HaloDestroyer
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Nawww man, if you do that, you'll get a c*** job, and you won't be able to afford the new Zelda that's coming out on the GameCube. You need the maths. I don't care how. Try all the ways I said. JUST GET MATHS! Ok? Ben. XxX xXx *P.S., I'm gonna set my N64 up 'specially for you! I'll see what my percentage was... I think I had a few Poe's to catch, and the treasure chest *can't remember the real name!!* challenge to complete.*
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I've failed GCSE Maths twice.... I'm retaking it for the third time!! I just can't get it right... But, it shows, even if you fail... you can always re-take, if it really comes down to it.... Get a tutor... study for it! YOU NEED MATHS!! Ben. XxX xXx *Ocarina Of Time, on the N64, RULES!! \M/ >.
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Me and my partner enjoy..... kinky.... activities, and neither of us were abused or harmed in any way.... Not that I had a happy childhood, but still... Ben. XxX xXx
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NinjaLink.... (Zelda fan?!) Why not try to discuss this *In a strictly mature manner* with your Maths teacher? If you explain it in exactly the words you used here, I'm sure she'll provide you with a satisfactory alternative solution! Ben. XxX xXx
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She loves me but will marry him...
HaloDestroyer replied to rooophy's topic in Getting Back Together
Another sad case..... These are really difficult, in my experience... The best and only thing you can do right now... Is to talk to her.... Tell her how you feel... That it'll kill you if she marries this other guy... But tell her you'll always be there for her... And you have to do just that... Keep in touch, do what you would usually do... If she won't give in, let her marry this guy, and then wait 'til she realises her true feelings, and comes back to you... You'll be in my thoughts... Good luck, my friend. Ben. XxX xXx -
Dirtbubble, I agree with the first part of your message... The whole system is unfair to men in that respect... But if I was her husband... And she DIDN'T tell me.... I can't describe what I'd do on these forums.... It's not pretty... Ben. XxX xXx
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Ask him if he minds you seeing women.... I know I wouldn't mind... I'd probably want in!! Ben. XxX xXx
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Tea, I'm sorry to disagree with you.... Well, actually I'm not... I've seen your advice around the forums... You're a good, reliable person, from what I can gather. But this woman... She doesn't deserve anything. She's cheated... And she's trying to get out of paying the inevitable consequences. As a Paladin (Judge, Jury, and Executioner) might say, all that's left for her is to receive her sentence... Ben. XxX xXx
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I feel very strongly on the issue of infidelity, especially when it's the female partner. I really think you should gather the shattered remains of your emotions, and leave her. C'mon dude, this woman is taking you for a RIDE! You LET her hold hands, and generally get down with this other guy? You DON'T have to listen to her. You DON'T have to give in to her demands! Firstly, how old are your kids? If they're old enough... I might explain the situation to them. If they're not, I'd hope for the best in a divorce court. Good luck, my friend. Ben. XxX xXx
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Cecelius has got it exactly right. Well done! XxX xXx
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It depends on the relationship... Some are born out of sex, and if yours is one of these, then go for it, if you haven't already!! However, if you're like most of us, and get stuck with a girl who has 'morals', 'feelings', and 'emotions' *Just joking ladies!!*, it's going to take a bit longer!! Frustrating, huh? Ben. XxX xXx
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Hey, I have a couple of Haiku that I'd like you guys to R&R for me! *** Venomous Droplets, Flowing Tears Down Silver Glades, Pure Ovals Of Pain. *** Blood Flows Like Water, Life Essense Ebbing Away, I Fall To My Knees. *** Death. Does every soul not Cry your name wistfully, for You hold the power. Legend or lost cause, They will all kneel in time, to You and Fate alike. Skeletal Image - A cloaked shroud on ethereal steed Comes to claim what's his. Deep glowing red orbs, They see no remorse, only Guide the claw that wields The sword of heartbreak, Destruction and mayhem are His lethal trademark. He relishes in The creation of lost souls, For that is his art. He caters for those Who wish relief from pain, or Are just curious. His doom-bearing scythe, Slakes the thirst of those who are Really suffering. *** That's it.... Could I have some opinions on each one, maybe pros and cons, please!? XxX xXx Ben.
