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  1. Hi, my girlfriend is just coming home from a business trip of about 3 weeks and I promised her I'd have a nice evening set up that would definitely include some sexual activity as she seems to be rather excited to come home. I want to make the evening romantic, pleasureful, and fun and maybe try some new things since its a special night. However, I'm having a hard time thinking up ideas. So far I have this....she's coming in in the early afternoon Saturday....I'm going to cook a dinner for us that night (Don't worry she likes my cooking so i won't screw that up) and eat it in dimmer light with the candles lit....then i was thinking about moving on to a massage with some warming oil....i need some more ideas after this though...one of my friends (who sometimes has good ideas and sometimes not) suggested the old can of whipped cream deal...which i've tried on girls before and its worked...but i was looking for something better...if anybody has any good ideas to make everything more fun or pleasureful let me know...i'm open to ideas but nothing like way kinky please...we're fun but not that kinda fun lol P.s. We're in our early 20's incase that makes a difference in what you would suggest. Thanks
  2. Okay this is kinda long...please give it a look over and give me an answer I'm getting desperate at this point. All right so me and this girl named Cassie have known each other for a good three years and we told each other that we felt strongly for each other about 6 months ago...problem is she also liked my friend Daniel who is almost exactly looks like me...he could pass as my brother...and we both are almost exactly the same personality-wise. Anyway...so i hang around her more than Dan does, and Dan wasn't even interested in her...so me and her have a great time for 6 months...i get to know her family...she gets to know mine...we're kissing...making out...and yes even engaged in oral a few times but thats beside the point because i enjoy her company even without that part it was more of a bonus.....so we're basically boyfriend/girlfriend right? Wrong. She had a surgery two months ago...i stood by her side for two weeks every single day...didn't hang out with my friends...just stayed at her side...took care of her...and we fell even more for each other...she still liked Dan a little...but we were so close to going out...then her mom found out she liked two guys and made her feel guilty...all of a sudden...kissing me doesn't seem right anymore...she doesn't know what she wants...whether it be me or Dan...and everything starts going downhill cause then Dan comes out and tells her he likes her....so i tell her fine...lets just be friends a few nights ago...i told her i don't want it and she said she didn't either and was crying and i'll admit i was crying too and it was just awful...she still calls me everyday...i have trouble sleeping at night without talking to her before i go to bed...i feel so strongly for this girl and honestly she had already made her decision but because she doesn't want to hurt Dan's feelings she couldn't make a choice or she was afraid by going out with one she'd miss out on something she could've had otherwise...what the hell do i do? I want her back so badly and i honestly believe she wants what we had back too and that we truley care deeply for each other just she's very indecisive....how should i explain to her that i feel like i made a mistake saying i wanted to be friends but that i need her to make a decision cause i can't take it otherwise??? PLEASE HELP ME
  3. All right this is long but please read the entire thing i need HELP...I've been "dating" this girl named Cassie for almost 6 months...we had known each other for 3 years before this and were more like best friends and one day we admitted how we felt about each other. The problem is there is this other guy named Daniel who she also had feelings for and that prevented us from officially going out. So she barley ever hangs with Daniel, they've been out together a few times but she barley hangs out with him and in all honesty Dan is actually one of my really good friends and me and him might as well be brothers...we both like the same stuff and basically look the same we might as well be the same guy. All right so as you can guess she is confused but when i tell you what I've done and how much she and I have done together in the past 6 months and compare it to Dan this is where i don't get whats so hard about her decision....I've met her entire family...they all love me and i love them...and vice versa about her and my family...I've been on a family vacation with them to Washington D.C. and led them around the city cause i know it really well...I got her a beautiful necklace for her b-day...she had surgery on her legs and i came back from my family vacation a day early so i could go with her family to UVA where she had to get her surgery...then not counting the two weeks before that where i was with her almost every day....i was beside her while she had to stay in the houes almost constantly for two weeks...i was there every single day helping out...cooking dinners to help her mom out....even redrilled holes in her crutches to fit her exact height and just generally spent time with her. I've told