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Well you can make sounds like groans, mmms etc etc. On top of that, guide his head to where you want the kisses, his hands etc - that'll encourage him and he'll know what you want. Heb

I like it, are you going to hand it to her, I think she'll love it! Heb

yea all chicks have hairy legs and armpits and they'll wax/shave them if they wanna present themselves nicely. And all chicks have that kinda mustache if you look closely and it'll show more when they get older/are more hairier. It's perfectly natural, everyone has them, it's like facial hair. Heb

It's good to know that you're so into her but does she know how you feel and have you discussed taking her away from all her friends and family and lol how does her family feel about it? Perhaps you need a long talk with this girl, for your best interests. I'm not saying it's not going to work out but there's a huge chance that it won't and we'll that's just life. Heb

I guess if buddy down there's still sexually active, it'll happen anytime, chances will just decrease as you get older. Heb

lol man, your not suposed work on them every single day, just once every 2nd day! It doesn't matter now, you need to keep doing approximately 50 every 2 days and IF you do that you'll have a 2-4 pack by 3 months tops I reckon. Heb

Oh yea, I know hey, love just hurts so much at times and it's really hard to determine wether it's worth it. When it's good, it's all worth it and you'd never think twice, when it's down you have lotsa doubts but it's juts the way life works...there's good and bad things to everything. Think positive and accept things for what they are, the sooner you do, the faster you'll be happy again. Msg me or anything if you need support or a shoulder to lean on. Heb

Aww, I feel for you. I kinda know what that's like. That happened to me on valentines day, and lol I broke up with my gf 2-3 days before that but we're back together now and it's working out better than ever. Just make him take it, give it to his mom and make her keep it for the time being if he won't because you did all that for him and if he can't realize it then he's just not being fair, it's already his, the best thing and most appreciative thing on top of the least selfish thing he could do is accept it, and you tell him that. Heb

Hey yea, I'm not sure what the odds are but I'm sure if you get back the odds should lean towards it being a better relationship the 2nd time around. I've only done this once and it was within 3months but we'd been dating for I think 7-8 months at the time. People just think differently I guess, even though she treated me like crap at the time, I'm really glad we got back together coz now she's kinda different and the real her's starting to show after she realised that it wasn't a smart thing to do, the thigns she did. I too realised that I'd rather have gotten something from her, wether it'd b bad or good than nothing at all and that we do need each other, no matter how totally opposite our personalities are. If you are willing to get back and so is he, then the chances of you working out the 2nd time will be a lot higher. Heb

I have a couple too. No lol it's not wrong or anything to want online friends! Heb

Try this first: link removed If you need someone to listen PM me or MSN me etc, I won't mind. Heb

GIFTS - Send flowers - Send e-mails - Send (e-)cards - Send love letters - Make a CD with sweet words or songs that you sing and send that - Talk on the phone - Plan a future together - Plan a trip together Every now and then send your partner assorted gifts packed into a small box. The gifts were things like a letter, sweets, poem, fridge magnet, small cuddly toy and so on. Just to add a bit of fun, each gift had a clue written on the wrapping paper as to what it contained and only one gift could be opened each day. Other ideas include making a jigsaw puzzle out of a photo and e-mailing it. There are web-sites that do this for free. Text messages are now all the rage and good value for sending long distance. Depending on whether you like writing or have some creativity in you, what about a joint notenook? Have a notebook that we send backwards and forwards, that we each keep for one month at a time. We write, draw, paint, stick in photos, keep a journal entry, copy in poetry - anything that we can think of. I love to get that notebook back at the end of his month and spend a quiet evening in going through his pages and thinking of him. Some things are always easier to write down than to say, and it's not too expensive if you're only mailing it back every other month. And if you can't find the words yourself? How about a compilation CD of songs that mean something to you, or finding a poem that just says the right thing? How about sending an audio tape or a video tape of you talking to him/her? I know it's SO nice to hear their voice or see them whenever you want, instead of waiting for that phone call. Another thing I used to do is find out what his favorite snacks are and send tons of those candy bars or goodies that they can't get in their country. That's always fun. The photo album is a great idea. Keep sending current pictures of you doing your normal things. Polaroids are great for this if you know what I mean!!! That should get you started Heb

