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those are both really good ideas, lighten the mood, then ask, i'm really shy when it comes to girls i like too, so i know how u feel. but once you get it over with, you'll feel a lot better, even if she says yes or no. you'll have it off of your chest, from what you've said, it's most likely that if you just take it slow, or get the sense of what she wants, u'll be fine. good luck!

um, verbal flirting......i guess it could be like making a little joke, it really depends on each person. if u explained ur situation if u have one, people here would def. be more able to help, but yeah, like S4il said, it's a recipricol, give a little, take a little. you'd know if you were flirting or not,.....well, most of the time.

If she really had to go out of town or whatever with her family, I would suggest just playing it off, and trying for another time. If she says that she can't go for some other reason then she might not be interested in you. From what you said however, it seems like it was just a scheduling confliction and nothing to really be worried about. Good luck!

hello again everyone, it's me back with another questoin, lol I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks of this, and if I'm going overboard, cuz that's always what I'm afraid of, cuz I'm a hopeless romantic n everything. There's this girl that I really like, and she really likes me. I'm going to start "making my moves" so to speak. And I was planning on leaving those little candy hearts in her locker, cuz she's done that to me before. And then on Thursday, since we don't have school Friday, I was going to leave a little teddy bear and rose in her locker with a note that says something like "I think you're my good luck" since Friday is Friday the 13th. And then on the back I would ask her "Would you like to go to a moive sometime" and then say "I love you, too" in another language because she's written "I love you" to me in a few different languages. I tried to keep this relatively short, and she really likes me and has had...."thoughts" about me . So I was just wondering if you guys thought that was too much or what. Thanks for reading/posting. Later

VERY NICE POEM, i esp. like the last stanza. and i dont think i'll get myself started on world politics and global policies, lol i dont wanna type that much.

wow, very nice thread topic, i never would have thought about it i as well pick my nose, but i do that when people are around, except more non chal....yeah. lol whenever i'm alone at home or somethin i'm the same around my friends, i play video games, i sing to songs that i shouldnt even try to sing, think about a particular girl(s), talk about girls n whatnot, think about life, love, friends, family, god, death, and just things like that. some of the stuff i think about really scares me so i dont like being alone when i start thinkin about god and death and afterlife n everything , i start to scare myself.

wow i'm so glad you're alright and shared that with us. i'm really moved, cuz i was actually in an accident 48 hours ago, it was crazy. i was with my best friend and his girlfriend comin home from a basketball game, just listenin to some music then everything slowed down, but all i remembered immediately afterwards were like still photos in my head of what i saw. everyone should listen to this, because there are only so many times this could happen to you, maybe even none. i've been in two wrecks, and i've only been starting to drive for about 1 month (none were "my fault" ie - at the wheel). but i can't help but feel guilty for the last one... anyway, i hope everyone learns what he has to say, live life, don't take anything for granted.

i think i will just stop buggin him about it for the most part and see how that goes, but QTpie is so right, everyone has said that to him, including himself more than like 8 times in a matter of a few months. but oh well, i'll just see how things go, thank you all for helpin

Hey everyone, I've got a problem here concerning one of my best friends and his girlfriend that has done nothing but cause stress and tension between everyone the two of them know. First off, two days ago, a guy I know said some "things" to my friends girlfriend, and no matter how much I don't like her, I still think it wasn't that nice of a thing to do. Anyway, my friend, being the typically nice boyfriend he is, went over and talked to the guy about what he said. Later on that day, he went over to his girlfriend, I'll call her "Christie", and when he put his arm around her, she started yelling at him for talking to the guy, aka defending her. This bothers me, because these sort of things happen every 2 weeks or so, and I'm getting sick of reminding my friend each time it happens. He has been lied to, yelled at, beat down (not literally), and made a fool of by this girl too many times for me to just stand by. My friends and I have talked to him more times that I can count about breaking up with her, even taking a break so he could look back at what's happened, but everytime we come close, she says "i'm sorry" or "i was having a bad day", insincerely in my eyes. I know this is a long post, but I've tried everything I can think of. If anyone out there knows anything I could do, please help, I want the best for my friend, and she certainly isn't. Thanks

wow, thank u all for posting, this is really helping me out, i'm gonna try talkin to her more and gettin to know her better and then decide where to go from there, thanks a bunch. i'll probably be back in a little while with more questions though lol.

ok, this girl used to go out with my best friend, and she's a really outgoing kind of person. i find her really attractive, and i dont think we'd have a big problem talking or whatever, but the point is, i don't know if she likes me or not because what i might take as flirting, she could just see as being friendly. a few examples: when we were done w/ our marching band show we were where they give us water, and we were like "oh how'd u do?" etc and then for like the first time she hugged me and it wasnt like a "tap tap" ur my friend kinda hug, but like a grasp (dont know if that was "friendly" or not). and when she passed me in the halls a few days ago, she gave me what i thought to be a really flirtatious smile and did it again a few days later. and whenever she walks into the band room, she always looks over at me, and when i look over to see who's coming in and see her, she looks away. tell me what you think, i'm really confused and need some help, thanks a bunch

yeah, it does seem like he likes you. but also with these "family arguments" he seems a little timid to let you into to his life more so, or somethin, can't really explain the vibe i'm gettin. anyway, he seems to like you, but he seems to be holding back something, not that he neccesarally thinks you're too good for him (although that might just be it), it seems like he might be trying to keep you from knowing another side to him or maybe somethin less dramatic than that. but hopefully you at least kind of get my point. if you take it slow and work through things, you two should be fine. lAtER \Punkrawker/

it doesnt really seem like you like your girlfriend as much as you did when she was going out with the other guy. you'd have to look about how you feel about your girlfriend before you decide to leave her and go for somebody else. i don't really know what to tell you about the other girl, she seems like she might like you, but also she could just be one of those type of girls that is really flirtatious and doesnt know it. either way, good luck. lAtER \Punkrawker/

oh yeah, nearly forgot. this doesnt have anything to do with my feelings about her, rather this other guy's obsession with her. he's literally had a "stalking" incident with her. he had followed me, my friend, her, and her friend around in a parking lot like at 11 at night and when we went over to him, he floored it in reverse and took off, denying the whole thing the next day. this guy is their friend, even though they treat him like much less. i'm literally afriad he might hurt himself or others when he finds out that she's going with him to homecoming and might be going out. i can find a way to deal with it, but he's the kind of person thats really pyschotic. he's not a big strong guy, but he's just really lanky and weird. i'm really scared for the girl, my friend and the 'other guy'. i'd really like help with this. thanks \Punkrawker/

yeah, i had already assumed the age thing when she had told me it a year ago, i never really bought it. but anyway, i get what ur sayin, thanks for your help. ill be sure to keep it in mind. lAtER \Punkrawker/