Mindy

I know how you feel, Except I don't think that there might be someone else, Although I wish there was , because then I wouldn't feel like its me. Read my post-My boyfriend hardly wants to have sex anymore. I always thought that all guys thought about was sex, Boy is this guy proving me wrong, He makes me feel unwanted sexually and when I try and talk to him about it He gets mad. It's so hard to live with someone and sleep in the same bed and not be intimate and when it does happen which is maybe 2 times a month if I'm lucky, It lasts 3 or 4 thrusts and then its over. I don't want to leave him, but I need to feel wanted sexually, I just don't understand. I feel for you, because I know the pain your going thru. I have never experienced this in any other relationship that I've been in. We live together , have a dog and plan on getting married too. But do you and I want to marry into a non- satisfying relationship???? Thats my dilemma and seems to be yours also. Keep me posted and let me know how your situation works out.

I have tried the reverse pshycology thing it didn't work...........only to his advantage of not having sex for 3 weeks....and then I finally broke and once again initiated it.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and living together for 1 year. He is 31 and I am 40. In the beginning we would have sex all the time, but the past 6 months or so he isn't interested any more in sex. He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and I love him too. But, I have needs, I try and talk to him about it and he gets mad and says things like - thats all I think about or he's got things on his mind or his back hurts. I don't know what to do, I want to be with him , but with out the intimacy I feel like our relationship is diminishing. I am the one that initiates sex , and who is usually turned down 9 out of 10 times. Please someone help me!!! I need advice.