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  1. bebecole
    i have bad anxity.. and you have to relize that it is all in your head.. your the one thats making your body and mind feel like that.. you have to stop and really think that their is nothing wrong with you and tell your self "im doing this to myself, i have total control over my body.. if i can make myself have anxity i can get rid of it"
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    16+ single it also depends on the teen and how mature they are..
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    i dont think you should stop yourself from going away. if he loves you he will understand.. from my personal experience you should never put someone before your self.. i was in a LDR (he was in the military) i had a chance to go away to school and he told me if i went away it would be harder for us to see each other when he came home... so i stayed home and went to a community college.. i didnt see him for over 6months and things didnt end up working out. i regret it so much and i dont want you regreting going on a one in a lifetime oppunity to africa.. in the end its your decision.. 2 months is not that long at all.. hopefully it will bring you closer together..
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    i agreee.. i would keep your distance.. he has a girlfriend so you HAVE to respect that... b/c you wouldnt want your man talking to other girls about a relationship.. right??? id leave it alone
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    im not sure if hes just ignoring me or something really happened to him.. he hasnt been online all week and he usually on all the time!! so im not sure if he doesnt want to talk to me or something happened.. ive been getting a strong feeling that something is going on.. but i dont want to break NC.. im not sure if i should get my friend to call him b/c she does talk to him every once in a while...
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    okay so me and my b/f have been on a "break" but ever since then we still talk the same when ever we see each other everything is the same. (hes in the military so i dont see him as much). nothing has changed execpt the title of boyfriend/girlfriend.. he told me he was always gona be their for me, and he wasnt goin anywhere.(meaning he wouldnt leave me) and this was after the break he says this to me....i saw him last memorial day weekend we hung out and it was fun, but the next day we had plans for him to come over and hang out.. he never ended up coming over b/c he wanted to spend time with his parents.. which is fine.. but we got in a aguement about it cuz he told me he would comeover and then he told me he wasnt.. ever since that aguement he hasnt called me back at all.. i left him a message a few days later and sent him a email.. but thats the only time i called i dont know if i should try calling again or wait for him to call me.. b/c their has to be a reason why hes not calling me and trying to contact me?? should i call???
  7. bebecole
    you just need to keep your mind off of it.. b/c if you keep on thinking about it, its just gona make it worse. if you need to move you should use the nc method(no contact). i think its the only way to move on.. if she wants to be with you she will come to you, until then you need to keep busy!!! if you keep calling, You are going to push her away.. take time to your self, and she'll come around if she really loves you.. she just needs her space.. dont worry about if shes out having fun, b/c your gona go crazy thinking about what shes doing all the time.. to keep your mind off of it you should go out with some of your buddys, or go visit and hang out with the family..
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    she prob. just needs to relax.. plan a special surprise weekend for her and take her out to dinner an all that romantic stuff.. she'll appeciate it and maybe she'll be more laided back.. hey its worth a try rite??
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    i took paxil for a few months and it helped at first then i didnt really see a difference on how i was feeling.. i took it for my anxity disorder, it did help a little though.. i gained weight from it, (still trying totake the weight off) but besides that it was o.k. but everyone is different.. i also heard wellbutrin is good from alot of people!!
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    yeh i agree with the above.. you and your b/f should go halves on a little gift and card and say it was from the both of you.. thats what i would do.
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    def. think that you guys may be spending to much time together.. if you take some time to your selves you wont be annoyed by each other.. ehhh and i dont you should tell him to clean up his room and the time spent on the computer.. thats a mothers job.. not a girlfriends.. maybe you should approach him in a different way and see if you can set certain time for the both of you and time to yourselves so he can play on the computer.. my b/f use to do that but i really didnt care if he sat on the computer cuz ill be sitting watching some t.v.. we were still in the same room together just chilling out, and it was fun! that we were enjoying each others company and still doing our own things.
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    i do that sometimes too. tell a guy to remind me about something, its not cuz i'll forget.. i guess just to touch base and just to talk to him!!
  13. bebecole
    talk to her about it.. thats the only way you'll find out how she feels.. she probably scared just like you are..
  14. bebecole
    if your relationship is open enough i think you should talk to her about it.. and ask her what she thinks.. not that long ago my boyfriend approached me about his proformence and it showed that he cared about making me feel good.. i think once you ask her about it you will feel more confortable with her.
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    i think its extremly creepy!!!!!! i go to clubs often and it freaks me out.. alot.
  16. bebecole
    when i was your age i thought i "liked" my bestfriend like that.. we had a strong friendship and did everything together.. you might be curious about your sexuality but it doesnt nesscessary mean your gay. when i was young my first kiss was a female.. even though we had strong feelings for each other i didnt consider myself gay.. it was because we were young, and bestfriends. i wouldnt worrry about it just do what you thnink is right!
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    i love that poem.. very good..
  18. bebecole
    just keep your mind busy!! i know its hard not to think about it.. go to borders get out some good books for self help.. im not sure if you still talk to him but using the NC method (no contact) is a good way to get over him.. i know that you want to remain close to him but once your able to separate your emotional feelings from him then you can start a friendship.. you have to relize that hes going to be out and about with his busy life.. i think you guys shud keep a mutual friendship b/c who knows what will happen! but if you want to stay friends id keep my emotions out of it b/c i might make it worse.
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    my boyfriend is in the military. and weve been together for over 2years.. and let me tell you being a military girlfriend is hard work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im gona be honest but i think you should just remain friends, b/c his life is stressful to begin with. take sometime apart and if he wants to be with you he will come to you, but i wouldnt wait around for him if i was you. it will just be harder for you when you see him again.
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    im in the same exact situation.. i was with my boyfriend for over 2 years. hes in the military though so its a little different.. he approached me about a break b/c his life was too stressful. weve been on a break for over 5months now, and things are not seeming to look like were getting back together.. the best thing you can do is use the NC method, take time to reavuate your situation and weither your willing to wait for her to decide, b/c who knows how long she will "need her space" i never understood why people need breaks. and it seems to be whenever someone ask for one they dont have a resonable explaination
  21. bebecole
    ohh gezzz!!! oppsss.. yes i forgot dont use vasiline with a condom.. i only use it b.c me and my b/f do not use condoms. sry. lol but hey it works for me.
  22. bebecole
    yeh i use vasalinee.. i wouldnt go to a gas station tho.. lol id go to your local drug store.. like CVS.. if you dont want to use vasaline use a lube called KY. if you do use the vasaline put it on you and your girl.. you dont need alot
  23. bebecole
    thats not something you should get use too.. first off its not healthy and it could lead to serious problems.. if you feel gross after eating junk food, maybe you should limit what you eat and what your eating.. if your working out you wont have a problem with gaining weight.. i weigh the same as you but im only 5'0.. (yes im short) and i do worry about my weight sometimes as well, but i rather be healthy then be discustly thin.. plus guys so like women who are abnormally thin, its just weird.. i think your at a perfect weight for your height.. just embrace your self and be happy that your healthy.
  24. bebecole
    ask her! whats the worst thing she can say is; no.. and if she doesnt it just wasnt meant to be and you can find someone who acually wants to go out with you just be careful
  25. bebecole
    def. sounds like a tease.. but maybe its a sign your gona meet someone soon.. hehe you never know!!
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