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MissTee

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  1. Yup, I just got a promotion myself and basically all you do is let your manager know that you are very interested in progressing within the company. They actually love it. It shows your self motivation and initiative.
  2. She definitely needs a professional diagnosis. Also, I wouldn't label kissing other guys as being "erratic". More like irresponsible. I don't think one of the symtoms of BiPolar is cheating. She needs to want to get help aswell. It's all well and good that you've stepped into some sort of "care-taker" role in her life but just make sure that you aren't being taken for granted and that she is taking steps to help herself.
  3. Sweetheart, I have to agree with the rest of the posters. Not a good idea. You have to know that a threesome isn't something that you just have to deal with at the time it is happening but after the fact, you will also need to deal with any repercussions that result. Also, ask yourself, Why are you doing this? To please your boyfriend? If this is the reason you are doing it, DON'T DO IT. This will probably lead to regret and resent. If you choose to go though with it, you have to be open to the fact that it could possibly ruin your relationship.
  4. I would tell her to run a mile and that her boyfriend doesn't respect her or love her enough to be faithful to her. You either want to be in a relationship or not. Not many girls will let you have it both ways and even if they did, the relationship will probably be ruined by the end of the "open period" anyway.
  5. I wouldn't even consider having a child without being married. My parents would be devasted. I guess it's just the way society is.
  6. I just want to add that just the thought of my boyfriend, the man that I share a home with and a life with, with another woman makes me feel physically ill. In my own opinion, if she were to agree to an open relationship, she would need to be very detached from your relationship, from your love and from you to not be hurt by what you are doing with other women. It's just not right. To go from a beautiful, faithful and loving relationship between two people for 2 and a half years, to sleeping with other people. All for the sake of experience?? Mate, it's not worth it. Don't cheapen, and possibly ruin, what you already have.
  7. I don't know what your girlfriend is like as a girlfriend but I know what I'm like and if my boyfriend proposed the idea of an open relationship, my likely response would be "If you want to around then you can get " End of discussion. But like I said, I don't know your girlfriend.
  8. If my boyfriend did that for me, I would be too busy crying to say "yes"! Perfect.
  9. It's cheating and lying. Which, in my books, totally cancels out your snooping! You had to be sus about something to snoop in the first place.
  10. Saving gum is a little strange. I would speak to a therapist.
  11. I come from a Christian family and consider myself of Christian faith also. My SO is Atheist. However, he respects my beliefs so much. I don't go to church and am open to most of things but, I won't support gay marriage or abortion. Those are really the only two things I'm against. I still go out and party and swear and am greedy and am occasionally self-involved. But I do have the fundamental morals and principals. I still pray to God. And sometimes my Atheist SO will pray with me. I love him so much.
  12. Is that meant to be a serious question? Sorry, but I think it should be pretty obvious why sex outside your relationship is wrong. As for it being acceptable in other cultures, guess what? We aren't another culture. Our foundations are Christianity. If you have an agreement with your partner that it's ok to shag around, then fine... If you and your partner are part of a culture or religion that "allows" it, then fine... But other than that... it's a sacred act that you and your partner share. Sex is the closest you can possibly get to another person, physically, and you are practising this with the person you closest with emotionally. Do the math.
  13. Make sure that you keep the communication lines wide open when you are living together this will make it alot easier. And yeah, make sure you both have your own lives aswell. Try and do things separately every so often with your own friends... Don't let yourself get caught up in the everyday cr*p - work, housework, bills etc Don't take the relationship for granted - Be thankful that you are able to spend every spare minute with the person you love
  14. This is really stupid but I get really jealous and angry at Scarlett Johanssen... hahaha because my bf thinks she's gorgeous. grrr!
  15. Porn is neither a "tool" or "just like a vibrator". It is worthless, disgusting and degrading. I masturbate often and guess what?! Never need porn to do it. Hello??! Go out and get laid like any other normal human being who is horny. Go and actually have a connection with someone. The truth is, guys use Masturbation as an excuse to watch porn. Guys who watched porn ain't man enough for me. Get an imagination and have some self control.
  16. I used to do this all the time when I was single. I would just say that because I didn't want to see the person again but didn't want a confrontation or to hurt their feelings. If someone said "I'll call you" to me, I would assume that they weren't going to call. It's a baseless comment with no real commitment.
  17. Yeah, there is alot of misconception when it comes to busty blondes. I'm pinned as "Dumb" pretty instantly by most people. It's not all it's cracked up to be.
  18. Yeah, my bf gets very upset sometimes because alot of guys are NOT subtle at all. I was going to mention in my previous post that I used to have the same fear. Worried every time a guy asked me out, is he asking ME out or asking my boobs out?? But I've found the love of my life (in the pic with me) so I don't worry about it anymore. And as for the morons on the street perving, I just ignore them. They aren't worth it.
  19. I am a very slim girl (only 49 kg), 5"6 in height and have D cup breasts and you can see by my pic what my face looks like. I have had a guy chose a flat chested girl over me. I don't think it means anything. I get alot of random guys perve on my chest but guys that I've actually dated have said that they think if a girl has a gorgeous face, they will go for her, regardless of boobs...
  20. Kitty, I'm with you all the way! I classify looking at porn as cheating and my bf knows this. We live together and are constantly doing everything together so I know for a fact that he doesn't look at it. As for looking at other girls, I know that he does because everyone does but I have never seen him do it! He never does it while I'm around and never makes comments about other girls. We even consider flirting with someone else as cheating, because you are making yourself "look" and seem available when you are definitely not. If you consider those things to be cheating then stick to your guns because every relationship needs boundries and you need to be respected as his girlfriend and the mother of his child.
  21. No offence buddy but I would've run a mile too. Way too strong... You had only been on one date and you wrote her a song? And then on your second date, you gave her a drawing? Too much. The worst possible thing you could do is too keep emailing her or calling her. It will push her away even further. Just leave her be and maybe she will come to you.
  22. That's very mature thinking. Say to her that you won't go to this one because you care about her feelings but as a compromise you are going to go to the big Mardi Gras party. Ask her if she wants to come (even though you know she can't), she will appreciate that you want her there.
  23. Basically... you can not go and your gf will be happy OR you can go and she will be very unhappy with you for an unknown amount of time.
  24. Why did you tell her the tag line of the party? I mean, I know you shouldn't lie in a relationship but sometimes, leaving a little bit of the truth out can save alot of pain. Like why didn't you just say you were going to a party?? Instead of saying that you are going to a party with lots of topless girls...
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