I was on day 44 and doing fine... but I emailed my ex. The last time I spoke/emailed him(Dec.11) I said how I loved him, missed him, and want to get back together. I told him I hope he'd regret leaving me, etc. Well, when I got home today from school I started thinking about how desperate and pathetic I sounded so before checking this site I just sent him a friendly email saying I hope he's doing well and to forget everything I said in my previous email. I said I was happy where I am in life now, and I hope he is too.
He hasn't responded yet, but for some reason I feel relieved that my last words to him now are "I hope you're happy cuz I am," and not "I miss you."
I do miss him, but not as much as I did a couple weeks ago. I just hope he doesn't email me back and make me sad.
So... I guess I'm technically back to day 1.