rub_a_dub_dub

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I'm 18.. But oops, excuse me for posting.. I thought this forum was for these kind of questions, where one would seek help from other kindly members? I guess not, sorry.

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Hey there.. me and my girlfriend decided to have sex today and it was great! Apart from two things.. 1. We had to try 2-3 positions before I could get it in... is that normal for the first time? We were doing it in the dark so maybe that was part of the reason? 2. When my penis is erect, it stands straight up, will that make it difficult for me to get it in for some positions? Like doggy style as an example perhaps? I'd appreciate any help with these questions, Thanks.

It seems that I have a frenulum under the head of my penis on the TOP SIDE! Yes I have one on the underside, but at the top side too! But it looks abit different from the underside one! It looks alot more delicate.. like a sharp tug would tear it, and basically it is stopping me from pulling my foreskin any further than the head! Obviously this is quite worrying.. I've asked a few mates and they INSIST they do not have a frenulum or something very like a frenulum under the head on the top side of their penis. I think maybe it is something everyone has when they are younger, but breaks as you go through the early stages of puberty.. but mine hasn't? Any help would be appreciated.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and our relationship is really good. We are both 17, I love her, and she tells me she loves me. I've fingered her, and performed oral on her. She has, so far, only rubbed me through my jeans! She wants (and so do I) to give me a proper handjob and perform oral on me, and she wants to do it soon I think. The only problem is (if you can call it that), I am circumcised and I am worried that she will find it weird? Or something. This is her first serious partner, she is a virgin and I am the first person she has done the things we have to with, so it will probably be the first time she has seen a real life penis lol. Exactly what % of males are circumcised these days? Am I just worrying over NOTHING?

Lick it mate, whilst fingering her !!!!! Hehe yeah I might ask her actually.. no harm in trying. Licking.. hmm sounds fun, but we aren't quite that far yet so that will have to wait a while.

Where EXACTLY is it? I have read a few things on here about it, but don't really understand.. Does it stick out? Or does it depend? I am fingering my girlfriend alot lately, but I have read that rubbing on the outside of the vagina is just as good, if not better than the actual fingering! And I heard that you should rub the clitoris for extra stimulation! So, basically I am pretty sure I know where the g-spot is, but not the clitoris. I'm not at the stage where me and my girlfriend have been naked infront of eachother, so I can't see anything. Basically I just need to find it with my hand.. what does it feel like and where abouts is it? Any help would be appreciated.. Thanks.

Thanks for your replies so far guys! Well, this time I tried a kind of "come here" movement with my finger, and I just tried to vary the movements of my fingers. Hoping&praying: I think you're right, because before I got down to the actual fingering, I was rubbing her on the outside of her jeans, and she seemed to be REALLY enjoying that. So when my hands were inside her pants, I rubbed around that area for a while before slipping a finger in. I'm not quite sure where the clitoris is though? I'm sorry if I am being dumb, but could you try and explain it again? Thanks.

Last night I was fingering my girlfriend. I have done it twice before, and while she does breathe heavily, and slightly moan, she never shows signs of an orgasm. But last night while I was doing it, I tried a slightly different technique and I noticed her moaning abit more than usual, and then suddenly she gripped my shoulders and started shaking. Did she have an orgasm? Or is it really possible to give a girl an orgasm from just fingering? And could anyone give me any tips for finger, to make it as enjoyable as possible for her? Thanks.

Okay. I'm a male, 18 years of age. I have this problem. I get red cheeks. Okay it doesn't sound serious or anything, but it is really bringing me down. I think I have always had them, but they have got worse in the last year or so, and that I have only recently really noticed them. I've never had any problems getting girls or anything, and would consider myself somewhat attractive. But in the last 7-8 months I have noticed that my cheeks get very red. It's almost like I have been running around none stop for half an hour! That's what it looks like but infact I have been doing absolutely nothing! Sometime it's not so bad, when I am sitting there doing nothing, but if I move around alot, or it is really cold outside, or hot, they get really red and I am just dead conscious about them. Do girls find red cheeks really unattractive? It seems since I noticed the problem, getting girls has been more of a problem. When I go out clubbing and am in the dark I have no problem, but at school and stuff in the light I am not getting alot of attention. It's just not fair. I play football, and I have friends who, after 90 mins of running around, look absolutely fine. No colour in their cheeks, and while I am fine with the fact that my cheeks are red after running around, my cheeks look like this (as I have already said) when I am doing no physical activities! I spose it wouldn't be AS bad if I couldn't feel that my cheeks were red, but I can! They burn a little too, like I am actually hot! Even when I am not! I once read in a magazine there is some kind of operation you can have? Where the nerves that make your cheeks go red can be cut? But it is a very risky and tricky operation. I've searched on the net for people with similar problems but not found alot. It's really getting me down, and it just makes me really conscious. Any help would be greatly appreciated.