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  1. boredguy
    well I believe that NC is the choice to go with if u plan on pretty much cutting your ex out of your life. If u want to be friends with your ex, or perhaps get back together with them, then the better choice would be what i call LC (less contact) its not complete 'no contact', rather much less contact than would normally occur between the two of you. LC allows both members of the relationship that once was to find themselves and do things for themselves while also keeping a little contact with each other and being congenial at the very least. wat do u guys think of that method?
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    the allusion is amazin. black blood...never would have thought of that...keep it up!
  3. boredguy
    i really like it, especially the very last lines. beautiful!
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    understatement ?
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    hey bro, it sounds like you did what everyone has told u to do, and yet u seem to be in a cul-de-sac wonderin what the...? rite? well listen man, just relax. it sounds liek u are in the jobs and meeting ppl with one thing on ur mind, to find someone let that thought out of ur head. instead focus more on having fun as opposed to hoping that someone cute is watchin. jsut relax and be you the rest will come naturally. i knw this must sound like posts uve read before, but the key is to just want to have fun, and when not if you find that girl that catches your fancy, then turn on that charm uve got all charged up inside, u dog u lol. relax man take it easy. hope i helped
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    I think we all have done some pretty crazy things in our lives. i broke my arm in two places and had to get surgery and metal implanted into it ebcause i fell off a jungle gym when i was 13...that was stupid... everytime ppl from skool ehar the story theyre like 'oh ur THAT guy!" .. its funny. but the thing to realise is, we all do clumsy things, and the best thing to do is just to laff it off. if the world laffs at u laff bak at it harder. corny soundin i knw, but trust me i get made fun of a lot cuz of my 1st name (no im not tellin but i live through it with a few laffs.
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    no not at all charlotte, we cannot tell you whether he loves you or not, the only person who can tell u that is him. just stick by him, and be supportive, eventually he will get over this phase and he will be able to speak his feelings.
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    It seems as though most of our minds have been influenced by the media to believe that love conquers all. Love is great, but we are all still human and we all have our weaknesses. be they mental, physical, or spiritual, they are there nonetheless. blaming someone for being in love and not being able to do something isnt really the best choice of thigns to do. we are all human. love does make a person do crazy things, but its not like spinach for popeye, and it cant make a person superman. sometimes, we have to get the harsh reality, that love itself isnt enough. sorry...my post sounds liek a real downer...but sometimes reality hurts rite?
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    looking on the internet for such things is really not a good idea. u can go get the emergency contraception pill from a doctor or a clinic. usually if u ask them to, they will keep it confidential. and please, do not try ur own forms of emergency contraception, 90% of the time they cause more harm than good.
  10. boredguy
    wow thats really deep. i love it
  11. boredguy
    arite heres a 16 yr old guys opinion. most guys in our age group are pretty much lured by sexual attraction at first. but u cant really generalize because there are many guys that would want a girl with more substance than jus a piece of arm candy. basically, it depends on the individual. dont stress out. i knw its hard, it seems as though u dont fit in if ur single, but honestly, thats bs. theres nothign wrong with being single in high school. ur barely 15, dont sweat it. theres many many dating years to come. just relax, be yourself. do the things you love, and eventually someone will come along. just take it easy.
  12. boredguy
    its a really deep poem. u seem to have the same slight problem that i have with my poetry...use of cliche... apparently the use of such cliche makes the poem lose much of its value. i knw cuz i have the exact same line in a poem of mine that a professional poet/now friend read and gave me advice on.
  13. boredguy
    great message. life goes on. Its too bad there are many people who dont understand that in time.
  14. boredguy
    i agree with goddess in the sense that it is a combination of the two, but theres more to it that just that of course. once fate does drop a potential partner into our proverbial laps its up to us to further that. right? so its kind of like a tag team. u do the things u like to do, and have fun. eventually a guy/girl will come along that will catch your fancy, and from there its up to U to work on the relationship-to-be.
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    Sounds liek hes starting to go pretty deep into a depression. it would be a good idea to hang out with him and do stuf with him. remind him of all the fun times he had before he had a girlfriend. eventually, given the time u spend together, he should start to open up and talk more about it, which should in turn help him feel better.
  16. boredguy
    well honestly u need to evaluate in your own mind if its worth taking the risk of losing your friend. u may not lose her, but u have to answer the question . is it worth risking ur friendship over?
  17. boredguy
    actually herpes is not transmitted only thru sex. u knw wat they say..better safe than sorry right?
  18. boredguy
    I have experienced somethign to the same degree. there are always these few people that are simply annoying. most people come right out and tell em to get lost. but people like u n me, we laff and smile and pretend that we dont mind them. now this gives them the idea that u are their friend. they start to become more and more clingy. its raelly not easy to get away from these people because, essentially they have dont nothing wrong, merely tried to be friends albeit in a very forceful way, but nonetheless it happened. just try and be nice to her, but not too nice. yu dont have to laff at every joke shes sez, or agree with every whacko notion that comes out of her mouth. try it.
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    it sounds a lot liek herpes simplex. get to ur doctor and get urself cheked out. its erally the only thing u can do.
  20. boredguy
    ow man...thats a really painful story. jus wanna say, we are here for you. the best thing for you to do would be to concentrate on living your life and focusing on ur career and ur son, toddlers are amazingly fun to play with. (think 6 foot guy playing pattycake with lil cuzin) Im sure it must hurt to see her in ur child, but u have to always remember that he is his own little person. and he will grow up to be an individual with his own thoughts and feelings. And whenever your mind drifts back to her, remember the good times that you have spent together with your son. Be strong man. Be strong, for Austin-Joshua.
  21. boredguy
    fear of loss. losing something precious.
  22. boredguy
    well bad_disease, the question is, when do we know we are capable of making level headed decisions. many times we can, as teenagers consider ourselves adults and make bad choices. we know we are making decisions, but its not until much after the choices have been made do we find out whether we made the right ones or the wrong ones. so 'when we are capable of making choices' is a really subjective term, it differs by individual...
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    I really like the way Jetta has put it, and I agree with her for the most part. I just want to add that most people believe that there is just one soulmate out here for every person. I beg to differ, in the sense that there are more than one soulmate out there for everyone. they are people you honestly and truly love. Jetta, you have hit it head on when u say that most ppl arent ready to recognize this person as their soulmate. It takes time to realize what we have, and those who let these things go before they realise it are truly the unlucky. another point i have to make is that a soulmate is not always a romantic partner. sometimes we can have really good friends who are our soulmates, just in different ways. so basically yeah a soulmate is someone who affects your life in a really big way positively, someone who is always there for you, someone you would take a bullet for, but someone who would take a bullet for you. that, my fellow enotaloners, is a soulmate. (of course theres more to add right..................?)
  24. boredguy
    the best medicated shampoo for dandruff i can recommend would be nuetrogena T-gel. the 2% or 3% bottles...really strong stuff. works well.
  25. boredguy
    [quote="streetraycerboy"WHY DO ADULTS BELIEVE (OUR PARENTS) THAT TEEN LOVE IS FAKE AND NON EXISTANT? I dont think there is one true answer for that, but the most likely explanation would be that parents see their kids as inexperienced and immature, and dont believe that they have the sense to make a correct decision when it comes to matters of the heart. They would also throw the statistics at you, about how many teenage couples break up. well hey we jus oughta throw bak the fact that half of all adult marriages end in divorce. right? But basically, they feel that their teenage kids are not mature enough to know what the feeling of love is. sometimes that may be true, but its too broad to be a generalization.
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