Hey. I think it's ok to a certain extent to check people out during relationships, I mean you can't really help it. But to have sexual thoughts about someone, constantly isn't good for your relationship at all and it's arguably "unloyal" to think about things like that. To quit with those thoughts you should just love your bf more, coz if you really did love him, you wouldn't have thoughts about things for long that would hurt him. If he's insecure and suspects you're checking him out then you better make sure that he's your guy and let him know that. Wether it's wrong or right is up to you. Heb

lol "woah, watch out!" Heb

Hey. Sorry to hear about your ordeal. You must feel kinda cut after facing such a rejection. But on the bright side - at least he's still willing to date you and eventually you can probably get another chance at getting married. It's hard to understand hey, I kinda experienced the same thing. I guess some people just aren't ready and if they love you and you believe them, then there should be no doubt that theyr'e sincere. Some guys just can't handle the comittment, others wanna have fun and somehow have more of a reason to get away with things than they would if they were married. Some people just aren't ready to settle down yet etc. But at the end of the day, hang in there, marriage isn't everything and if you think positive then you can still learn things about your guy and plus, good things take time, it'll be more worth it when you do tie the knot someday. Heb

Hey sciencegirl. By the sounds of it he's bi, he likes doing sexual activities with all sexes not just one. Heb

Hey Mahlina. Well I'm a guy and I usually don't wear jeans dropped to my ankles except lol my favourite one. That's only coz my dad actually bought it for me (it was pretty expensive) and you kno how guys have no idea how to buy clothes for someone else... Anyway it ended up a slight bit too big but it still hangs loosely around the waist and that's the only reason why, if at any time, my boxers would be revealed. But apart from that, the jeans go naturally down to the ankles anyway. I got what you mean though, I reckon it's more a 13-15 age group thing but because well over here anyway, you don't really see that stuff happenin too much anymore. Heb

I'd say leaning big time. The fact that the person's bothered droppin in a note and saying "don't think it means a no" has a lot to say about what's on his/her mind. Give it some time, don't chase it, the answer will come in due time. Heb

Yea she's got a point, it's just the "thing to do" I mean i wouldn't be attracted to some tryhard girl wearing baggy shorts and a chain etc... I think most of them are just following the trend and yes, showing that booty!!! (I ain't complainin) Heb

Hey Well for me,if the girl knows or should be knowing/finding out I like her then I'll loose. But if she shouldn't be knowing/finding out I like her, I'll just play easy and that goes for any girl too unless I know she can beat me. Heb

Com'on give him a break. he probably feels bad about it too it's not like guys don't wanan give some too. It sounds like he doesn't want to let you down after hearing about all these other people and it'll make him uneasy too knowing that you've been with so many other guys that it'll be harder to satisfy you. Woah gurl, you can think of dumping your bf becoz he won't give you head? I dunno, are you in this for the relationship or the sex? Heb

Hey craven Well honestly I have no idea. How can I understand you if you can't yourself? It's a hard question, I mean there's things I like to do but there are times when I am too lazy to do it, that doesn't mean I don't like to do it anyless though. I guess you should really get yourself together and TRY to do something for your portfolio coz you aint' gonna find out till you start and do something. Heb

lol man then don't compliment her! Just be there for her, give her a hug or talk to her about anything. Sure she'll be slightly annoyed ifu keep complimenting her, you like her, what else will you do?! Yup, like I said, talk to her about something casual, make her laugh, take her mind off things, she'll fall for you just for little things like that. Heb

Hey lol, I'm a guy so I actually don't know how to do a handjob (yup I'm not gay) only how to get them. However, I did go around coz your response wasn't gettin to much attention and found some sites. link removed link removed Heb

Hey I don't know hey! Lets think, actually that sounds good, I've never done it before but yea, seems like you'll either get a lot of sympathy or you're chances will dramatically decrease based on the person. But yea, if you ever do try I'd like to know what happens. Heb