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hmm good point... i was thinking more along the lines of 'whered my friend whoz always around go?' but yeah...uve got a valid point DN

make him miss you, by not always being there. dont always be around the corner when hes looking for you. be hard to find, n u'll be hard to get.

another piece comes to u from chemistry class, where i have nothing to do. The stars twinkled majestically as they sat on the soft grass, under a canopy of pure beauty clouded over by the lights of the city. She slowly slid closer as he put his arm around her in a soft pseudo-embrace. "Lets forget the past," she said, "lets start anew." He thought for a moment, then realized he did not want to want to forget the bittersweet pain he had gone through to experience this moment. "No," he said, "let's not forget, lets continue what I once began." "I'm sorry," she replied, "I was so blind." A soft breeze blows by the two friends as they huddle closer for warmth and for the mere sake of being there in that moment in time. "Its time to live our lives as they were meant to be; together." He whispered softly into her ear. She smiled slowly, that very smile that haunted him for so many years, yet brought him through the hardest times in his life. Seeing that smile directed at him and only him sent a shiver of warmth all through his body. His broken heart mended, he held her closer, never wanting to let her go. She smiled again, with the knowledge that she will never be heartbroken ever again. As she gazed up at his eyes, he lost himself in hers, two deep brown pools of hazy mystery unfolding to him. He placed his hand under her chin and raised her face ever so slightly. As he caressed her cheek with the gentle touch only a lover could have, they slowly moved closer, still gazing into each other eyes. Unblinking; wanting to remember every second of this moment. Their eyes closed, shutting out the world so their lips could make love; gently, slowly, savoring every second. After what seemed like only seconds, they released their lips from their passionate embrace. They sat, in silence. The most comfortable silence either of them had ever felt, showering them with a sense of fulfillment. A lone tear rolled down his cheek, puzzling her. "Why?" she asked, as she wiped it away. Looking deeply into her eyes, he replied "I've never had a dream come true before, I didn't know what else to do." She smiled as tears began to roll down her cheeks as well. With content smiles on their faces, they cried unto each other in silence. A light snow dusted down from the heavens, as a soft breeze blew upon the two friends.

U? Optimistic!??! lol jus playin...dont hurt mee

shes2smart, that sounds like true golden friendship to me. I must say, even the best of friends go through hard times. How well we come through these times is a measure of the magnitude of the friendship. sometimes it can seem like you are losing your best friend, but its always prudent to never lose hope. If they are a true friend, they will come back. and if they dont, then remember the good times youve shared over the years and remember them by that.

Forgive, but never forget. simple. effective.

meh IMO (in my opinion lol ) abbreviations are just for lazy ppl. and hey i am de king of lazy...heh ask goddess23...

you know...that is a really great philosphy...i never thought of it that way. now that i see it, i see im makin the same mistakes u did...hmm i guess its time to take a look at myself again...

hey ive been thru the poking and prodding from friends about dating a girl 2 yrs younger. its just good natured fooling around. they stop after a while. and as annie24 said, if u really connect, then dont let a number stop u.

well sitting down seems like a good way, but sometimes moments arise without places to sit right? how about if u grabbed his collar/shirt watever and pulled him down to ur level and then let him have it. he will be pretty surprised and that will make it even more fun.

heh yeah edudlooc13, bein single kinda sucks at these moments. and Caldus, ur so right. a lil silliness goes a long way.

Alright, purely understandable. Lets take the flirting then. If a man flirts with a woman, it usually means one thing. attraction. if he indeed is attracted to u in that way, then that puts you in a tight spot. but we have to remember that here we are just speculating, we dont know what is in his head. the best advice I believe would be to bring it up with him. bmake it clear that you are uncomfortable with being anything but platonic, and that u want to know where this is going and what he really wants from your relationship. agree/disagree?

well the main thing physically that really attracts me to a woman is the way they smile. i mean, eyes are a big thing, but for me when a person smiles, it speaks volumes. theres something about a slim (but not anorexic liek metallicaguy said) thats jus hypnotizing. personality traits : i love talking to a woman with whom i can discuss things on a mature level. i have a love for conversation. someone who laughs when i crack jokes that are funny, and tells me to shut up playfully when they arent. someone who wont take me for granted, because i would never take her for granted. someone who appreciates it when show signs of affection like a random flower, or a poem. well thats bout it...great...now i feel all depresset bout bein single...

what exactly do you mean by this?

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ive always liked this one : -master yoda hey so what if hes a lil green man. he still makes sense rite?

dude, ive been thru the same thing u have. i ended up losing a very close friend. its not too late for you. just let him see thru another persons eyes what he is doing. he may not realise it. trust me, it isnt that bad yet. whats bad is this: "Oh im sorry, i cant make it to ur bday party, my gf has work" but listen. jus calmly explain to him whats going on. SHOW him his blogs. ask him to show u a few or hell, even ONE where its him hangin ot with his friends. just be calm and u should get through to him.

hmm i have to say this is the first time i have seen a post with a female who fell for the male. i always thought us males were the ones who cracked first....sorry im not really helpin...jus an observation.

it doesnt take skill? i should go try it... once it stops snowin that is...

i would have to agree with DN, you really need to stop and think about what YOU want. and please be careful how u throw the word 'love' around. it can mean many things. you could love him as just a friend. you really need to make that distinction. also, since this 'other guy' popped in, its really hard to believe that the word 'love' applies to fred. btw, im sorry if im a lil blunt. sometimes u need to be.

lol ...thats just wat i was thinkin al7... but honestly, most would say married for love, but how bout this. "did u marry someone u loved, or marry someone you were IN love with? " ah hah! put that in ur pipe and dont smoke it...ull get cancer...

yeah ive never really kissed a girl (well i dont think a brush once counts) i had a gf for almost 5 months n we didnt do anything but hold hands....hell im 16...not 6...but yeah. Shinobie man, jus let it be. think of it this way, as shysoul said, we are waitin fer that special someone who will take our breath away. we are jus waitin. they say good things come to those who wait. so i guess the more u wait, the better "it" is huh? jus live ur life man, do wat i do: nothing. dont give it a thought. ive got girl*space*friends and my boyz are always there to chill with. jus chill n be urself, the special lady fer u will come along eventually.

dude, if u do end up asking her out. dont be like 'wanna catch a movie sometime' be specific eh. but yeah good luck man !

well how bout u think of some cool places near where the coffee place u plan on going is. im talking about places that arent cliche like movies or stuff. think big man! lemme give u an example. theres a tim hortons nearby(tim hortons=big coffee chain fer u non canadians ) now near this place, theres a lil road that leads off. if u get the right angle u can see an entire valley under you, almost. but u get what im sayin rite? someplace that will really stick in her memory. someplace out of the ordinary. take ur coffee to go! go for a walk thru the park or smthin. make in interestin.

an online friend is still a friend. its harder than a normal friendship, agreed. but somtimes these friendships go on fer a bit. ive made friends in chat rooms and have kept em for years. ppl halfway around the world. there still friends and many are really good ones at that.