her that i love her and she was constantly saying "I love you so much" and "I wish you were here with me" when i was on the phone with her...we've even done some physical things (not intercourse but some other stuff)....we've been kissing for 4 months....now all of a sudden Dan took her out a couple of times and he told her he liked her...then her mom found out and scolded her and made her feel bad because apparently she likes both of us still...and finally i can even see her having trouble saying "I love you" and she doesn't jump at the chance to kiss me as much as she did. I still spend a lot of time with her...but idk what to do anymore...i'm so frustrated but i can't let her go cause she's the only girl i care about and she knows that...but she just can't make a decision between me and Dan even though she says she likes me more....i'm like losing sleep over this stuff and its killing me...so please please give me some advice i need it so badly
  4. yeah i've thought about that honestly....i've never lied to her before...idk i'll have to see...i might not really make it in anyway even if i did apply...idk...i'll think about that one
  5. okay...first i'm going to be upfront...I'm 16...me and my gf have been together for a very long while...yes we're young...i understand that...but we're both firm believers in love...even if we're still in high school...if you second guess this...then don't bother leaving a comment here cause i've never felt this way about anyone in my life and neither has she and we care about each other very much so i don't want to hear that i'm not in love...cause i know i am. Now that i've got that outta the way, we're applying for colleges in a few months...bottom line is...we don't want to leave each other...we want to be together...i made the mistake of talking about the United States Military Academy too much cause thats where i used to want to go...i've changed my mind away from that though...and i told her that i want to be with her in college...and she wants to be together too but thinks i'm still hooked on this USMA thing...she thinks i'm trying to give up my dreams for her when i'm not at all...the colleges she wants to attend (and i'm pretty sure she can make it into them with her record and grades) have great political science programs (what i want to get into) and it would allow me to still get a great education and be with her at the same time...but she thinks i'm going to regret not even trying to get into the USMA (which is very hard to get into anyway) and then take it out on her later or something...how do i assure her that i'm not giving up my dreams and i'm not going to wish i had done otherwise later? We're both very upset over this whole thing...me mostly cause she won't believe me...and i think its stupid we're even discussing this when none of it has even come into play yet...but i understand it is soon....please help me out here
  6. Alright...thanks for all your help y'all....if you come up with any additional advice i'll be glad to take it...but thanks for everything you've given me so far
  7. YES! thats the thing! her parents know most of it...i mean the guy has even backtalked them...they know what he's like...but they're not stepping in any...and as far as tieing in going out and getting rid of him...i've been wanting to ask her out for a while not because of getting rid of him but because i like her a whole lot....getting him off her back would be more of a plus honestly. and also...i thought about talking to her parents but i think that would pour too much fuel on the fire?
  8. Me and this girl have been dating for about 3 months....not necessarily going out...just dating (By the way we're Sophomores in high school)...anyway...she was going out with this guy for a year...which of course is a very long time in high school years.....half the school hates this guy...she's a very nice girl...everyone loves her....no one wanted either of the two of them to be together....anyway...he verbally abused her during their relationship...even backtalked her parents...they broke up a while ago but he still calls her cause i think he still "likes" her...but he continues to verbally abuse her....she's always crying over the things he says to her...her parents don't step in and do anything about it...neither has anyone else....well quite frankly i'm getting sick of it...the guy doesn't know that me and her are dating cause we've kinda kept it on the down low so he hasn't been confronted by anyone but her over his actions and he doesn't listen to her...point is this....i'm twice as big as this guy...i could kick his * * * if i wanted too....of course i wouldn't resort to this unless i absolutley, positivley had too...i want to just tell him off...you know...solve it diplomatically...but she won't let me because she doesn't want me getting involved in the fight....i feel like if i ask her out officially and then show him that we're going out...he'll back off and quit doing it...and if not i was planning on saying something to him anyway...what do you think? should i ask her out and kill two birds with one stone by seeing if he's going to back off...or do you think i should just let her work it out either know she's had her entire exsistence of knowing him to solve this issue? some help please!
