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I'm going to have to agree with Tiredman. However, you should take a direct aproach unless you want to risk letting this escalate to (dare I say) a sexless relationship. Call him out on this. Explain to him that you are a very sexual being, and that your marriage with him depends A LOT on the sexual energy between you two. If you can tolerate a marriage with little to no sex for the rest of your life, just let it be. If you can't, demand that he changes at least a bit so that your needs can at least be partially met. It's up to you. If you're on of those wives that succumbs to all of her husband's wishes and is a sucker for anything, my guess is that your marriage will go down the * * * *ter and your husband won't even know it. Get on this now.

Hmm...a world without sex...hmmm..I can think about that for about 20 seconds, because that's approximately how long that world would last.. What others have created from their sexual desires (insecurities regarding sex..this "sexual enterprise" you speak of) should not affect you. Why should you take two seconds from your day to be influenced by what others have done to contort the beautiful and natural act of sex? Idk..it just seems to me that you may be in search of attention...you might subconsciously be trying to be someone so radically different from others that they are actually (oddly enough) drawn to you... Just my opinion though..

There are other avenues you can journey..you don't have to go straight to "sex" per se. You can always try out oral..BOTH WAYS.. it's so freakin good. It's a good precursor to sex, and gets each person comfortable with their bodies.

Well, you're a rare specimen..

Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex from behind, she complains about a "pressure" in her lower stomach. This causes her to shy away from the doggystyle position..which SUCKS because it's my favorite. Also, for some reason sex just isn't feeling that good for my girlfriend. She can't get anywhere close to achieving an orgasm from it, and it makes me feel like a total failure. We've been having sex for a long time now, and I think that it's stupid for me to ignore the fact that she just isn't getting as much pleasure as I am. She says that she loves "being close to [me]" and that's enough..and that she doesn't care that she doesn't have an orgasm..EVER. I love going down on her and making her orgasm through clitoral stimulation...but it just doesn't suffice.. Well, I CARE. So, here are my questions: 1.) Is there anyway that I can work on reducing this "pressure" my gf is talking about? Have any of you ladies felt this? 2.) I've tried so many different positions and techniques, yet my gf can't have an orgasm. I also never take less than 15 minutes..so I'm positive that premature ejaculation isn't the answer here...But what can I do to help my situation? How can I make her orgasm through sex?

Well, I can certainly relate to your "problem," which many men tend to label it. This happens to almost everyone. For instance, I had a lot of trouble getting a firm erection when with my girlfriend. This inhibited us from having sex for a good amount of time. Also, my gf is not very good at giving head, so the oral approach didn't work either. However, I learned that what was happening was completely mental. The more I thought about performing, the worse it got. To cure myself I just didn't think about it anymore, and allowed myself to just get "caught in the moment" with her. Instead of thinking "oh man I really need a boner now," or "she's wants me inside her but I can't," I just, for once, ENJOYED everything that was going on. Of course, the erection came naturally, and great sex followed. So this is my advice for you; Don't jump to conclusions that you're physically inept, or that you need viagra or some other drug like that. The mind is the single largest sex organ in the body. CONTROL IT, USE IT, BECOME IT. haha I just had to add that. I know it's hard to not think about it, I literally spent half of my time thinking that I wan't a "man" and that I wasn't worth my girlfriend's time. Just ignore all that bull * * * *. You are a man, and we were put on this planet to impregnate women and propagate our species. It really is simple, just try not to think about it.

Why not try whipping it out and seeing how she reacts?

My dad sat me down when I was 5 because I asked him numerous times....I was a very curious kid..what can I say? haha If everyone could learn like that it would be much better. My father and I still keep completely open lines of communication with regard to sex. In fact, just the other day he and I were discussing the role of a badet in American households. Hahahaha.

I don't like it at all when my girlfriend is on top. I guess it mostly has to do with her sucking at it! haha. When she's "doing her thing" she sometimes bends my * * * * the wrong way. I think she leans back too far or something. I don't know, but it's usually never that pleasurable. Any specific advice as to how to avoid anything like that?

My girlfriend hates it! She complains that it creates this searing burning sensation in her when having sex. Isn't it supposed to just be "warming" rather than "burning?"

Yes, it seems as though doggystyle allows for better queefing action haha =). I was doing her from the rear tonight (well, yesterday technically) and her vagina wouldn't stop farting! Man I love it!

They're pretty sweet.

My girlfriend and I were having sex from the rear and out of nowhere a very loud fart erupted from her vagina. I guess this is what you would label a "queef." Is this normal? What exactly causes this to happen? Is it suction? Something else? But man, it was funny as all hell =). If anyone else wants to share their queef experiences that would be great.

Well, here is the answer you've been looking for. It is completely normal for the penis to double, or possibly even TRIPLE in size during an erection. You have nothing to worry about.

A nice, wet, long, blowjob.