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I didn't feel right so i went online and took several questioner things and found out that i am severely depressed and i have some type of Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). What i don't get is should i go to a doctor? I think it would be kinda stupid for me to go because i don't think i am worth the while of the doctor...plus it would cost money. Why should i unnecessarily spend money on myself if i can live the way i am now?
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Take a blank sheet of paper and make three boxes. In each one write what you like about one of the guys. (or why you should be with them) Write all the pros for all the guys on 1 (or multiple) sheets of paper. Then write the cons. This might help you to see who you want to be with. Good luck!
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It sounds like you still have feelings for your ex...the first one. Maby you should reconceter why you broke up with her. Maby she IS the one. You are right, you will eventualy find the perfect someone. Good luck!
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I would try to get him to go to rehab. Marajuanna is a illegle drug and he could get in trouble if he is found with it not to menchen it's terrible for him. So try to get him some help. Good luck!
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Dude...you are 13! You don't have to kiss her. If you really like her write down how you feel and give it to her... or keep it. Plus, what if you broke up?...you would be hurt more if you kissed her than if you gave her a note.
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Is the money that you need for a down payment type thing? Also, did you sign a contract or a lease yet? if not you could just refuse payment alright. But if you did...some places alow you to cancel the contract without having to pay the down payment...just a penalte fee. So, i would look into it and study the contract to try to find loop holes. Good luck and i'm praying for you.
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I Gotta Big complex problem on my own on this one
Birdman replied to spun874554's topic in Relationship Advice
I would write her a letter telling her how you feel. You could even say that the shrink thought that "she would use you" and that "it would be bad for your health". Ooo... maby the shrink just told you that she would use you because he knew that she is not in the position to be in a relationship right now. Well anyway...Good luck! -
She probably thinks that you arn't calling because you are mad at her for going to the park with her ex. She probably went to the park with her ex because she has feelings for you...let me explain. Let's say that her ex and herself didn't have a very good break up. Now, you two are going steady, she starts having feelings for you. That makes her feel guilty because she doesn't know if she properly ended the last relationship. So, i think you need to let her figure out what she needs to do. But, call her and tell her that you understand that she needs some time to sort things out...and once she does you will be waiting to welcome her back.
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Just be there friends and get to know them. You will know what to do when the time comes. Plus, you are in seventh grade...you have your whole life in front of you...just chill. Things will work out in the end. until then just hang in there. Good luck!
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Are you currently known as "boyfriend-girlfriend"? If not, thats probably what he is going to ask you...to be his girlfriend. If that's not it then he probably said that to exsprece how he feels for you so that you don't "dump" him while he is away. I'd say he likes you alot. But 16 is difinety to young to get married. Good luck!
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It sounds to me like you have a real winner here. But, she might mistake your nervousness as not wanting to be in the relationship. However, i think you have made it clear through your fisical actions that you want t o be with her. Is her trip a trip back home until next school year? If so, i think you should write her a letter telling her how you feel. That way she can open up your letter and read it anytime and think about you. Then, ,when she comes back to school in the fall she'll be thrilled to see you.
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Maby you should bring the union or the better business berau into it to try to improve the conditions. There has to be some organization that can help you. Maby the department of labor would know of one. Just remember it's not what it is that counts, it's what you make of it. So play a game with yourself, try to find a way to make it fun. Try to have a positive attitude.(oh great, now i'm starting to sound like Richard Simmons) Good luck!
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With everything that you are unhappy with it seems that you are searching for somthing to fill a void you have. Also, have you tried marrage conselling or just concelling for yourself? Relationships need to based on trust, so, this may not be a good time to tell her, maby in the presense of the marrage conseller(if he aggrees) you need to tell your wife whatever you did that you said you regret. Also, during a pregnance, women are usually more cranky. So, try to be understanding. Also, you two need to try to work out this problem BEFORE the baby is born. Because if you do separate(i am NOT sugjesting that you do) it should be done before the baby is a child who can be hurt by you seperating. In closing, just try to remember why you married your wife. Remember when you looked into her eyes on your wedding day. Remember the spark that you had when you were newly weds. I bet that spark is still there, it is just covered with problems that have accumulated over the years. Good luck!
