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  1. Birdman
    Do you need us to answer ASAP cause you are on the trampoline? If you try to kiss her while jumping on the trampoline you will probably bonk heads. But seriously, why do feel rushed to kiss her, you're only 13. It would be ok if you waited until you were 100. well actual no...but what i'm trying to say is you will know when you are suppossed to kiss her...if you kiss her before that she might not be ready. So just chill, i know it's hard but you'll know when the time comes.
  2. Birdman
    I'd write her a letter telling her that you love her, your sorry, and you understand that she needs time to heal and, when she is ready to get back together you will be waiting with open arms. And that you arn't perfect but you will try to be as loving and faithfull as can be. Possibly even send some flowers or somthin to. God bless
  3. Birdman
    What else happened 7 monthes ago that made you quit your job? I think you should wait till you go to the shrink and then give us an update cause there might be somthing wrong with you and if the shrink can figure out what it is and you tell us...we might be able to help you more cause then we would at least have somthing to start with. until then just hang in there. At times you may not feel like living but there is a reason you are alive...i don't know what it is but there is a reason. God bless
  4. Birdman
    I can kinda relate...my dad was laid off last spring. He hasn't gotten a full time job yet cause he is still trying to work with the union to bump to a diferent position. But he works part time at two separate jobs. My mom was freaked out at first but after a while she relized that no matter what it's gonna turn out how it's supossed to. However, we have had to make some sacrifices. Like my mom had to get a job and is now working about 40 hours a week. It might not seem like it's that big of a deal that she got a job but she also makes all homemade meals from scratch (no hamburger helper or any of that crap) plus she teaches (we are homeschooled) 3 of us 7 kids(the two oldest are married and moved away but there are 5 still living at home). So just tell your mom that everything will work out...it won't be perfect but it will work out. As for your sister, mabey you could do somthing fun with her to keep her spirits up. Like have her sleep over at your place and play games or go to a movie or somthin. I hope this helps. God bless.
  5. Birdman
    It sounds like he is just doing that to "get you back" for something. But don't hold a grudge cause he might just have not gotten some money he was expecting. As for the stuff, if he says you can't have somthing that is yours i would deffinetly talk it out with your ex with a big strong friend of yours standing by. But it shouldn't turn into a fight if you just treat him like you would want to be treated...even if he is jipping you. That's not to say to let him push you around, be firm but gentle. That kinda sounds confusing. I hope this helps.
  6. Birdman
    Do you know if she has a father? That might seem like a wired question to start with but if she doesn't have a father she might be looking for a male "father figure" type thing that she can talk to. I'm not saying that she would think you were her father...i'm saying she might be looking for someone to make her feel safe and secure. (not htat men are all that) If she does have a father maby her relationship with him isn't very good. But if it's not the above two cases then i'd say she just wants a friend but she is to afraid to commit to anything so she took you for granted and now that you are gone she relises how much of a friend(or boyfriend) you were. But i think you are right that 16 is a little young to be in a serious relationship like boyfriend-girlfriend. However, you can still be her friend. And as for hugging her, she might just not be getting enough love at home. So, i think it's alright if you hug her...just don't let it comprimise your boundries. For example, hugging her while at someones house while you are alone might not be such a good idea.
  7. Birdman
    Well, the fact that she admitted that she had been "going" with a married man showes me that she wants to work things out deep down inside. I don't think you should feel jealous though because didn't you go out with some ppl during that time? Just try to be understanding with her and keep your calm. If you guys really love eachother it will work out. Hate causes arguments: but love forgives all wrong doings
  8. Birdman
    She is going through alot in life, 16 can be a very hard time. If you two are ment to be together, you will be... eventualy. And when/if she comes back to you try to be understanding that the judgements she made then were probably clouded by different influences. But, if you truly love her you have to let her go and give her the choice of coming back to you. What i mean by that is don't make annoying phone calls or send annoying letters to her or anything like that. Just let her be. Everything will turn out how it's supossed to in the end
  9. Birdman
    I don't get it...how many ppl have you ppl kissed?(anonymous question) I mean, once you meet the right person for you, the person that you eventualy marry, then kissing them isn't going to be as special of an experiance then if you wouldn't have kissed all those other ppl. Anyone know what i mean or feel the same way?
