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Hey Sorry about everyone's negative experiences but I was wondering if ppl like us have something in common, are we all strongly or emotionally attached to things? Happy Heb

lol that's cheating icepixie! Anyway, nice to hear from you too, yea I know what its like to just feel like laughing out of nowhere and then the other person's like "what's so funny" and you two's just end up laughing for absolutely no reason! Happy Heb (yay, this was my 500 post)

Since you are unsure of what she wants, perhpas you need to ask yourself what YOU want and take in control. I just don't think its a good idea to ask her out assuming that she likes you, coz if she rejects you, u're gonna feel worse than you would if you knew it was entirely your choice to have asked her out in the first plus. If you like her, then go for it man, life's way 2 short. Happy Heb PS, we're always here if you need help on how.

Hey Becca I'm sorry to hear about what's happening and you would be a bit cut up about it. lol I was just thinkin that you'd snap sooner or later if you were really unhappy and BANG there u go, and you said it yourself! I'll tell you what, if I were in your position, I'd test him, stop calling stop everything, avoid him and see how he reacts, I kno its mean and it would be harder for you to do that but I think you should find out how much he REALLY cares for you. Right now he might think you'll call him and see him and everything coz you probably assume the "giver" position in a relationship. But turn the tables on him, and if he'll change then he truly cares for you, if not. He's gonna have to choose and if you force him to choose one, I don't think u're gonna win so perhpas you'll have to rethink ur relationship with him and ask yourself what YOU want outta it. Happy Heb

Hey There's been heaps of discussion about fallin for work mates you should look around or contact a moderator for more information. I'd personally say it doesn't matter, go for it. And for gettin that attention, make sure u're always around him, smile, its the least you can do if you don't want to do anything. If he's less shy and he likes you, he'll talk to you and make conversation I think. Happy Heb

Hey lol Yea i used to think Sailor Moon or actually I think it was some other sailor was HOT STUFF and I had a crush on her! But perhpas your friend doesn't have a crush on anyone, it could just be that she honestly think they're cute like how we think puppies are cute, does that mean we have a crush on them? Happy Heb

Hey yea its true, you can be born with an STD and to be honest, you don't even need to have sex to get one. It's not as hard to contract one as you think it is. Basically you can get it through saliva as well (and you kno how easily that spreads) other ways could include needles which already had blood of a STD user, if that stabs u and touches ur blood, u'll most likely get that STD too. It's scary isn't it? Scared Heb LOL! ok u won't get it but others will.

Hey Cid Materia Goddess has covered good aspects from a girls view already. I'm gonna turn the tables around a little bit...WHY didn't YOU do anything? They would've hinted to you, the signs would've been there, I think at the end of the day, you can blame those chicks a bit but perhpas most of the fault lies in you...coz only you can change your life, no one else can do it for you remember? Some girls are really old fashioned and they think the guys should make the moves, I agree to a certain degree, at the end of the day a guy should ask the chick out but that chick should hint it a lot and plus, don't u chicks all think us guys are stupid? so more of a reason to already! So once you've thought about all the reasons why u neva asked those chicks out...turn the tables on urself and imagine them being exactly like you, could that help wif your question as well? Happy Heb

lol now that's a thing you don't hear about everyday! Hey Well closure for me is I wanna get over someone, however, that someone could be someone I still like but due to circumstances (that person is with another now or that person just isn't my type or that person doesn't like me anymore) I just can't like them at all and even though I do, I have made the decision not to. Bascially its justa way of getting a proper breakup and the good thinga bout it now is as you stilll like her, if you want to keep things for your interest (perhpas hers too) you can tell her that you still like her and maybe she could change her mind. There's always gonna be some off you left in her, how much is up to her to decide... Happy Heb

Hey lol, I'm not too sure what you mean. Ok i'm a guy but I'm sure we work the same ways as any girl could, we're all slightly similar in a way and I don't think gender makes that much of a difference. I talk for hours, I can talk for hours but the person has to at least sound interested or I kno wants to talk 2 me. If i don't want to talk, there'll be a excuse and that'll be the end of it. If I can talk for hours on the fone with a chick and not do so much talking, it'd be because she's really interesting or funny or something or it'd be pretty hard for me to listen for so long. It kinda works wif everyone though, how do you talk to someone you hate? Hope that helped. Happy Heb

Hey...all i can really say is people are hard to predict. Sometimes they're 100% genuine at the time sometimes not. I'd say give it some time, however, if you like him, why bother, take the risk, if he's a player, you're still getting things outta it, like lessons and lol - tiffany bracelets, you'll neva find out unless u give it a go Happy heb

Hey Yea it does help if we know him better but as a generalisation just take it easy. If he's a big talker he'll make the conversation, if he's say then you'll both be just as nervous really. Just when you see him, make a general comment on perhpas the surroundings, weather/temperature, food, grades, teachers, people, movies, music (where ever u are) or something around you like a bag with a bands name on it etc (if its belongings its easier if its his own). Talk about and ask for a numbe or something, then on, it should be easier to talk on the fone until you's have enough confidence... Happy Heb

