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Thanks for all your replies! I'll let everyone know how it goes!
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Hey man I feel your pain! I would let her know one last time that your there for her anytime she would need you. While she is dealing with whatever is happening with her friends you should be out making sure that you know what you want. Take some time to truly experience other things in life. I know it sounds weird, but if you have been in her life everyday she might not realize how much help you are or how much she needs you. Take some time off bud! It sounds like you deserve it! Good Luck! -RedWolf-
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So theres this girl that I've known for about 2 months and we started to date about a week ago. We have spent every night together since then (nothing sexual mind you). We both agree that we would like to have a relationship but at the moment should just date. I have never actually dated anyone, I usally skip right into the relationship. So I decided to try it out. Anyways, last night we both went to a party together and she got smashed. Her ex bf shows up and to make a long story short I end up leaving and they went off and did their thing. Now she told me not to worry about this guy when we were talking before. So now I'm pretty upset cause I had a lot in common with this girl and I got pushed away in an evening by her ex. Then tonight rolls around and I log on to MSN and she starts talkin to me. She says she really likes what we have but she didnt think I would get upset cause we were only "dating" I told her how hurt I was and she apologized. So now she wants to keep dating and I told her I didnt want to unless we were dating exclusivly(sp?) Any ways she agrees and things are for the most part ok. We have plans for tomorrow night. I find myself being paranoid and a bit untrusting of her. Before we got offline I did ask her a couple times if she was positivly sure this is what she wanted, she said yes. She also did say she would talk to her ex and get him to understand the situation, but also said that I shouldnt get upset if they wanted to hang out. I've been burned pretty badly in the past by stuff like this...Anyone have any advice about this? I really want to believe her but I'm not sure where to start. How should I conduct myself tonight? Any help would be welcome. Thanks in advance! -RedWolf-
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Some people want all the benefits of a relationship without actually havin one. Some people are just like that. If you want something serious he's probably not the one, atleast for now. Good luck!
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are girls manipulative or is it me?!
RedWolf replied to activelife81's topic in Long-Distance Relationships
I agree with caliboy. Run! Run far far away! It's not worth the stress believe me! -
Need input from women and men. Please help!
RedWolf replied to elbandido's topic in Breaking Up Advice
Shes leading you on. Get away from her and stay away no matter how much it hurts. I would get your ring back too. Just get away from her, you know shes using you. Good luck! -
Leave him! Your relationship will end up hurting your baby sometime. Are you sure your going to keep this baby? If you really wanted to work something out with him (though you shouldn't IMHO) you should give it up for adoption or if you wanted to, abort it. Just try to watch out for your future. Best of luck to ya!
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afraid of losing my grandfather
RedWolf replied to cute_one2003's topic in Grief Loss and Bereavement
Life is 90% how you react to things. Just hang in there and think about how he would have wanted you to live a happy life. I wish you the best! -
It is possible. Go find out asap! I wish you the best!
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That has to be the stupidest run on sentance ever! If I were a mod I would delete this steaming pile right now! Btw turn off the caps dammit!
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Move on! Throw away his things, get some new hobbies/friends and just forget about it. Your wasting away over something stupid. If you love him you should respect his independance and just drop it.
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That just isnt right. She should know it makes you uncomfortable. I think this is just her lack of compassion for you. She might not be as great as you first thought. Theres always something about girls who only have guy friends...anyways goodluck and I hope things turn out alright!
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You will feel better eventually. I have heard that it takes roughly the same amount of time you were with someone to get over them completely! I know you probably have heard this before, but your only 15. You also have tons of other stuff going on within your life and your body that is new. Give it time...you dont need to have a replacement! Good luck!
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Everyone looses it once in a while. Try to let the small things pass. There are some great books that I have read to help me out. Also having friends to fall back on is great! I'm here also if you want to talk, or are interested in one of those books....Good luck!
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Once I gave a cheater another chance, and I regreted it. Leave em in the dust...It's not like you could forget about it anyways...Good luck!
