First time post............have to get honest and unbiased points of view from strangers.......................
We met on the job (aviation industry). We are both married, both in miserable marriages. He has 2 kids, 3 & 6. Devotes his whole life to the children and they are his whole life. We have been having an affair for close on two years. Probably see each other once every 4 - 6 weeks. We are total soulmates in EVERY way imaginable. We both have tried to part company, but something undescribable draws us back to each other. He respects my privacy, I respect his. We tell each other everything and anything about our lives. Email each other several times a day, and have been doing this for the 2 years. He won't leave the marriage (has been totally upfront about this) because he wants the children to not turn out dysfunctional with divorced parents. I won't leave my marriage either. I fully and totally understand that he won't leave, and I don;t plan on leaving my husband for him.
WHAT TO DO ??????? HOW LONG WILL THIS GO ON - FOR EVER ???? IS IT POSSIBLE FOR AN AFFAIR TO CONTINUE LIKE THIS INDEFINITELY ???? Big part of the problem is that I am totally emotionally involved with him,and just can't imagine my life without him.
