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  1. nadine_3110
    We've been dating for over 8 months. But I know I have to find something for him to do. I only see him on the weekends, I go to college, he has to work. And it's winter here, so no bikes lol!!! It's just that it's a touchy subject with him.
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    I always kinda tease my bf about his weight, nothing major and not that often. But lately, I have resolved to lose weight, about fifteen pounds. I really would like him to try to lose weight too. But I don't think it interests him that much. He is overweight though, he's 5'9" and over 200 pounds for sure. I just want him to TRY to eat healthier, not even exercise, just eat healthy. When I told him that he said that he eats healthy cereal in the morning and that I'm not always around him when he eats. But when I go over to his place on the weekends, I see fresh pizza boxes and him and his brother eat a lot of canned stuff like ravioli and all that crap. He told me that he liked himself the way he was and why couldn't I like him that way too. I felt so bad for everything I said at that point. Truthfully, sometimes I'm not attracted to him at all because of his weight. But then I feel so shallow and I forget about it. I like him so much and the person he is. I don't care that much about his weight, but I don't want him to continue this unhealthy behaviour into an early grave. And I also want him to look good, not just get fatter and fatter because he really has no one to impress anymore. So maybe some advice on how to approach him would be helpful, without hurting his feelings too much.
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    At least you're still alive. You have that.
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    I really hope that you don't go back to drugs, it's definitely not the solution to anything least of all a break-up. It sounds like this guy of yours was very unstable to begin with and it sounds like he was just looking for an excuse to break up with you. You went to see your friend on her bday, there's nothing wrong with that, just seems like there's something else that he didn't tell you. Some other reason why he wanted to break it off. Maybe he just wasn't feeling the same things you were. Things like this are always hard, especially if you loved the guy. And that saying is completely right. I'm guessing this guy was your first bf, or not, just saying that cus it sounds like you are pretty young. The first one is always the hardest one to get over and he will always hold a dear place in your heart, you'll never forget him. But eventually, when the time is right, you will move on. And don't do like me and set it in your head that you will never find someone like him. You'll probably find someone better. Try not to miss school because of this guy or resort to doing drugs again, he's not worth that. There's nothing I can say to make you feel better and I know it but just keep posting about your feelings and we'll keep responding. Good luck with everything! *Hugs*
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    What? You still want to move in with her her? She broke up with you, are you over her? If she won't talk to you or see you, what makes you think she's going to move in with you? Maybe give us a bit more information.
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    One of my best friends came out to me and it didn't really change anything, well it did, it made me understand gay and lesbian ppl better. Now we can talk about boys together, it's really awesome. It's not a freaking disease, it's just who they are. He's still one my best friends no matter who he's attracted too.
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    I kinda did the same thing as Scotcha. My best friend at the time and I just wanted to experiment. Back then I didn't really understand being gay or a lesbian, it was just something I did. I totally regret it now cause I can't believe I did that! But I'm not homophobic or anything, one of my best friends is gay.
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    Then what's the problem? Ppl said it before, some guys are jerks, since you said no to being in a relationship with him but said yes to sleeping with him here and there, he thinks he can have you anytime. He KNOWS that he can actually. He thinks you're easy and you haven't given him anything that proves you aren't. He probably gets sex from his girlfriend and he can get sex from you, in his mind it goes like this, 'Why should I just get sex from one girl when I can get sex from two girls! It's twice the sex!!!' See what I mean. Kick him to the curb honey, cut the contact with this jerk, unless you're as sex-oriented and shallows as he is.
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    How long have you been dating? I know you might here this often but 18 is a little young to be married, don't you think? If he makes you feel amazing in and out of the bedroom and you love him very much, I think you shouldn't feel inferior to him when it comes to sex. Guys like the fact that they can teach the girls a thing or two sexually. It's good to communicate as you're pleasing each other. You can also read up on blow job tips or sex tips on the internet. If he pleases you and he says you please him, just take it easy and don't worry about it so much.
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    I like the answer someone gave about the fuzzy feeling inside. That sounds about right. Well I've had that fuzzy feeling for about three months now but I don't want to be the one to say it first. We've been dating for 8 months. He's never said it to anyone, neither have I.
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    Well I would just see how it goes. You can continue seeing him and joking with him. And if you see that he is developing feelings, or he's acting shy around you, ask him about it. Or maybe, if he every mentions you being his girlfriend again, even in a joking fashion, ask him if he would like that. Maybe he'll be caught off guard and admit to something... This is a tricky situation, you could also wait for him to make the first move. But get to know each other a bit better first and show him that you aren't that messed up 15 year old anymore. Good luck!
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    Hey guys and girls, I want to know what happens after you first have sex with your bf or gf. Do things become awkward? Does he or she start caring for you a lot more? Does he or she express his or her feelings more willingly? I just want to know how it changes the relationship. And keep in mind I'm talking about having sex after a few months, not like a week. Thanks and happy holidays!
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    Hey, I wonder if anyone else has had this problem. I have had this for awhile. I get like dry skin around my areola/nipple area. It gets itchy sometimes and the skin peels, it's also red. I've had this for a few years and I was wondering how to get rid of it, it is very irritating. Thanks!
