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Hey Sorry about your breakup, I know they're hard. Hang in there, you never know what tomorrow's got in store! Heb

Hey lol I gotta tell you man, there's nothing which can prove that she likes you based on these actions at all but honestly, there never is anyway. We can never be exactly sure. Overall I don't think these actions mean too much, my gf was like that during days when she wasn't interested in me at all, just being friendly etc etc, lol I remember myself asking the same question years ago when that happened "does this mean anything? why is she sitting next to me?" but I gotta break it to you, you really are observant lol I didn't even notice the crossing the leg thing at all! If you like her, hint it, don't sit around and wait for something to happen. Heb

Why not ask your friends you want to go meet new people and perhaps you can tag along with they go out with their friends etc etc etc, it's always a good way to meet new people if you don't want to seem desperate. Heb

lol you never know. Why?? did you tell her you liked her like that though, obviously people would feel uneasy, you should've just asked her out. Ask her out now and you'll find out how she feels. Heb

lol ur 15 man...there shouldn't be a problem at all, ur gonna be a big boy one day I don't see how your mom can not be fond of such a idea. But yea you're right, don't rush it, when the time comes, it'll be even more special. Have you tried a park? taking public transportation etc etc? Heb

Depending on how out going you two's are the bowling/putt putt + restaurant might not be good idea. Becuase this forces interaction and if one of you's are shy this might become uncomfortable. But if both of you's are outgoing, it's all good. Yea bowling etc places are great coz it enhances interaction whilst maintaining other people around so you won't feel funny. Heb

lol I'd find it funny perhaps either that or I'd think it's nice (depending on how close we were) but nah, I don't think it's stupid. Heb

Then do what you think is best... Going away has consequences too as you no doubt would expect. But if it's not too far then it's allright. However if it's a long distance then what about your friends, family? job etc etc? I know he says he can support you and all but unless it's exactly what you want, you should probably wait till you get married before risking it all. Heb

lol I better clarify myself before I get slammed and this disccusion gets heated. It's a stereotypical thing, that's what a lotta guys are meant to believe in a way that we gotta do everything for the girl - no hitting her, paying for her all the time, taking care of her etc etc get what I mean? They're all powerful and they get away with a lot of things - that's the impression we get. There's going to be a lot of girls who won't be like that and there'll be a lot who'll be in denail coz they think it's a bad thing but it's not too bad at all, if I was a girl, I'd make use of it as well but I'm not so there's other things we can do that girl's can't and we'll make use of that instead. It's all fair. Heb

I think it's a stereotypical thing. It's almost like girls are people who get away with everything whilst guys go chasing around after them and it's like they want all the attention or something coz yea they sure don't go around asking guys out as much as guys as girls out, that's got a lot to say about things. Heb

lol ur mom sounds a bit more into her interests (course she wouldn't want you to move out)."yea just keep your long distance relationship till you get married" it's more like "yea I know they're hard and usually don't work out so hopefully u'll break up with him soon..." I mean it sounds kinda wrong what you said about making it sound like ur chasing him. So what if ur chasing him? dont' you love this guy?!?! Do you just want all the attention and make him come after you or something? Perhaps you're just not ready for a serious relationship yet, sounds like you want to be more independent with paying your own bills, supporting yourself etc etc. It's not a bad thing at all, we all want some independence at stages in our lives. Just talk to him about it, he'll understand. Heb

lol what did every1 do? I made my mom a card and took her out for lunch. Heb

Yea, I'm with everyone. THere's nothing you can really do. The faster you learn and accept yourself, the better it'll be. Being short won't make a difference too much, you can still be strong if you workout so you don't get picked on, or even be witty if you don't like violence. I'm short myself for a guy so I live with it, and it's not like you won't find a chick who you'll love either, your chances will be decreased slightly but at the end of the day, everyone will like personality just a bit over looks and once they accept you, it doesn't matter how tall you are. Heb

Woah, now that is a tough call. It depends, if you move away on your family and friends as well as the probability of finding a new job (unless this is like close by and they won't be affected). But if you can get your bf 2 help out actually why don't you just go live with him? and use the trucks you buy to get there! Heb

