jessicadon

Sounds like he is keeping you around incase things don't work out with her. I can't imagine him telling you he will give you everything you deserve while he is taking other women on vacation. You deserve someone much better than that. Don't let him keep you from finding that person. To be honest if he came back would you really want him? Could you ever trust him? He would just leave again.

I would think about it this way. What if all this happened to your best friend or your sister? What would tell her to do? You wouldn't want her to be hurt again. If I were you I would remove him from my life. So you have room for someone who will truly love you and respect you. You do deserve better than that. From both him and your friend.

she needs to go to a doctor. She obviously isn't on any birthcontrol pills (which are way more effective than condoms alone, should use both to be honest) because if she were she would be having normal periods.

make sure you smell really good.

I really think you should just dump him. To be honest you don't love him or respect him, It's obvious when you talk about him. Stop wasting each others time. Life is just too short.

I never take the placebo pills. I usually just throw away the pack once I get to them. I know your supposed to take them just as reminders, but I have done pretty well so far. No babies here.

He will be back june 21st for two months. Then next time he visits (after we get the visa so he can legally marry me sorted out) we will get married and he will live here. Thanks for the advice

Lately I have been really mad at my fiance. He lives in england. After he visited in April, his brother got to be friends with this female band. My fiance then got to know them, and now he goes to most of there performances, and hangs out with them afterwards. All of the girls have boyfriends, and I know in the bottom of my heart my fiance would never cheat on me. Reading that makes me think then whats the problem? I guess I just am jealous because he spends so much time with them, and before he started spending time with them, he missed me more. He says he still misses me, and I am sure he does, however we used to cry with each over it. Now it's just me crying. I am also jealous because he has all these friends, and I seriously don't have any. I am a really shy person, and he has been the only person I have been able to open up with, that I am not related to. Anyway, we have talked about it. He knew I was mad at him. I told him it was because I was sad that he was going out with them all the time. I made it clear I didn't think he was cheating or anything. He got mad though, said it sounded like if I couldn't be happy no one should be. Also that I was trying to control him. He also said he wouldn't go anymore, but in a way that made me respond that I wanted him to go and I was sorry. So he went again last night, and I was mad. I was really just annoyed, until I asked if there was anywhere online I could see pictures of them. So I looked, and I got upset, because everyone of them was prettier than me. I told him and he swore he found me a lot more attractive than them. He was tired from being out all night though, so he went to bed. I tried not to think about it, I went bed early. Then I wake up this morning, and it was the first thing on my mind! I guess I want to figure out why I am so upset over it. I don't really want to talk to him about it anymore. We did talk about it, and I said he could go. I guess I just miss him, and it makes me resent him, because it sucks missing some one more than they miss you.

Because you have a son together.

All I think you can really do it sit back and try to not take it personally. They are just concerned about their son. You don't deserve to be treated like that, but you don't want to make him feel like he has to choose you or his family. He is an adult, and if he really wants to be with you, he will find a way.

Sex is definitely good. Might not the best the first time you do it, but if you're with someone you love and care about you obviously keep doing it until it's amazing. Sex is good for you also, I definitely feel better after sex. Although I am one to throw a fit if I don't get it enough (trust me I'm working on it.)

I know it's probably not the answer you're looking for, but you have one thing, and you will always have it, and that's the love of Jesus Christ. He will always forgive you, and always love you. I am not trying to push my religion on to anyone, but sometimes thats all you have. By the way, You aren't all that bad! Sounds like deep down, you have a good heart, and just want what everyone wants.

Love does start with attraction, but maybe next time this comes up, and you are not initially attracted to the girl, you can find one feature of hers that is attractive. Everyone has at least one. Then just focus on that. Just remember beauty fades and even if you get a supermodel, eventually she will be saggy, fat, and ugly like everyone else (well she might not get fat but at 87 what does it really matter?) . Whats important in the long run is can you have a conversation with this person? Also another point I would like to make is, sometimes its good to get to know some one your not 100% interested in, just because when you find some one that you are interested in you will have some experience with dating and the like. It helps, although you definitely don't want to lead anyone on.

Bottom line. She is cheating. If she acts or does things differently when she thinks your not aware, thats cheating. Just keep copies of the emails, and phone bills, incase she does go. Might be helpfull with the divorce. Hopefully for your son she doesn't leave, and you can find it in your heart to forgive her. It sounds like so far you have been very understanding. I also think you should feel no guilt snooping. If she was a trustworthy person, it would never have become and issue. I am so sorry, I will send you some prayers.

ok, I don't think this would really help you. But you could get a sister or cousin to go with you to a mall with and, have her survey people as to your attractiveness. She could say she was doing a paper or something, and she could tell them they need to be honest. That is probably the only way I could see you getting proof. Even so, looks aren't everything, and trust me there is some woman out there that would find you attractive. (to be honest if you have a job and no wife or kids at 30.. your attractive.. bonus points if you own your house) I just wouldn't advertise your lack of experience, I am sure you don't though.