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    1. If my brother had just killed himself the last thing on my mind would be trying to get one over on some girl by trying to take her boyfriend away. 2. If my brother had just killed himself I would want to recreate a time when I felt most comfortable. If I was still friends with an ex and he had always made me feel safe/comfortable/ect I would turn to him. I would also turn to him because he ISN'T a relative and can thereforeeee be a greater source of support than a relative going through the same emotions as I am. 3. Everyone has said they wish someone else was dead at some point in their lives, usually in the heat of the moment. And if you haven't you are either lying or some kind of saint. 4. Your boyfriend sounds like a good guy.
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    I got a guys number by asking him to send me a joke that someone else had sent to him.
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    I've always failed to see why how someone votes is such a big issue. As long as they don't try and force their opinions on anyone why should it matter? I don't vote at all. Never have. I don't see the point because, frankly, whoever gets in power is going to screw me over and do a rubbish job anyway. I don't care how people vote, much like I don't care what their religion is. As long as they don't try to force it all on me then whatever.
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    No matter how many times you tell your boyfriend you will leave him, he will only do something about it once you have actually left and no longer care.
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    My god, you make it sound like a military operation. I never thought I was a prude but i find the whole guy going down on a girl thing so unbelievably uncomfortable. The two times I let it happen (and both times I had to get drunk beforehand) I just felt completely uncomfortable and ewwwww. Sorry, no advice but there you go.
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    Seriously, I don't care. He put a little smiley winky face to imply he was just messing about hence why I chose to ignore it rather than spout some rediculous womanly rant like I normally would. But yeah, it wasn't that funny . People falling over when trying to act cool....thats funny.
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    What was uncalled for? My post or his?
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    So, let me get this straight. 1. You don't want to ask her 2. You want to know what the number is though 3. You think if you ask her she'll lie 4. You think if you ask her and she doesn't tell you it's because she doesn't trust you. 5. If you ask her and she tells you its a number that you don't think is suitable you'll dump her. How can she possibly get through this situation unscathed?
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    I felt in control of the situation. Something I wouldn't have felt had I gone all the way. I never let them ejeculate in my mouth and all I took off was my top. It was always on my terms and going all the way takes away the control and gives it to the guy and that makes me uncomfortable. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 to a friend. I haven't had sex in a year. I've made out with 2 guys in a year. And I haven't given a blowjob for a year either. University for me was a lot about trying to lose my inhibitions, wanting to feel that I was attractive, wanting to feel in control and wanting to be a bit of a rebel. It wasn't just about sex or oral sex, it was also about drinking and smoking and getting streetwise and trying new things. If that causes a guy to judge the person that I am now then whatever. I don't want to associate myself with him anyway.
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    Oh please Andy - You know as well as I do he would be described as a stud. But whatever, that's the way it works. Whattheheck - Simply put, because I didn't want to go all the way with them.
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    I gave oral sex to guys while I was university so I didn't have to have actual sex with them. The number is probably between 25 and 30. If that makes me a **** then so be it. I really don't care. I wonder what a guy who had received oral sex from countless women would be described as?
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    I've had sex with 9 men. I've given oral sex to countless men I've made out with countless men. Do I care? No. Do guys care? Who knows Do I care that a guy might care? No. Am I a * * * *?
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    I've kissed lots of girls. Open mouths, tongues, hands in hair. It's somehow softer than kissing a guy. But I just love kissing in general. I wouldn't even consider going any further than kissing a woman.
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    I wouldn't care. And in my experience the girls that work there aren't that nice. They look grubby and just a bit rough in my opinion. Why do you think the lighting is so dark in there? I went to a job at one once and she had the most disgusting hair extensions in, glued in with what looked like tar, her fake tan was so cheap it made her just look dirty, her face wasn't that pretty and she had the grubbiest thong on that I've ever seen. Maybe this place is the exception and all other strippers are lovely but it'sall about fantasy isn't it?
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    No. I do not.
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    Oh well. ...........
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    I'm 26 and the only debt that I have is my student loan and that gets paid back through my paycheck. I pay into a pension and when my pay goes up in March I plan on starting a high interest savings account as by then I'll be able to afford to do so. I do own a credit card but I use it very occasionally.
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    Now you're putting words in my mouth. I didn't say you didn't know what it feels like to feel like you want to die. I said you don't know what those people, themselves, are thinking because only they truly know what they're thinking/feel. I'm not explaining it very well but, oh well. As for whether I have or not. Well, that isn't anyones business but my own and I'd rather not get into what I have and haven't felt if thats alright.
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    I love my job and I get rubbish pay for what I do. Oh, and a lot of drs DO care about their patients but they also have to try and meet government targets. It's pretty hard to balance the two and drs get very very frustrated with the system.
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    Well, I must be rubbish at my job then. I don't know what I'm talking about. I'll shut up now.
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    I spend time with "survivors" pretty much everyday actually. I also deal with the attempts, the self harm, the family members, and everything else that goes with it. I think you come accross as overly harsh, but I suppose that's your perogative. I don't think telling someone who is suicidal that they are selfish and to think of other people besides themselves is going to help but hey, what do I know. I'm not one of them.
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    You have been implying that suicide is selfish in your posts (If that isn't what you meant to do then fair enough) and other people have said that suicide is the cowards way out. I haven't directly been targeting you or singling you out. My posts apply to everyone. What I mean when I say that you don't know what mental "torture" people are going through in those dark times is that only they know. No one can know how they really feel or what they're thinking. We can have an idea but we don't really know and everyone is different and copes differently. I'm sorry that you went through those bad times but just because you made it through it doesn't mean that everyone can or, rather, believes they can. I just think that people are so quick to harshly label suicide victims (and thats what they are, victims) and it's just not very nice because we don;t know what's in their head or anything really. It's like people claiming that those who self harm are just attention seeking. It makes me sad.
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    Why, exactly, does she "need" counselling? Maybe you need it, not her. You're the one who has the problem with it. I can do without sex. I'm not that into it either. I haven't had sex for over a year. And when I was having sex, well, yeah, it was okay I suppose but I wasn't bothered. I also only like to do it in the missionary position and, frankly, I'm not at all bothered whether I have sex in the future or not. It doesn't make me mental or crazy and I don't need counselling. I like kissing and having a little fumble now and again but anything more I can take or leave.
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    Count yourself lucky that he actually takes you out and treats you. I had a similar situation and all I got was a peck on the cheek most times despite me driving down to his place to see him at least twice a week, or driving and picking him up and then driving us both back to mine.
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