Well it depends on wether you liked it or not I reckon. If you liked it and want to do it more often then you must likely are bi. However, there's nothing wrong with being bi, you simply get the best of both worlds if you know what i mean! Heb

Yup that's your tale tale yes I'm having a orgasm sign. Good job Yes its possible, it's highly possible. I've heard that mothers can even have orgasms while breastfeeding! Btw what "different technique" did you try? Heb

Yea maybe he doesn't like it like everyone else has mentioned. He won't cum in your mouth, that has something to say. It does indeed sound like a personal hygene thing, have you asked him? Heb

Hey Apart from what MVP has said, I'd like to emphasise the fact that if she has a bf, just stay away, as simple as that. You might damage things between her and her guy which could lead up to your own friendship with her being hurt. Alternatively, if you keep persuing her, it could land you a punch, or in some cases, punches to various parts of your body. I know you like her heaps but it ain't healthy and if she'll be yours, she still will. Heb

Lol judging by the "and she'll get more than that" you sound like you are insecure about it. And seriously, there's nothing wrong, I'm a insecure guy too and we can't help it but wonder if that special someone is cheating while they're away for 3 months and more. I have recently been in a kinda long distance relationship like you are now. I was living away for a few months but I'm back now. Here are some tips I think should help you out. I don't believe in Long Distance Relationships (LDR) unless its only short term as I don't see just how they can work out. Being a month and a bit away from my girl drove me crazy but it's kinda a lesson to be learnt and it teaches you just how much you need that special someone around. Here are some tips for your LDR Communication Keeping in touch is important, but it doesn't necessarily have to be expensive. Talking on the phone is great but I recommend trying to alternate who's footing the bill. Short upbeat messages left on the answering machine are nice too - you can play them over, and over, and over.... I can't say enough about how important e-mail can be. It's faster than mail, and it's cheaper than the phone. You can get an e-mail account at most colleges prepaid by your tuition. Snail-mail is important, too. A handwritten letter, or a card "for no reason" can go a long way. Communication means talking about what's going on in your life, and how you're feeling about things. If you don't communicate, your SO(significant other) probably isn't going to read your mind. Communication also means listening! On a sub-topic, there are a lot of fun things you can send in the mail: Holiday related items, tapes with music mixes, cute things you find in gift shops, videos if you have the equipment, poetry (yours, or stuff you've found), and songs. My favorite is one of those blank puzzles that you can find in card shops or art stores - make a picture/message, and send a couple of pieces at a time with letters and cards. Cookies are cute, too, if you can manage it. Trust In order to pull off a LDR, you need to have a LOT of trust in your partner. If you don't, you may end up wasting a lot of time wondering where they are and who they're with. Insecurity isn't a good attribrute to drag into a LDR. And here's your main problem, there isn't really a lot you can do but trust this girl you're with, after all, she is someone you're looking into having around in the future, how can you not trust her and if you are unable to trust her, how can you even live with her? Respect If you are leaving your SO's home area to go to college, other studies, or job reasons, do form new friendships. At college especially, you're going to a new place, and forming a new life. SO's should respect the existence and time devoted to this new life. A new life doesn't mean you don't care about your partner anymore, it means you're are still a living, breathing, valuble person when they aren't around. It also cuts down on the ever-present "I-miss-you!" loneliness/longing. Respect your partner's decision to live a life which doesn't revolve solely around you. Honesty Be honest about how you feel about your relationship, and what's going on in your life. Again, mind reading is unusual. If your studies or job are keeping you busy, or if you're sick, tell you partner - it's easier to understand why you haven't e-mailed in a while, or why you seem cranky/moody. Don't forget to tell them about the good things happening in your life as well as the bad ones! In the unfortunate case you decide that the relationship isn't working - for goodness sake, don't just leave the other person in the dark, be honest with them. This doesn't mean being rude or thoughtless. Try to avoid telling them before major exams, or during finals. And don't leave it on an answering machine. Love and commitment are also important, but I think that goes without saying. Believing in true love/ destiny might help, too. As to visiting each other, it depends on the distance, your financial situation, and what kinds of public or private transportation methods are available to you. Who pays for who to go where when and how often can end up being a point of contention, so be careful. During visits, you may feel a bit awkward - sometimes I do, sometimes I don't - and things are still working. You may want to take things slow for the first few days. And in my experience, the goodbyes get a little bit easier each time. Parents can be a "problem" for many teens entering in to LDRs, especially those begun online. Remember that most of the time they are trying to do what they think is best. They've seen scary things on the news, and like anyplace else, the internet has its dangers. Parents don't always have a full grasp of all that the internet is, and they don't feel like it's something the have control over - this makes them want to protect you from it. Try to explain things to them, and try to be patient. Try to avoid going behind their backs - if they find out (and they have a knack for it) they feel even less in control, and that will make things worse for you. I've had parents , so feel free to e-mail and ask for advice regarding them. What about what other people think? Some people may think you are wasting time in attempting a LDR: "Why bother? It never works." (Wrong - Explore the web, successes exist). Other people think it is a very brave thing to do and will regard you highly because of it. However, it's not what other people think that should matter in deciding whether to enter into a LDR. It's what you and your partner mean to each other. Nonetheless, it is more helpful to have supportive friends. Remember,"Absense makes the heart grow fonder". or as some believe it "Absense makes the heart cheat" - and its true enough too!