  10. Birdman
    You have to look at why her father would not like you kissing her. It might be because you are to young. But anyway you need to make sure that you keep any rules that her father might have because ultimitly, if you get maried to her later, would you want to have a father-in-law that is pissed at you?
  11. Birdman
    I do NOT want to be judgemental in any way but why would you want boys flocking you? If there is only one person out there that is right for you don't you think that you will eventually come together anyway? I dunno, maby i am a little byast. I have 1 friend. He is basicaly the only person i talk to outside my family. But, anywho, i think you should just be yourself...thats who you are, and ppl will respect you for being you. I hope this helps.
  12. Birdman
    Maby you can't stop thinking about him because you feel sorry for him and you want to help him. I think you should try to use your influence over him to get him to go to the doctor and get help. But diffenetly don't let this come in the way of your marrage.
  13. Birdman
    I am in no way qualified to answer this because i am not married but i think she definintly has an issue about somthin. So, you should lovingly talk with her to find out what it is...and fix it. Just remember not to get angry or do anything that would piss her off. I hope this helps.
  14. Birdman
    It sounds like he has a problem. If you think that he would NOT hurt you if you told him...i think you should tell(or ask) him to go to a doctor or somthin to see what is wrong with him and tell him that once he does that and gets his life worked out you can talk...but not until then. I hope this helps.
  15. Birdman
    I think you should talk to your family that lives in NY with you. Ask them what they think about it. Maby they want to move too. Sorry i don't have any better advice for you. I hope it helps. P.S you can allways post again
  16. Birdman
    I think you should talk (not yell ) it out. Start by telling him how much you love him and then tell him it hurts you that he doesn't prioritize his time well. He should understand. But just remember to make sure not to be bossy or naggy or anything...everyone has problems,no one is perfect. So treat him with the love that you would want to be shown if you were in his situation.
  17. Birdman
    I think the best way would be to write her a letter telling her how you feel. That way if/when she does leave she can take it with her and read it whenever and be reminded of you. Plus if you are meant to be to gether..it will happen. I bet you think that is the biggest BS in the world, but i once did to. You just gotta believe. I hope this helps.
  18. Birdman
    i'm not very good at answering ppl posts but... it sounds to me like your ex was mainly in a relationship with you for the sex. Either that or he is messed up... cause if he knows that you are in a relationship with someone else, and he truly loves you, he would let you be happy...even if it wasn't with him. i hope that helps.
  19. Birdman
    I previosly posted a message about how i was depreesed and how i thought it was because i loved (or liked or whatever you want to call it) someone but didn't think i ever would be with her. Well, i have found the solution. I am going to forget about her and join the Army and go Special Forces. It will be hard work but it will keep my mind off of her, and serve my country. It's not like it some whacky idea i just came up with... i have actualy always been intrested in that sort of thing..so i think it will work outr nicely. ttyl
  20. Birdman
    Q.Do i get out enough A. I probably get out of the house (not counting going outside) once a week or so. Q. Do i listen to music. A. I listen to music quite a bit...i am even taking piano and voice lessons Q. Do i want to marry her (Allyce...isn't that a beutiful name?) A. You might think i am weird but i've wanted to marry her ever since i was twelve. We went to the same church for a few years and so i would talk with her there occasionaly. But my family and i started going to another church the only day my parents have off of work is sunday...so it's kinda hard to find time to have her family over. Plus, i'm only seventeen right now and i don't have my drivers liciens yet...so i can't go and do things with her. So right now i'm just waiting and hopping that someday i will be with her. But there is a slight problem... i want to join the Army in a year and i want to know what she thinks about it before i go and and make such a big carrer choice. So there is sort of a time limit. Again... thank you for your posts and i hope you will have time to look at this one
  21. Birdman
    I have swings of depresion. I can be happy one day and then the next day i want to kill myself (or wish that i would die in my sleep). I think it might be linked wit hthe fact that i haven't seen the woman i want to marry in over 8 months...and she only lives 10 min away.
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