  9. Hey this thread isn't for so much for me as it is my friend. He was looking for advice and i had no way to give it to him and i suggested this site but idt he's going to check it out so i figure i could pass on a little advice from y'all (I may say its from me thinking about it so sorry if i don't give credit but i don't want him to know i posted this)......anyway....he and his gf have been going out for about a month and they've kinda gotten into the sex game a bit more now but he's been having a slight problem....he has not much problem getting excited before sex....but when he goes to put on a condom...all the fumbling with the wrapper and having to put it on properly and being careful with it and all...he sorta loses his excited-ness if ya catch my drift. Anyway, he's been kinda taking it a bit hard i guess cause i mean he's 18...young...healthy...but he loses his excited-ness over a condom....is this normal like have many girls had their bf have this problem or does it sound like it may be a medical situation....kinda lost so if i could get some comments from guys or girls that have or know someone with this sorta problem maybe i could talk him outta his slump. thanks
  10. Hey, My Gf and I just started having sex recently and I've used condoms and stuff but I'm just curious as to what condoms you would recommend. I buy from Trojan normally, I don't really trust any other brand but I've heard rumors that like the lubricated ones can sometimes be eaten through by their own lubricant making them weakers....I have Trojan-ENZ with Spermicidal Lubricant....does anyone think this is a wise choice and if you know of a better condom I'd very much like to know what it is. Thanks
  11. Hey, My girlfriend and I have been getting really intimate latley. We keep talking about sex a lot and she is perfectly aware I own condoms. I definatley wouldn't have sex without a condom, but my question is...how effective are condoms with no other form of birth control? I normally buy the spermacidal condoms to try and increase the protection against pregnancy. I know my gf doesn't have STD's and neither do I...so my main worry right now is pregnancy. We're pretty much moving towards sex pretty quickly and i feel comfortable about it with condoms and everything but like i said...how effective are condoms against pregnancy and do you suggest i try anything extra to prevent it? Thanks
  12. lol one more thing...we talk on IM a lot...and a little on the phone...which do you think is better?
  13. This girl and I went out last weekend to a movie...well we really hit it off like made out and stuff....her friends approve of me (which i hear is a pretty big thing with you women lol)....her parents approve....she went to my recent football game...and i went over to her house tonight...we...um...well...lol "watched" a movie...just kinda sporatically making out on and off throughout whenever the time seemed right...then we had this thing where it got really dark and we went out to her hammock in the backyard....lol yeah you guessed it pretty much made out there....but i mean the whole thing wasn't making out...it was enjoying each others company cause she was like "i don't want you to leave"......k well i'll be honest...i really like this chick, but her dating history has been not "unfaithful" but she's been with A LOT of guys before and still kinda flirts with them...but all she does in her school according to her friends is talk about me and how i'm a good kisser and they all say she likes me...but when they ask her if i'm her boyfriend she says no......now thats where my question comes in....1. Does being bf/gf only happen if its like verbally asked or something? 2. If she doesn't say i'm her bf...does that mean she's still considered single? 3. When do y'all think is a good time to ask her to be my gf if i seriously need to come out and say it regardless of how much we say/feel we like each other. P.S. How does it sound like i'm doing so far? Just curious cause sometimes you get some interesting responses Thanks
  14. Its all in the saliva control my friend...swallow...yes you'll swallow some of her spit too...but hey...thats what making out is....a stimulating, saliva-swapping, teen-fest lol....always swallow and keep your lips tight...messy kisses don't make for good kisses
  15. Hey...i heard some girls talking about this one time and i wanted to get some girls' opinions on this. When you go out on a date with a guy...say like just to the bowling alley...do you find it unattractive for them to wear sleevless shirts. I've heard girls say that it can be very unattractive even if the guy is muscle-bound. What say you? lol
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