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  1. boredguy
    I think that the connection is much more important that the sexual attraction, although the sexual attraction is also needed for a healthy relationship. Its all about how they are balanced out, that makes for a strong relationship.
  2. boredguy
    lol...ah the happy days..... i need to get a gf...hmm..lmfao...arite man u have fun n take care
  3. boredguy
    lol arite man looks like u got the girl! now ask her out !
  4. boredguy
    I dont mean to usurp the thread, but how bout guys, do ladies prefer it trimmed/shaved/au naturale ? I trim, but merely for hygiene and comfort reasons
  5. boredguy
    im a little confused, what exactly did she say 'yes or no'/excuses?
  6. boredguy
    so what do you think? are you going to ask her out? or is there still some discrepancy in your head about it?
  7. boredguy
    It sounds as though you and her have a lot in common and seem to like each other. It seems as though u two hit it off really well. i dont think you would be risking yuor friendship, because u already told her how u feel about her, so asking her out is obviously simply the next step. edit: btw. u said it was COLD @ 20 degrees? u mean fahrenheit...i hope u mean fahrenheit...cuz if u think 20 celcius is cold ur gonna have a canadian pointin and laffin at u 8)
  8. boredguy
    I agree with annie24. uve got nothing to lose, and everything to gain. Just send him an email and chat. see where it goes from there.
  9. boredguy
    hey man. whoever the guy is its not fully his fault, its more the girls fault that the guys. I mean, she had the guts to simply tell u she was seeing other guys. you dont deserve that man. forget her. move on. its easier said than done, i know. but the way she treated you shouldnt make you even give two [Profanity Removed by Moderator]. this girl did somethign completely unacceptable, and u knw wat she deserves? i dont. but i do know what she doesnt deserve. you. leave her. move on with your life. do the things u like doing. hang out with ur buds. be you.
  10. boredguy
    Obviously, the flirting is a good way to let her know you are interested. but u also need to show her that you care a lot abotu her, in ways more than just as a friend. u need to do thoughtful little things that just everyone wouldnt do for her. ( bring her soup when shes sick) stuff like that. show her that she is important to you, and occupies a special place in ur heart. It means that she is trying to find out how much u care about her. The 'right' answer to this question would be to tell her how much you would not want to think about her dying because its hard to imagine life without her of course, you should probably tell her what you actually might tell her if, god forbid, she was dying. u could say how much you care and how she has made ur life.....stuff like that. personal stuff that relates to you two. well obviously shes flirting with you dude! It sounds as though she likes you too. a little more flirting and then it should be time to let her in on the secret. that u like her. and then tell her how you want to be more than just friends...so on and so forth. comprende?
  11. boredguy
    hey man thats really deep. totally luvin it.
  12. boredguy
    \ hey i jus read this....kinda like my post above aint it?
  13. boredguy
    hmm heres one. after 7 months of being in a relationship. not a perfect relationship, but not a completely messed up one either; the girl acts weird a lot of one day. i ask her 'do u wanna talk about soemthing?'. nothing happens. later at nite i receive an email saying: 'im sorry if i led u on, but i thought we were jus ppl who liked each other, not bf/gf.' mind you this is right out of the blue. we had fun, talked on the fone for hours, hung out with common friends. and BOOM i get an EMAIL. not a call not in person a friggin EMAIL. sayin IT NEVER HAPPENED???!! well where the hell did 7 months of my life go?
  14. boredguy
    If u like him, yet want to turn him down, then its a good idea to let him know that u like him. turning him down without letting him know would lead to problems later on. If you do like him, and are probably willing to go out with him later down the road in life, then tell him that yes, you like him too, but you would rather go to this particular dance just with a bunch of friends, and he is welcome to join. also, could u make clear ur feelings fer this guy plz?
  15. boredguy
    a lot of times it is hard for a guy to get off by just oral sex, but handjobs usually do the trick. perhaps u should ask the girl to use lube? that tends to make it easier to get off.
  16. boredguy
    well its good in a bittersweet way to know that im not the only one here. Its really hard to understand sometimes and really hard to know why. try as hard as one might, its reaslly hard to let things go or let things be. sometimes it comes back as dreams or merely a daydream that u didnt kno was happening. fantasies that make u literally slap urself. (no joke. i actually slapped myself in the head a couple of times) completely frustrating. does it fade? sometimes i really hope it does, but then at other times i like it. it feels as though giving in would feel so good. but then u realise u shudnt. its like fighting tempation. but its not exactly temptation. its more of a battle inside oneself.
  17. boredguy
    Delaurence23, man....YOU are GOOD. you have some real talent man! ive seen a lot of your posts, and they have never failed to amaze me. keep it up man, keep it up !
  18. boredguy
    Im just wondering. How many people have ever had feelings towards people that they simply couldnt explain. feelings towards friends, feelings towards acquaintances? How many of you people have had feelings that you sometimes simply DONT want to have, yet they somehow sneak up on you? Feelings that seem wrong, but if u give in to them, so right? Feelings that make you do things you have never done before, life write poetry, or appreciate nature. feelings that make you want to be nicer to the world, to appreciate the world and everything around it. Has anyone else ever felt this? ............................................
  19. boredguy
    no problem man, thats what we're all here for!
  20. boredguy
    lol...hey amethyst, i read over the thread again, yeah ur right ( stereotypically speaking: do women get that a lot from guys? ) But anyways. u are right, its better to lose a friend than family, and geobronc may just be crossing the line emotionally. I seemed be concentrating on thwe aspect of how much a friend means to someone, but i forgot how much more important a wife and a family is. .... Well...I do hope Geobronc shows up sometime...lol. we aint raggin on ya geobronc! jus playin!
  21. boredguy
    I agree with princess81, be who u are. sometimes our friends arent into the same things we are. so what? sometimes ill let my friends in on some info that i find absolutely fascinating, and they'll jus be like...uh...wtf? Its OK. friends are friends because of who you are, not because of what you can talk about. funny story..once i was trying to explain the theory of quantum universes (i like different stuff) to my friend while we were playing pool. he got so confused to what i saw saying and so bugged, he shot the cue ball straight into the tray of the waitress walking by!
  22. boredguy
    i agree with most of what you said, except for this. He may save his marriage, but from what we have read, he speaks of his marriage in a less than perfect way. also, i find it funny that we are arguing, and this person is nowehere to be found...lol maybe hes in a different time zone...
  23. boredguy
    hey bilal, I understand what you are talking about, ive heard many a complaint from friends and family about discrimination in north america. u seem to have a strong deen, but what you need to achieve is a combination of deen and duniya, if u will. you need to realise that people are afraid of that which they do not understand. If they make you angry, remember that it is all they can do, because they are afraid of what they do not udnerstand. they do not understand that the reason for hijab is merely to preserve modesty. they do not realise what it means to do something sunnah, like leave a beard. IF they ask, you simply tell them. i.e. why is your sister wearing that scarf? answer: to preserve her modesty. she would rather not show herself. it is her choice. balance, my friend, that is the key. balance of deen and duniya. and patience. u have to be patient with those that do not understand.
  24. boredguy
    wow...beautiful...it reminds me of someone i know too.
  25. boredguy
    Amethyst, i agree that he 'should' nip the temptation in the bud, but is it really worth losing a good friend? to me, friendship is an integral part of life.
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