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Help!!advice for the most awkward situation
RedWolf replied to EndlessPain's topic in Relationship Advice
Forget about her for the summer. It seems you have done everything to let her know how you feel. Doing more now would just be annoying and pointless. I don't give jewelry to a girl until we are already going out...maybe you came on too strong. Let her figure out what she wants. Also I doubt you love her, it sounds like you are Infatuated(sp?) Anyways, if it was ment to be, she will contact you...you gave her enough ways to. Good luck! -
Telling her may be a bad idea cause you work together. Just as a rule of thumb, you never date someone you work with. I did it once and it was not a good experience. I have a feeling your only interested in her because you see her everyday....There is a big difference between love and infatuation!(sp?)
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Maybe he is not comfortable finishing with you yet. Try to get him to do it(orgasm) while not having sex but still have you around. That way he has no mental block when your going at it. If its not that maybe he is going at it with himself too much...tell him to go easy for a while and see if that helps. Best of luck!
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Should I try to get her back? Can anyone give me some advice
RedWolf replied to SadMan's topic in Breaking Up Advice
I would stay away from her no matter how much it hurts! Demand that she break up with this other guy or tell her to stay the hell away from you. If she can do it to him, she could do it to you....maybe she did in the past! Move on and find someone else. Seems what you two are really holding onto are the physical aspects of a relationship....which is not healthy when your used to both......my advice: change your number and go socialize! -
Have you ever heard a song that says everything you have been feeling? I think we should all post the lyrics to one song that best describes whats been happening in your life. My song is Sleeping Beauty by A Perfect Circle. Delusional I believe I can cure it all for you, dear Coax or trick or drive or drag the demons from you Make it right for you sleeping beauty Truly thought I can magically heal you You're far beyond a visible sign of your awakening Failing miserably to rescue Sleeping Beauty Drunk on ego Truly thought I could make it right If I kissed you one more time to Help you face the nightmare But you're far too poisoned for me Such a fool to think that I can wake you from your slumber That I could actually heal you.. Sleeping Beauty Poisoned and hopeless You're far beyond a visible sign of your awakening Failing miserably to find a way to comfort you Far beyond a visible sign of your awakening And hiding from some poisoned memory Poisoned and hopeless Sleeping Beauty My situation exactly. BTW this post was inspired by gilg's sentiments post.
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This is a tough situation. From my point of view, she has shown you no consistant proof of her dedication to you. Although I can understand that some feelings cannot be placed on paper. All things considered, you are only 17, your going to meet a lot of people in college, and this girl is clearly not ready for something as big as a long-distance relationship...or even a relationship in general. Of course sometimes you have to go day by day. Your best bet is to enjoy the positive things that have happened between you. If you do end up fighting again, dont get back into it, leave it be. There is no reson why you two couldnt meet up again in the future...Its not a matter of love, its a matter of time...and it seems to be the wrong time for both of you. Hope this helped in someway. Its late
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I did this once.. I wrote a personal, heartfelt letter and picked up two roses. I put the letter and one rose under her winshield wiper while she was at work. Then I sat accross the parking lot in my car and waited for her to find it. When I saw her drive off I called her cell, and she was in tears. She said she wanted to see me asap, so I told her I couldnt come see her at the moment. Needless to say she wasnt too happy about that. Then I proceeded to drive to her house and surprise her with another rose minutes after we hung up the phone....Twas a good night! Letters are great cause they are so personal. Also, have you met a girl who dosn't like flowers? A combo of the two is almost irresistible! Have some fun while your at it.
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I might forget you but never forgive I can relate to this part. Good stuff Gilgamesh!
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Some people act completely different when others are around. It's always a good idea to see how a potential bf/gf acts when put in differnet social positions. I would say her actions show you exactly what she wants, attention...whether it be yours or some random guys. Go find someone worthy of your time and effort .
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Try to surround yourself with new positive experiences. You must be able to love yourself before you can truly love others.