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    I'd say he does like you, maybe he's just a little shy to talk to you in person. Keep talking on msn, it's a good way to loosen him up, but try to start up a conversation at school. Like maybe during lunch. He's just a shy guy, so help him out a bit. Good luck!
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    I really don't understand my bf. I know that he works every day and all that and he's busy blah blah blah. But is it so hard for him to take a few minutes to text me after he's done work? I really don't think it'll hurt his finger that much to text to ask me how my day was. And we had a long talk two nights ago, cus I told him that when this one guy is around, I get confused about us. Because I had to choose between my bf and this other guy, about 7 months ago. I told him that sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice. I'm scared cus I don't want to lose my bf but I just feel neglected sometimes. He says he tries but it doesn't really seem like that. My bf is a really sweet guy when he tries to be, but he doesn't understand that I need to have some sort of connection with him, I need him to need me, I want him to want me. It's not like I see him all the time, I only see him during the weekend and you can't say that's asking too much. He told me that he looks forward to seeing me on the weekend and I believe him but why can't he just try a little harder to make me happy. I'm on msn with the other guy right (we were really good friends before I chose my current bf instead of him). I'm having a tough time here, I was just looking for some feedback, me and bf have been together for 7 months, haven't said I love yous yet, I thought I felt it but now I'm not so sure... Thanks guys, Nadine
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    How many of you celebrate or celebrated monthly anniversaries? My bf and I acknowledge them but we don't buy gifts or go out or anything.
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    Just wondering if everyone has a G-spot. Cus I read that if you or your bf put your finger in and curl up in a 'come here' motion, you should find it. But I tried to find it and it didn't do anything for me. Maybe I just have the wrong spot or I don't have a G-spot. I rub and it just feels like skin on skin rubbing, no excitement.
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    If he was to move out it would be solved? I think you have trust issues here. If he's living with his ex and other ppl but he's with YOU, then you just gotta trust that he only wants to be with YOU. And as for calling him all the time to help you, you haven't made any friends where you live? That's a little uncommon, try and break the habit though.
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    If I have a cold, will giving my bf a blow job do anything to him or his southern region?
  20. nadine_3110
    How long were you together and how long have you been broken up for?Not that it matters that much, cus when you're with someone and you feel it in your heart that they care and you're important to them, it's hard when it's time to let them go. I think that if you are still hurting really badly (like if you burst out in tears suddenly, etc...) you should try your hardest not to talk to him. But if he approaches you frist, then just respond politely to his questions, but please try to not see him, maybe go to the gym at a different time than he does. I know you got your heart broken and it hurts BAD, but he's gone and YOU'RE STILL HERE!!! You survived, oh my goodness, you did it. Now all you have to do is figure out that this guy missed his chance with you. And now all the other guys in the world can have a shot with you. I'm trying to give you some encouragement here, I hope it worked and made you smile a bit. Be strong and keep posting. Good luck!
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    How about you just call her to talk to her. Not necessarily to go and hang out with her. I feel like I'm always the one calling and texting my bf but I know that he enjoys it just as much as I do, even though I do feel a little clingy sometimes. But if she's acting more distant towards you and says she's busy when you want to see her, maybe this is something you should talk about. Good luck!
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    I know you don't want to push her, but I think you should start talking to her about what's going on. She can't just use you like that. You're making the effort of bringing her out and going to see her and so on, but is it leading to anything more? Do you want to get back together with her? It sounds like you do with all the kissing and hugging, but make sure that's what you really want. And tell her that it's not fair for her to lead you. Good luck!
  23. nadine_3110
    I think she is just that, busy. I feel the same way with my bf sometimes. I feel like I'm always the one calling or texting and I feel like I'm being way too clingy. But I don't think he sees it that way. He does like talking to me and he loves it when I text him, it shows him how much I care. And my bf does get tired too, quite a bit actually, but that's ok with me (most of the time) as long as I can sit beside him or hold his hand, I'm fine. Maybe your gf should start going to bed earlier. Good luck!
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    If you still want to stay friends with him, I think you should. But your feelings for one another could get in the way of your friendship. I think it would be a good idea, for the time being, to kinda distance yourself a bit from him. Start hanging out with other friends, maybe don't call him as often. Some guys just don't know what they have till it's gone, make him realize that. And what kind of stuff is he figuring out? It might be just an excuse to not be with you in a romantic relationship. And yes trust is very important in any relationship. I had the same issue with my current bf. We were together, broke up for 7 months and then got back (been together 7 months) and at one point in our relationship, I realized that I didn't trust him not to leave again. I was so scared that I was going to get my heart broken, so I mustered up all my courage and brought down the barriers that I put there because of him, and I gave him my heart. I trust him completely now, there are occasional glitches, but they don't last very long. Trust has to be gained but it also has to be given. It's your choice, you can choose to trust him or not, you might get hurt, but you can't have any relationship without trust. Good luck!
  25. nadine_3110
    Be strong and resist the urge to text her. She probably didn't do so on your bday, so it's only fair to not do the same on hers.
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