boredguy

yes actually. she said it exactly in that way....hmm lemme copy paste a chat log. her nicknameis toosh, and mine, well by her is Anu. now im jus lookin for some advice on how to tell her that i really like her but i dont love her YET....

PrincessLindsay, I knw the difference between 'i love u ' and 'i luv u' . i say I l luv u to my female best friend all the time, because it means love, but in the platonic sense. my gf said " I love you " word for word. thats why im worried, i knw that luv is different. but rite now u can see why im worked up about this...

It sounds as though something traumatic has happened to your gf in the past, and her mother is being overly protective of her for that very reason. It would be a good idea to perhaps build up the trust you have with your gf and her mother as well. If your mother trusts you, your gf trusts you, and you trust em back, then you should be able to spend more time with your gf. Also, her trusting you will lead to her having someone to talk to about what has happened in the past. As Svenman has said, respect her feelings and give her time. Try to gain the trust of her mother as well. That goes a long way. Trust me

deep...and very profound...

lol yeah i knw i knw, im jus worried that shes going to think...i told him i love him, and he isnt saying it bak! n then she mite go all depressed...knw wat i mean ?

Alrite, heres how it goes. A friend of mine who has liked me for a few months now, and whom i have liked for about more than a month, have just started going out. By just, I mean like a week. Now, I really like this girl, we have a great connection, we have fun together yet we can be serious around each other, its great. Now heres the kicker, u knw wat she says to me as we sign off msn? "Love ya" or "love u" umm HELOOO!?!? weve been going out a WEEK. The first time this happened, i swear to you my face looked like this emoticon . I raelly didnt know what to do, so the first time i changed the subject, 'so n so is callin me bye', and now im saying 'rit bak at ya'. I am NOT going to tell her I love her unless I love her. which i dont YET. i said before, I really like her. Ive had major problems in the past when Ive said I love you before I meant it, and I am NOT going thru that again. How do I tell her that I really like her, but dont LOVE her yet, without hurting her feelings? I mean, Im sure Love will come soon, because I dont believe in love at first sight, but the first time i read that msg: love u.... help.....

hey thnks fer the advice everyone! n thanks fer de compliment on the pic blue skittles, i love it too coffee addicts unite

aw great....now im jealous of women!

well I was just wondering how one would go about going in for a kiss. i have a date with my gf next week and we havnt kissed yet, and i have a feeling it might be time. im just really not sure how I would liek 'lean in' or do the eye contact thing or what oh yeah...also take into note ive never kissed a girl before... dum de dum...yeah lol... so what would u say iis...uh..how to word this....mayube i shouldnt type everything that comes to mind...right. any advice ppl? p.s. im really sleep deprived hence the retarded post... lol

thnks...im a coffee addict

well the back of a pack of wake ups say not to take more than 1-2 every 4 hrs. and thats a 100mg pill so if theres nothing written on the back of urs, i would say about 6 hours between pills, just to be safe.

bilal, girls have their period once a month regardless of the sexual activity. the only time a girl does not have her period is when she is pregnant. (Of course there are a few exceptions to the rule, but basically this is true.)

nah man. u cant learn to write poems like that. the english teachers that try and teach u cant either. poems come from the heart. u gotta find somethign that really touches you. something that makes u angry or happy or sad or simply makes u laugh. something that really touches you. Now all u have to do is take a pen n some paper. n just let it flow. Dont try to make it rhyme. if it does thats nice, but some of the most touching poems are non rhyming. just let whatever comes to you flow. dont stop writing because 'it doesnt sounds right' keep writing until u cant write anymore, until u are mentally exhausted. dont think. just write hope this helped.

i have heard a lot of people talk about this toothpaste thing....now im really curious does it really work. im more of a scienc-ey person n i wd trust a prescription over oral hygiene products anyday...but still curious.....

LOL sounds like we have something in common here. hi im boredguy and i have a problem...enotalone and coffee....

that is one heckuva interestin poem ! everytime i read it i get a different message... i find that very intrigueing. keep it up man !

Using an 'oil-free' acne wash should keep most zits from appearing, but theres always the occasional one that u cant really control. nothing is 100%, when it comes to acne prevention.

i dont think oral or dry sex count as 'making love' exactly, because usually that term implies intercourse. but oral/dry sex with a person u love is not just a physical connection. its about making the other person feel good, and vice versa. so its a lot like making love, but not exactly.

In my opinion, 'making love' refers to the most intimate thing two people can do. it is sexual intercourse, but between two people that love each other and are having sex not just because it feels good, but also to make the other person feel good as well as being as intimate as humanly possible with another person who is very likely the most important person in their life. Sex, on the other hand. Is jus intercourse, doesnt have to involve love, its just about making urself feel good.

yeah, it sounds as though u just arent spening enough time just chilling with your friend. Its not about compliments and stuff, most guys like to do 'guy' stuff, u knw wat im sayin? do stuff u like doin. like basketball? pool? video games? anything that u n ur friend could do together. like 'bonding' activities.

wow. princesslindsay, I must say u have done ur research. its a very interesting read.

what exactly seems to be the problem?

yeah i decided to write it down too... i thought that i might have a couple of pagesof stuff....well its at about 20 pages long and still going....

anytime bro

I believe that humans are destined to find love, in one way or another, and it is intrinsic within us to search for this love; be it on a conscious or a subconscious level. Over the centuries, people have looked for opposite gender companionship merely to produce offspring, but there have always been exceptions that have fallen in love. hmm...'love' hard to describe such a broad topic as is. we search for love not because we want to, but because we need it. It is a nessesity of life. Not all of us find it, but we learn many important lessons along the road questing for love. our search takes us to many places, to many people of different shapes, colors and sizes. When do we know when to stop looking? well we just know! thats the beauty of the system, once we find it we know immediately, no doubts, no mistakes, no second thoughts. Albeit many people believe they have found love then lose it, unfortunate incidents lead them to have to join the quest for love again. It is a never endin cycle. once u find it you KNOW. But the other beauty of the system is that if u lose it, you can always find it again. love is everywhere to be found. you may not find it by looking for it, you may not find it by waiting for it. you just have to live your life to the fullest and take every chance that comes by, and hope you never have to wonder: 'what if..?'