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Another.... not to put too fine a point on it..... disgraceful occurrence... I'm sorry, but I really have a problem with people who have affairs, and then want to return to their normal lives afterwards. I think that firstly, you should tell your husband. Definitely. This poor guy needs to know. I'm not trying to judge you... But the fact that people who have affairs refer to it as 'cheating', suggests that they may, sub-consciously or not, believe their whole marriage a game. Some may even consider it a minor inconvieniance... I also agree with Sherelock... If you've already committed, how likely is it that you'll..... re-offend? You definitely need to talk to your husband about this. Work something out, and try to get over it... Ben. XxX xXx
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lol, if you're in the U.K., the Anne-Summers website does a lot of that stuff... I like womens lingerie too.... but on women.... lol Ben. XxX xXx
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What I meant was.... What gives you the idea that he would be interested in anyone but you? Are there any particular things you've noticed, which seem slightly out of place? Little things... Little 'breaks' in his normal routine... If he isn't interested in intimacy, then get intimate with him... If he's still not interested... That's a BAD sign... Ben. XxX xXx
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If you do that, then she might get scared, think that you're moving way to fast, and break up with you... Women especially do it a lot... It's called a knee-jerk reaction. You should just pay her lots of attention... Never push her to do anything.... Especially in public *Tongue firmly in cheek, but I DO mean kissing!*. Hope it helps. Ben. XxX xXx
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Just looking at your message; I know it's slightly tempting... But I can't believe you'd even consider this... Personally, by having this relationship, I believe you've already committed an absolute, dishonest act towards your 'great' husband, and kids. In these situations, I think people should take a big step back, take a deep breath, and just look; Your family.... Your 'great' kids and husband. Or some overweight guy who really sounds like he just wants a F*** buddy. I know you'll do what's right and just in the end... Ben. XxX xXx
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Do you suspect someone of cheating on you? Telltale signs could include a decline in eye-contact, or, your partner may be quieter than usual. They may go out, and not tell you where they've been.... Inventing a lame excuse? Also, strangely, they may take more showers than usual. These are just things I noticed... I'm sure there are more, but these are generalised. Ben. XxX xXx
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A question on the dumper getting intouch
HaloDestroyer replied to miss_dyme's topic in Breaking Up Advice
Well, I think it's fair to say that while they actually may have genuine feelings for you, generally the Ex just wants to smooth things over, on get on with his/her life. -
Definitely, what NinjaLink is saying is 100% accurate! Do keep friends with this girl, and just hold on.... That special person WILL come around one day. Asmodai (40K fan!?), it might be painful, but at least you had a go, right? At least you had the chance that 99.99% (Sorry, I stole your percentage, NinjaLink!) of us are presented with, but never take advantage of, and then regret it. Well done for trying, and just hold on for the right person... You'll know when they come into your life... Ben. XxX xXx
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..... Damn.... Thanks everyone..... It's great that so many people have helpful advice.... But.... I did it again..... FFS, I don't even know why I'm doing it anymore!! This is just getting worse and worse... I passed out from bloodloss... I can see something real bad happening next time... Am I just too stupid to listen, or too far gone to care? XxX xXx
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I wear long-sleeved shirts to hide the cuts... I don't like talking about it... In the back of my mind, there's a small nagging voice, telling me I'm just doing it all for attention, and I'm living a lie, and all sorts of weird crap... I also can't sleep easily... It's 1:56 AM here... I think this is all going to end badly... I fear.... the worst... I don't know, I don't care anymore anyway... XxX xXx P.S. Thanks for your help everyone!!
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g/f being harrased by a gang leader
HaloDestroyer replied to pandorasbox's topic in Relationship Advice
This sort of scum is rascist, nationalist, and belongs to the social 'elite' *I.E. scum of the U.K.* group, known as 'Townies', or 'Chavs'. A problem oft encountered, because these people think that while they have their 'gangs' or 'crews' around them, they can do anything they want to anything/anyone. I myself lead a similar 'crew'. Although, we are the exact opposite. My 'gang' comprises of goths and rockers, and we do everything we can to keep these people in check. *I like violence *^_^** The 'Chavs' wear lots of Nike, Adidas, and listen to weird R'n'B-style rap music. In this case, I wouldn't start taking a martial arts class.... I would, however, recommend boxing... *I'm a blackbelt in both Kendo and ZenChaun, so me putting down martial arts is a big thing!!* Either kick this guys' ass... Or get your girl away from there... fast... Just tell someone.. XxX xXx -
Thank you, everyone.... I wish I could stop doing it... How is it that I can be... addicted... to cutting? Not just cutting, I mean, I didn't just cut... I slashed open my wrists... Where does self-harming stop, and suicidal begin? Ben. XxX xXx
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Firstly, thanks for all of your replies... I play the guitar.... and I airsoft... so I'm not short of other ways to express myself.... I write poetry, and prose... But... I don't know... some sort of fog clouds my judgement, removing that single inhibition, and I pick up the razor.... And... It goes on from there.... Elle, it doesn't relax me.... The pain takes me focus from the confusion in my head.. The confliction... the stress. I guess I'm too busy bleeding to feel my heart snapping in half, again, and again... Ben. XxX xXx