Hey lol I dunno hey. Sometimes when its really bad u can smell it urself, just cover ur mouth wif ur palms and breath out really hard and smell it. If ur really desperate lick ur palm and smell that, that usually doesn't smell that good anyway tho. We all have bad breath everynow and them, sometimes just from the stuff we've eatin in meals. Others more unlucky could have gum problems etc that's causing that to happen. Butch's alternatives are good... Happy Heb

Hey Breakups are hard but hey, be grateful that you got to be with her and ok she just didn't think it was working, you kinda have to respect her decision there bud. Everyone's got the right idea tho, you need some closure for sure, contact her wether that be phone or a meeting (better ideas) tell her are you've been and she what happens from there. She's most likely moved on but somehow if she's nice enough, she too will help you move on, people like us really can't, it's the people who are closer who can really help you. It's true though you do need to move on, and at least you know that and are trying. Just remember it's not the end of the world, and if you stepped back from it all, life is still good Happy heb

Hey - lol, this is in the wrong category "child abuse?" Anyway, talk to her, get to know her throught phone, meetings, perhpas the net. It's a great idea to get to know one another and hint things to her. Look into her eyes a lot, smile, flirt or if you don't want to come on as strong, compliment her. 'luck Happy Heb

Hey Stiker The answer to your question for me is no, however, I did want to do that once. Everyone has different meanings, some may mean, I don't think I love you anymore but just to be in case, I'll say I still do so you can be my backupplan. In my case, and I'm still not sure. I know that I love her wif all my heart, but we're totally opposite people and the only thing keeping us together is our love for one another, however, we still don't get where that's from. Anyway, she's pretty happy with who I am, however, on the other hand, I have a lotta problems with her and often think about breaking up but I'm just too afraid to hurt her and I wanna see if time will change anything for her. She's better now so I hope more time will make more differences. It's like the saying "the thing you fall in love with could be the thing u can't live with" that thing could b shoes, clothes anything, it could look good for a while or with something else but not good when you have it, you get what i mean... And it was true, another reason would've been I need 2 find who I am first and I don't know why that works but it does, when you're so in love wif someone, you think about them more than urself, so the only way to find who u are and do things for urself again is to get away from them for a while. I'm not sure what your girl meant but from a guy, that's what i meant and other possibilities too. Hope that helped Happy Heb

Hey Drake Personally I don't see the point. Even if she did like you, would she be worth it if she broke up with her current bf just for you? how would you know that she wouldn't do it to you for someone else? So she did like you more than a friend? what difference does it make, it'll just be awkward between you two (or maybe one of u's) you're better off just being friends with her for now. Oh LOL you didn't ask wether u should ask but how would u kno LOL - my bad, I thought u asked the question butch answered to! THere's really no way I can tell, everyone has their own style and I don't want you catching on to wrong things and taking them as hints... Happy Heb PS If you do want to make things easier for the bf, ask her infront of the bf, if u know what i meant

Hey Well I dunno. But why bother, each guy will react differently and you shouldn't be jumping to conclusions. Best thing is make a move on him (not face2face) maybe leave him a note, phone etc. You know what I mean. 'luck Happy Heb

Hey Why not screw the face to face thing and call them or ask ova the net, thru a friend (i shouldn't recommend that but in ur case exceptions will be made). And just ask them 2 call u instead of waiting for an answer. Don't give up though, make things exciting, go for perseverance. Gilgamesh made good points... Happy Heb

Hey Everyone's got their own ways and thinking but hmm let me think. I'm not quite sure, people like that could be afraid to love as they've often been neglected by those who love but that wouldn't necessarily be the case that they won't be emotionally attached, they could just not be showing it or hiding it inside. So i'd agree with the "they have a hard time to show it to their partners" part... Happy Heb

lol akatoro..good point Happy Heb

Hey It doesn't matter, if they want him, they can go get him. If you want him, you can go get him... Don't think twice, go for it, u got nothin 2 loose. Happy Heb

Hey I was in the same position just about yesterday, and the truth is, everyone tried 2 help, I wouldn't listen and in the end, I came to my own conclusion and everyone was like "that's what i've been tryin 2 tell u". What I'm saying is, its better to work this out by urself. Sorry. And God is always there, sometimes, we just loose a bit of faith in him that's all. Happy Heb

Hey Ok lol, but don't we all want sex in a relationship? I don't think its about that, he's just really good friends with the other guy (at least its a guy...what do u hav 2 worry about?). THey're probably the bestest buds but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you and perhaps you need to seriously tell him you're not at all happy about it coz maybe he doesn't realise what he's doing (could be coz of his selfishness) but you have to make him see and if its serious, then seriously tell him... Happy Heb

Hey viettwinkle. I'm not too sure wether I've felt the same but at times, when lots of change is occurring or maybe during a period of stress (like something sudden has happened in ur life or during exam week) you tend to go paranoid over something. Sometiems its nothing, sometimes that's when you realise something new. Maybe its signs that you're about to loose something, a position, a friend, money etc? I think we all like to feel secure but I'm still not quite sure why u feel like that either. Maybe its just a fear of loosing something? Happy Heb