Actually, I'm sorry, that didn't sound ok...saying you're old and stuff. I'm just a lot younger, sorry once again if I offended you. You're 40, it's not the end of the world and if your husband doesn't want to do it, you can always try other things. Like dildos etc etc etc Heb

Hey I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe he's having problems keeping his sexual drive up? I know it's not that likely for a 30 year old but lol you never know. I suppose you're just gettin old and unless you find something interesting and now that would excite him I'm afraid it doesn't seem like there's a lot you can do. Heb

Well tell her the most interesting things, everytime something happens, write it downor take a mental note, chances are something funny/interesting you find is something she'll enjoy too. But yea, get her out. Heb

lol sounds fun. Really? it saves 5 lives? Now that's something they never told us... no wonder you got less people donating blood these days, just one dude would save 5 people's lives. Heb

1. I'm pretty close with my mom. I'm 17, and I want to go on the Pill. How do I tell her? (Ortho-Tricyclin) Just start and it'll all flow. Hey mom...me and (name) blah blah he does all these things for me and I love him so much and we're gonna get married one day. I want to have sex with him and I'm going on the pill, you mean a lot to me and I just want to know how you feel about this or if there's anything you'd like to comment on 2. How long does it take for the pill to be in effect? Well you keep taking them, starting from around a week - 3 days out to make sure they work properly 3. How effective (percentage) are condoms "when properly used"? Apprently its like greater than 90% if you use spermacides with it 4. What does "when properly used" mean when referring to condoms? Nothing bad happens like the condom is inserted properly on, it doesn't break and you put it on before any pre-cum 5. In general, what does ejaculate taste like? Does it depend on what he eats? I'm not sure...I think people find it sweet, some salty. I don't think in a big way what you eat affects it. Urine itself is salty and that's why I think some people find it salty. 6. Does pre-cum taste the same as the final ejaculate? ((Just curious because I've tasted my boyfriends pre-cum, and its surprisingly sweet tasting)) Pre cum is usually a extremely lightly concetrated version of the final cum 7. What is the morning after pill... any side effects? lol, that's when you forget to take any contraceptives and in the morning you say o *insert swearword here*. Basically its emergency abortion, there's no major side effects, just want you'd normally expect from medicine. 8. Do guys want to watch their girlfriend give them a blow / hand job? Depends on the guy 9. How do I initiate going down on my boyfriend? I really want to do it, I just don't know how to initiate.... Please help!! Well when you both really horny and touchy...go down then Heb

Well you could distance yourself from her...if that's what you think she wants. However, if you really want to know what's going on ask her straight. Alternatively, just hang in there and be there for her, stressful times are annoying. Hope it goes well Heb