boredguy

DUDE U ROCK! lol i knw who im msgin when i get to that point where im literally hittin my head on the wall. thnx

well to tell u the truth...im not sure...ill ask the person who put it up though...i should really pay more attention in class....especcially chemistry teacher: "what is the number of electrons in the second p orbital?" me: "uh...yes!" 8) weak...io knw....lolz

i couldnt agree more. as guys society percieves us to be rockhearted and not feel any emotion(well show any outward emotion at least). But the fact of the matter is, we get hurt more than women because we are 'supposed' to keep our pain closed in and in a sense not feel that kind of pain at all. I personally believe that we are not truly men until we have felt the pain of losing love or the pain of unrequited love and all those types of pain that fall into this category. u knw wat i mean. i remember seeing someones sig, i really wish i could remember who u are. if u knw who u are...(yeah that makes a whole lot of sense) but this is it: "He who walks without a scar on his heart is not yet a man." that is so very true. whoevers sig that is. kudos to you! but bak to the point. the pain we as men feel is further magnified by having to hide it for society. i put forth this question. who is society? US. you and i. WE are society so WE have the power to change the views rite..? well thats my two pennies...or cents...watever...

eyah i agree with prosper, dont try any moves on her rite now. just be the best friend that u can be. provide emotional support for her, she needs it.

i would think that it depends on whether the girl is an introvert or an extrovert. and how well u knw her that would play a big part as well.

said it once, didnt mean it. meant it once, never said it.

hey bud, well my best friend is a girl too. we are really tight and open around each other, we trust each other with our lives and all that. but i do understand what u mean by 'getting too attached' sometimes we love ppl too much. (keep in mind im using the term love platonically) by loving them too much, we set ourselves up for hurt. if its a really strong friendship, it will stand the test of time, but we cannot help that by trying to squeeze ourselves so close to our friends so as to smother them. ur friend will be your best friend no matter what school you go to, what church u attend, what basketball game u attend. these are just material meeting places. it doesnt change the magnitude of the friendship. just relax, and be the best best friend that you can be. things will smooth themselves out in the course of time.

lol thi is just what i wanted. its relly interesting to see so many different opinions on just a few words. i think that the quote is very self contradictory.

k. as a guy. let me say. we tend to do stupid things like fall for our female best friends. but eventually we have to come to a choice. is it worth it to lose a great friendship over? just give him some time. and space. and tell him. ' do u think its worth losing what we have as friends for...nothing?". give him some time to mull that over and he will reach an epiphany. he will either be the best friend yuo have ever had, or --on the unfortunate side-- you may lose him... just give him space, the decision to get over you may take him time. but be his friend through it all. never stop.

i guess the question can be raised that 'is the risk worth it?' rite?

Well technically this isnt poetry, neither is it mine. i heard it in philosophy class the other day, and found it immensely interestin, it jus made thoughts fly through my head. jus wonderin what u pplz thoughts were on it. waddaya think?

personally, i find this thread quite hilarious, cuz i dont think u will ever find any girl that will fit the exact definition of preppy or bratty or watever. every single one is different, and every one has their pros and cons. to classify em would be kinda like dehumanizin em. My type doesnt fall into those categories, oddly enough, my type is someone whom i can talk to all the time, someone mature at times and yet fun to hang out with. theres really a lot to say here but i jus wanted to point out that classifying women really doesnt work. cheers

I hate to love you but i do so nonetheless I think I hate love -BG®

thats a very good question. its not just workplaces, i was going thru the same thing in high school this mornin... the teacher just went on and on....

i love it, especially "cheers to the never empty chalice"

i would definitely agree with al7, its simlpy not fair to lead a person on. The very best thing u can do to gently let him down is to not let it go on for any longer. set up a 'we-need-to-talk' date and then tell him that hes a nice guy n all, but not the right one for you. We as guys can (usually) handle being let down quite well, considering that theres no sudden shock to the system, i.e. dont let him believe everythign is perfect. so just treat him like a mature adult (yes guys are mature too!) and everythign should be fine.

Well i wrote this poem today in chemistry class..i was just feeling lost and had so many things running through my head.. I'm sorry for being there I'm sorry for caring I'm sorry for listening I'm sorry for sharing I'm sorry for daring I'm sorry for being there I'm sorry for good times I'm sorry for bad times I'm sorry for wanting you I'm sorry for cherishing you I'm sorry for loving you I'm sorry for losing you .....what more can i say? Im sorry i ever loved...

Feeling so much pain Like a desert rose wilting Under the hot son -Boredguy®

"I'll be there for you" -The rembrandts is definitely the perfect friend themed song!

yeah lol...i dont bother with link removed anymore. there are better ways.. get in touch with ur local poetry community. ive made a lot of friends here in torontos community. in fact one of the poets helped me publish a chapbook of a poem. toronto is a very artsy kinda town. in fact they jus had my pic in the newspaper the other day fer doin some poetry stuff 8)

that sounds pretty damn good. do u knw her favourite flower? that should be plus. apart from that everything looks good. hmm sex on the beach...ive always wondered...isnt the sand annoying?...

well, 'The perfect date' varies from girl to girl. now how bout u answer a few questions about her and we can help? is she sporty? or sentimental? extra-girly? mature/immature? what kind of things does she like? remember anything that shes said that u could use?

thnx dn. what i was talkin about though, was the irony of the situation. i had written this a long time ago and sent it. the fact that it came back now at this time in my life, when it means a lot, is really ironic.

I think sometimes theres certain people with whom we can show emotions better than others. for most its family, but for people like you and me, we show emotion better with friends. (and yes a teacher or two too!). Theres nothign wrong with you dear, its just harder around some people to show emotions. its natural for all us humans. hugs mean a lot with some people, and sometimes they are jus nothing but flesh squeezing flesh. dont worry too much about it. cheers

e weirdest thing happened. a poem i wrote and sent to link removed almost a year and a half ago, came in the mail today...askin for publishing...im thinkin...hmm great timing cuz this poem means a lot to whats going on in my life right now. It feels horrible not to be able to tell my best friend about this... A lie can hurt, It can sting, I could lie to someone, And really not care. I could hear a lie from someone, And really not care. But when I lie to you, My stomach turns and I squirm, I wish I could tell you, But the time is not right. When the time is right, I shall speak, And all shall be clear, You shall smile that smile, That smile that parts the dark clouds, The sun shall shine yet again; And the world will be a better place, Not for all, But at least for me and you i look back on the optimism i once had....and now realise that i may simply be spiraling into depression....*sigh*