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Hmm, i haven't been in that situation but i would tell her how i felt. Since you both will be leaving i think you should go out for coffee or somthin, and talk with her a bit and then give her a letter that tells her how you feel. That way she can open it up when ever she wants, read it, and think about you. I know what i am about to say probably seams like crazy monkey crap but if you two are meant to be together...you will be. It may take weeks, , months, or even years, but it will happen. If she won't go out for coffee or whatever then you could always give her the letter at work. I think why she declined you for the movie is because he dosn't want to get attached to you if she won't see you in a long time. Tha doesn't mean she doesn't care for you though. Also, are you going into the Army or another branch? when i turn 19 (17 now) i am going to go to BT and then try to get into West Point and from there to Ranger training. So good luck with your relationship, your BT, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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I think you should just talk with her and bring it up like "have you ever thought about us becoming more than friends" or somthing like that. I don't know what exactly you should say...it vares person to person. Some ppl might take it better if it's brought up in a analagy like "there are these two friends that have been friends for quite a while blablabla" or somthing ... I doubt if this helps at all but good luck!
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If he really liked you he wouldn't be so selfish...let me explain. He is moving away thereforeeeeeee your friends believe that that's why he is avoiding you. If he knew you liked him he should not be as concearned about his feelings and stay away. He should talk to you and work out if you two are going to continue your relationship long distance or whatever. I think you should try to talk to him somehow...via phone, im, letter, in person or whatever. Tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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Maby he just got out of a relationship or has been hurt in past relationships so he is affraid to commit. You should talk to him face to face to see where he stands o nthe whole issue. Then you can observe what emotions he displays when he says sertain things and it's easier to understand them. Good luck!
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I think she just isn't ready for your relationship to become public. Maby she dosn't want rumors spreading around and reaching her parents. But i don't think she is just using you...then again i don't know alot of things. Good luck!
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Whoa, you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I guss my question is what about the kids? If you get a divorce it would hurt them very badly. But, it might be better for Seans kids to be away from there mother. What about your husband? Does your husband or his wife know about your affair? It's good that you are praying. I hope everything turns out alright soon. God bless
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Her current boyfriend dosn't seem like the type of person someone should be around. I think that you should just keep on being her friend and tell her that if she ever wants to talk about something she can come to you. If you treat her with respect it will not go unnoticed. But don't try to "steal" her from her current boyfriend. It sounds like you treat her better than he does so she will probably "dump" him and hook up with you. What does her bro think about her current boyfriend? If it was my sister I would much rather have someone like you dating her than an criminal. Good luck.
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You will eventualy meet the right person and fall in love. That won't make life perfect...but it will sure make it a whole lot better.
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Were you married when you im him. If so he probably blocked you because he didn't want to ruin your maraige. That makes me think that he likes you. But, since he has been hurt in previous relationships he probably will not contact you. So, you need to contact him. I have heared that food is the window toa mans soul. So, i think you should write him a note telling him how you feel(if you don't want to tell him in person) and buy or make something really good (like a cheesecake or somthin) and give it (or leave it for) him. I hope this helps. God bless.
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I am only 17 but i think that a major part of love is sacrifice. So, i guess the question is, do you love her enough to sacrifice your time and energy on what she wants...kids. Have you talked to her about your insomnia? She would probably love you all the more if she knew that you were going to over come a condition you have just to make her happy. I don't know if this helps any but good luck and God bless
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Maby she is just trying to "get you back" for breaking up with her. Or maby she was hurt by somthing you did on your date-after-your-break-up. Has she done this before when you were "together"? Hope this helps.
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If you still have feelings for her maby you should reexaimin why you broke up. If you want to get back together with her let her know. Even if you don't want to get back together with her you should probably talk to her anyway...but only if it would give you closer. Make sense?