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  1. Iceman26
    Because you are being unfair to him by sharing intimacies with someone else. If you really liked and cared about him, you would tell him about what happened and see how where things go between the two of you from there. It's called honesty. How do you know you wouldn't do it again? Cheaters never really change their ways, not while they are still dating the person they cheated on anyways. How would you like it if he did that to you and didn't tell you? Would you think he "loved " you?
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    What a nightmare. I agree with Cecelius, drop the boyfriend, and drop Reid. You need to evaluate the relationship with your boyfriend, what you were unhappy with about him or the relationship or even yourself, take the appropriate measures to correct those mistakes, and move on. Dating + Co-workers = Disaster.
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    I would go and have a good time if I were you, unless you are a football fan because hell, I would rather be watching the games. If you see her there, then say hello, if not, relax and have a good time and mix it up in the mosh pit. As far as looking for her goes, I wouldnt actively look for someone who is a flake. Flakes are one of my biggest pet peeves.
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    Omega has it right, how many times have you heard other guys raving about blondes and Pamela Anderson look alikes?
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    I agree with DBL. The way he reacted kind of sounds like the way I would have reacted in the same situation. My translation of what he said to you is that it could be that maybe he really just doesnt want you to spend that much money and effort to see him graduate. I guess just try to look at what he said to you at face value. Give him a call when you are in the Bahamas and tell him how proud you are of him, I am sure that would mean a lot to him.
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    Good luck to you, hope all goes well.
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    I know my ex thinks about me alright. Haha I am sure my ex is telling stories about me to her "guy friend" she ditched me for, going on dates with him and laughing about what she did to me during pillow talk.
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    Man this is simple. Go talk to her and tell her you have feelings for and you were initally scared of your feelings but you really want to be with her. If you dont, you will always wonder what could have been.
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    I agree with Ballys. This post only reassures my viewpoint that I am not going to date girls with any guy friends anymore.
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    Yeah you may be right, I read it a while ago.
  11. Iceman26
    I read somewhere that the average guy is 5 inches long.
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    You are welcome for the advice, anytime. Well, as you get comfortable dating again, the embarrassment will lessen. School is a good place to meet girls, and there are plenty more of them there. I know what you mean about it being a rush. Its funny because now I am older I look at dating now that I am single and I'm like "oh man, here we go again".
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    Dude just be normal to her in class, act like it never happened. You win some, you lose some, you know? Don't let a situation like that get the best of you, be proud that you had the guts to say something to her, just fine tune your approach next time. When she said she was dating someone you could have said "Whats your man got to do with me?" lol I know how it is man being back in the dating game after a hiatus man, I just got played 3 weeks ago by my gf of 2 years. I met this new girl last weekend and got her number, and we keep talking after I get the number and she says she has a lot of guy friends and she's really busy all the time. I was thinking to myself "Then why the hell did you give me the number" Oh well, looks like we are both starting are at square one again Rapid. Have another high life for me.
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    Well the only thing you can do is cross your finger, hope for the best, and wait until Sunday I guess. Let me know how it goes.
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    That sucks dude. Well hopefully you will be able to talk with her on Sunday and find out what the next step with that is as well. I have known some girls where their period was delayed because of stress, but I dont know how long it was delayed.
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    I think that men and women are pretty equal when it comes to cheating nowadays. I think its easier to hate and place blame on the opposite sex than to realize that you met a bad apple, or a few bad apples for that matter. I got jilted 3 weeks ago by the woman I thought I was going to marry, and I wanted to hate women because I felt like I had wasted four years of my twenties on dumb insecure women. But then I realized that you are going to date and meet people that cheat, lie, etc to you in life, because if that didn't happen to you, you would never really appreciate the good, honest, loyal, and trustworthy people that you meet, date, and (hopefully!) marry one day.
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    I would say in going away to college, that anything is possible. You guys could date other people, or you could stay together, it depends on the two of you and how you deal with campus life and what you both want, you know?
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    Cool, she contacted you. Keep it that way Switch. Make her contact you, keep yourself busy like you have been. If you keep playing the hard to get role, she will come after you. And after all the time off she is needed, I am sure it will feel good to you to have her come after you as well, you know? Out of curiosity, how late is her monthly bill?
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    How old is she?
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    I agree with Ray. Meet him in a public place, and have him meet you out front of wherever you are going to meet up so you can see if this guy is legit. Be sure to let your friends know at some point in the night that you are ok. What your parents don't know, won't hurt them.
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    Hey Switch, I would wait it out if I were you man. There is too much confusion going on in her part for you to pursue her like you have been. I know you really care for her, but back off of it. I say wait until Sunday. She knows you called, and hasnt made the effort to get back in touch with you. It sounds like you are going in circles here.....things are going fine, you guys are together again, etc, then she gets weird and wants space. I think its time you made a stand and don't call her. And a last little tidbit of advice: Don't talk to her mom about your relationship. Period. Keep whatever difficulties you have with your girlfriend between the two of you. She is obviously close with her mother, which means anything you tell her mom will be repeated to your girlfriend. Why do you keep agreeing to giving her space when thats not what you want for yourself?
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    You really can't tell a player just by looking at him. But if you pay attention to his habits, his friends, what he does on the weekends, how he speaks to you, etc, that will give you some kind of an indication what kind of person he most likely is. I think you have the right idea, get to be his friend first and see where it goes from there.
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    First of all to Foz - We are all here to give advice and to help each other, and its not really cool if you tell people to ignore other people's perspectives and opinions. If you dont think I haven't been through heartbreak recently, check out "Need advice about girlfriend going out with guy friend" in the infidelity forum. Now, to our friend Steve, All people can really do here is offer you their advice, ultimately, the decision on what you do and how you do it is up to you. Remember life is short. Take some time to yourself to grieve, and if she calls, then great, if not, well, you seem like a good guy who deserves good things. Good luck
  24. Iceman26
    Well artists that help me write are Depeche Mode, The Smiths, Morrissey, Joy Division, Dave Matthews Band, Dido, INXS, U2, Coldplay, Nine Inch Nails. I would say those artists help inspire me to write songs. I would suggest taking a break every once in a while to stop the blisters.
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    Yeah but most women will say its the width more than the length.
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