue
    It occurred to me yesterday just how off keel I have gotten in my life. I have for some time created a fantasy relationship in my mind with a past ex. It happened yesterday because I found out that he is going to ask this girl to marry him. Which is normal of course, because he is going on with his life and we haven't gone out for a while. But what a reality check because when I found this out I got jittery and shaken feeling. But now I feel free because I don't have to live wondering about things about him. I just am surprised at how carried away I got. I'm sure it was an escape for me, but I think somewhere in my mind I was litterally just thinking, wishing and hoping these things that realistically would never be?? I've never felt so out of touch.
  17. lonelyandblue
    I have yellow teeth too, which I think is gross, but I brush and floss like an expert. A lot of my problem is I drink a lot of coffee, tea, and soda's. So if your guy likes his caffiene that could be the main culprit and it's a hard habit to break.
  18. lonelyandblue
    I think it is a perfectly normal feeling right now. It happened to me when I was eighteen.I couldn't explain it either and I thought that it was so strange. Especially because I was not around a lot of babies while I was growing up. I now have a baby, but I didn't have her until the conditions were right; financially stable, etc.
  19. lonelyandblue
    We all feel this way sometimes. Besides if you were just trying to be her friend then it isn't a big deal is it? There are many other fish in the sea...
  20. lonelyandblue
    Truthfully it sounds like he has found someone else and is stringing you along. I agree with the other posters. Dump him and NC.
  21. lonelyandblue
    Don't be a jerk.
  22. lonelyandblue
    Just give them your two weeks notice. Work the same as you always did during those two weeks. And that should be good enough. This way you wouldn't hurt your cousin either. IF they ask why? Just say it is cutting into your homework time and your grades are slipping.
  23. lonelyandblue
    Maybe you could go the site link removed and see what others thought about it? That might give you some insight on whether or not it is a good product.
  24. lonelyandblue
    I don't think it's bad no matter your age. It is just a difference. Everyone has their own individual desires and differences. But I am the same way and quite a bit younger, so I wonder if this is normal? Can a woman peak earlier than the certain age that someone came up with?
  25. lonelyandblue
    I love that done to my ears. When you ask her, I think if you whispered it, it would seem kind of sexy. In plain conversation it can seem kind of a turnoff.
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