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boredguy

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  1. agreed here as well... he must have done a good job of hiding his feelings if u dont even know anything...
  2. you arent a bad guy. different ppl have different opinions of fun, and it doesnt seem as if you and your girlfriends ideas match. she probably feels guilty because she didnt think there was anything wrong with the relationship. although, having a relationship where you dont have any conversations or fun....? seems quite dull. i agree and support your decision, and she should see your side of the argument and realise that she is better off without you.
  3. totally agreed with jopo, love is like WANTING to give up anything just to see a smile on her face. not being able to get her out of ur head. and smiling for no reason just when u think of her. feeling like you're about to burst if u dont scream or laugh.... truly this is one feelin that is absolutely indescribable! let those who think love is a chemical reaction chew on that!
  4. home is where the heart is I dunt care for the money I dunt care fer the fame so long as im home ill stay de same stay sane same like me de usual me the unusual forreal surreal thats me insane inane but its'all good so long as im home where ma heart is
  5. wow..thats one sad poem... yet it seems to be like a cry from the soul...as they say: poetry is the language of the soul..
  6. there are two possibilities here: one. that the girl likes you as more than a friend, but loves you as a friend, and is very scared to lose that, as a lot of us are. two. the girl does not think of you as more than a friend. but cares a lot about u as a friend and needs you as a friend. hence she doesnt 'want' you to have feelings for her because she is afraid that it may endanger wat u have, which is a good friendship. The only thing you need to know is which one it is, and then proceed from there. remember! communication is the only way to go!
  7. man, i reallly like the way you make the poem flow...its really smooth writing. keep it up
  8. when a girl is drunk to the point of passing out, it isnt morally right to take advantage of her. the person/(s) who would do this basically have low self-esteem and probably dont care at all about the girl. the 'right' thing for the guy to do if the girl is so drunk would be to take her home. but of course, we dont live in a perfect world.
  9. well ovulation (ovum=egg) is the maturation and release of an egg into one of the females fallopian tubes, where it is to be fertilized. the time of month when the egg is in the fallopian tube is the time when it is most likely for a female to get pregnant.
  10. i knw the feeling. my best friend is a girl and basically everyone seems to think we are a couple. even though we both have our own respective gf/bf. having a lot of things in common with a girl can be a problem at times for a guy...lol. common: shes an avid poster here on enotalone too. but it shouldnt matter what ppl think though. hang around like u would with any friend. its all a matter of how comfortable u feel. even if ppl do start to think of you two as more than friends, let them be. sooner or later they all realise you are just friends. you dont need to be careful of how close you get to your friend or something just because u might get funny looks or smthin of the sort. if ur comfortable wih it, do it.
  11. its quite obvious that something that u dont knw about has suddenly happened on his end. perhaps someone forbade him from seeing you or something of the sort. It seems to me that he might be trying to make you hate him. why is beyond me. as usual, with jus about every problem on enotalone, uve got to try and talk to him. before you can get into an indepth talk about what and why, u should probably extend a hand of friendship slowly. go ahead, talk to him and see how it works.
  12. i agree with ragingbull her traumatic past has left her severely emotionally scarred. I understand you want to be there for her, but u also need to get her some professional help. she needs it. alongwith that you can help her by simply being there for her
  13. there are a number of reasons why you may not be pregnant. it could be anything from fertility issues to leftover bc hormones. i suggest talking to a fertility clinic and having them give you and your boyfriend a thorough chek up.
  14. i agree with goddess. my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 months now, and we dont get that many dates. its hard for us because our parents dont approve of dating (culture stuff) plus our parents are friends... we've known each other as friends for about 3 years so we know each other quite well. sometimes it may seem hard, but hanging around in groups with friends is a way to date without being someone you're not. usually when with friends, ppl naturally act like who they are. being who you are with your gf is a good thing right?
  15. i agree with muneca uve had it pretty tough, and you and your mom have been strong. theres nothing much you can do for your father now but be with him til the end. Maybe you should try and get in contact with your newly-found siblings. it might be easier to have some more family for support. I do understand that this is probably a very hard thing to do....but maybe you should try...
  16. emotion, puts me in motion i dont know why i seem to cry its like the world is screwed over theres no place to go hell seems cold maybe i should go warm it up odd emotions flow thru me today making me blabber crap i never would say this is this that is that they aint ever the same so dont mix em up like dat
  17. I really liked it, its very deep and imaginitive. yet its so sad it seems to be asking for death again and again...
  18. really amazin poem...this is one of those few poems that you read again and again and every time u get a different understanding. seems like ill be mulling over it now and then. really great! keep it up !
  19. every guy has his own tastes, and there is no real size breasts 'should' be. every person is different in his/her own way and breasts are just one of those things that are different for everyone.
  20. awesome poem Emptysoul! its deep, yet sad. you're a real wielder of the words!
  21. there are a lot of types of love actually. platonic and romantic for example. platonic is the kind of love you have for a brother or mother or just a really close friend. romantic on the other hand is the kind of love we hear about the most i.e. for a sweetie. the phrase 'i love you' can mean either of these. it is upto the person/(s) to decide what kind of love it really is.
  22. many a precious thing is lost by losing control and hot heads. im sure her friendship is very precious to you so you've got to find some way of cooling down when you hit those sensitive spots. tell her you dont mean to be angry; take deep breaths and talk. because you have to realise that she didnt tell you about your gf at the time because you might think she was jealous or smthihng of the sort. you have to let her know that she can talk to you. but you also need to know for yourself that you can trust her to tell you things like that. so simply put - calm down n talk. you dont want to lose anything special.
  23. yep. it pretty much seems like you're in love. its probably very hard because of the distance though. obviously, you'll have to close the distance sooner or later. who knows? maybe the chance will come. jus wait. n be happy in the meantime
  24. darkness prevails? light still exists have some hope life is a twist happiness is glum sadness is merry dont take life in such a hurry stop n smile there is no dark just the absense of light there is no sad just the absense of happy to be, to see, the world around me is a gift i dont take lightly i wish; i hope i never let an oppurtunity pass me by for life is a journey where one cannot walk, one must fly!
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