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  1. MissTee
    I agree with annie24. If you had been together for longer, I would probably suggest to work on it BUT... it hasn't even been 2 months! He isn't into it. You are meant to be in the honeymoon period. It ain't gonna work.
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    My bf is a Virgo (which isn't a great astro match either) but we've proven the stars wrong She's using her guyfriends because she knows you hate it! No guy wants to see his girlfriend hanging out with a bunch of dudes. She doesn't want you to get jealous or upset... What she wants is for you to say, "don't go out with them, come and do "this" with me" And invite her over. She just wants to be apart of what you're doing. She feels left out of whatever it is you are doing. Just make her feel like you want her around! My bf knows my insecurities and he really trys his best to not to upset me and I really really appreciate it. It shows me that he loves me and cares about my feelings. And I do exactly the same for him It works.
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    If I'm having green tea or any type of herbal tea, I won't have milk or sugar. BUT If it's good ole' earl grey or english breakfast, I will add a drop of milk and a 1/4 teaspoon of sugar.
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    Hah! I'm a libran and I used to do exactly the same with my bf! I do it to make myself feel better (like "i've got stuff going on too!") more than to make him feel jealous. I would feel left out when he would be doing stuff without me so I would say was do something "awesome" too... It would make me feel better because I thought if I didn't say I had something to do, he would think I was a needy loser who has no life. I don't think she's trying to make you jealous. It's just an insecurity that she will get over with time and maturity.
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    Brazilian... Nothing at all.
  6. MissTee
    I have my tea with soy milk... would that be better?
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    Agreed. It's his ex-girlfriend... whether or not they have known each other for 13 years, it's still his EX. You definitely have to explain to him that it's not cool and that it really upsets you. I wouldn't have it at all.
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    Fairly often... However my boyfriend can get in the mood pretty quickly with foreplay.
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    I'm totally on your side! If it were my boyfriend I would be really upset aswell. Why don't you ask him why he looks at porn instead of guessing why. This could clear a few things up. And if you're not comfrotable with it, tell him. However, I don't think it's that "you're not enough"... I still think it's just a fantasy thing. He's probably looking at the porn and thinking about YOU all at the same time (if you know what I mean). Ask him!
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    Basically, you will need to balance healthy eating with exercise. As you are not overlly heavy... I would recommend 30-45 mins of cardio 5 times a week ie. bike, jogging, speed walking. I would also do some lunges and sqauts with dumbells to tone up a little. Also, stick to fresh veges and fruit! Lots of fish... go easy on the heavy, red meats and the dairy products.
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    I was advised by my doctor to start the day after my period.
  12. MissTee
    Sorry... I just assumed by the tone of your story. My bad.
  13. MissTee
    I trust my partner. Call me ignorant but I do. I know him better than anyone and I'm not about to stick him in a box with your ex. He's a completely different person.
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    My boyfriend who I live with doesn't look at porn. He doesn't even own a porn dvd or magazine. I've asked him why he doesn't look at it, and he said, "Basically, I just don't like it." I never even see him look at other girls. I asked him about this also, and he said, "i'm just not interested." I don't think it's anything for you to be worried about. I think it's like, some guys like it, some don't. It's like, not all girls react to half naked guys in Cleo or Cosmo. Maybe it's some sort of fantasy thing? I think, if you and your bf have a healthy sex life... it probably is just a fantasy thing.
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    Yes, she likes you. She ignores you sometimes because she doesn't want to come on too strong. That's pretty normal behaviour.
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    I've done pot once and ecstasy once and will never touch either ever again. I hate the feeling of not being in control of my mind. It freaked me out way too much. Especially the ecstasy... Say No to Drugs! (also, they are both depressants... the come down is NOT cool)
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    This too will pass. It's hard... It took me three months to be completely over my ex. The first was the hardest. The second, I still thought about him quite a bit but didn't cry any more. The third, I would think about him some days, but mostly, I was thinking about all the new things going on in my life. It's a process. Stay strong and it will all be better soon.
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    *Hugs!* I know how painful it is to break up. NC is also very very painful but it is the best thing in the world to do. What you are doing takes alot of strength but is definitely the right thing to do. My advice is, Keep Yourself Busy! See your girlfriends as much as possible. Go out, go shopping, go out to dinner with them, give them a call and just talk to them. Spend lots of time with your family. They can be great when you really need emotional support. This is what I did. Before I knew it, I was having fun again, laughing, meeting people and then... I realised, I had officially moved on. You are starting a new chapter of your life... that's very exciting! You will absolutely fine.
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    As far as I can see they are two grown adults who should be able to cope with this situation on their own. Your are neither their mother nor counsellor. If the situation is hurting you, then yes, I think the best thing is to get out. You don't owe them anything.
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    You're 16 years old. Suicide is definitely not the answer. This day and age is the toughest on kids, I think, but there are also many many many resources available to us that were not there before. There is help. You just need to ask for it.
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    No inner turmoil is worth dying over.
  22. MissTee
    This may be way off but... Just to share that my mother divorced twice before finally marrying the right one. Her third marriage was to the best step father I could have ever hoped for. I am a completely well functioning, stable 20 year old woman. I think, and have always thought, if she had stayed with either her first or second husband, I may not have turned out so stable. I remember now how unhappy she was with each, I was happy when she left them! She has taught me a very valuable life lesson, If it doesn't make you happy, It's definatly not worth it. Life is too short.
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    I was 19 when I met my by who was 27 ( we are now 20 and 28 ) and hit it off! A year later, we are now living together and are competely in love and have a very healthy relationship. We are both working and are career driven. Since moving in together and becoming more serious, we have discussed our future and where we are in our lives. We've discussed marriage, buying a house and children and have mutually agreed that these things are much further down the track as I am not ready. Luckily for me, he is on the same level as I am. We both have our individual goals and also mutual goals which is great for our relationship. He is quite accomplished in his career and he helps me nurture my career which is just starting. I have already been through quite a bit in life and was in accelerated learning throughout school. I completed highschool at 15. I am very emotionally and intellectually mature so we hardly even notice the gap. I find guys my own age too immature and intellectually under developed. Also, we are in Australia where the legal age for drinking and clubbing is 18 so that has never been a problem for us. Finally, I had a two and half year relationship before him. This previous relationship was great as it taught me alot about how to behave in relationships, communication and trust. Without this knowledge, I doubt we would be as great as we are. ' There are alot of things to consider, but if it works... it works! Go with it.
  24. MissTee
    I guess I would date myself except there a few things about myself that I know drives my boyfriend crazy... and I know if I had to date me, these things would drive me crazy too! -impulsive & emotional shopper -very very very emotional at that time of the month -vain -can be quite quirky (he balances me out)
  25. MissTee
    It was somewhere between 3-4 months when we said it. He told me he loves me for the first time when we went out one night and he was very drunk! But the next morning when we woke up... He said it again and a couple of days later I said it too!
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