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  1. boredguy
    i agree with amanda, say it only if u mean it. ive made the mistake of telling my ex i loved her, when i didnt feel it...that didnt end up too well. but the point is. if u are sure u feel it. say it. U will know when the moment is right. u can tell him that he doesnt have to tell u he lvoes u if he doesnt. that would help. but tell him if u feel it.
  2. boredguy
    we always have ppl who affect usin very big ways in our lives. it seems like this person was integral in shaping your life, albiet a long time ago.
  3. boredguy

    Soulmate?

    boredguy replied to Prosper's topic in Dating Advice

    might I add something? soulmate: someone who has helped shape you to who you are to this very day. someone u can never forget in ur life. someone who will stay in your dreams forever.
  4. boredguy
    We all sometimes love the things that hurt us the most. We can be attracted to those very things that will cause us the most harm, we just need to be able to take the pain of temptation for a while, so we can be able to live life to the fullest.
  5. boredguy
    It doesnt really matter whether he tried to hit on ur friend or just some other girl. The point is he tried to hit on someone, and denied that u even existed. thats simply unacceptable. being a guy, ive been tempted by other girls too, and u knw wat. all it takes is a little willpower to stand up and say: 'no thanks, i have a gf' no completely deny that a gf does exist simply shows hes playin u for second fiddle.
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    I would say the answer would be NO. This experience has shown u that there is no trust that u can hold with him. a relationship cannot exist without a solid layer of trust. obviously you have many memories with him, and care/(d) a lot about him. But this time, its about you. You dont deserve someone as untrustworthy as him. you need to ask yourself: "is he worth it?" you need to be strong about this. you deserve better. u seem like a great person, and u knw wat? life moves on. you will find someone better down the road in life. you need not settle for him. PM me if u need to talk or add my msn: email removed
  7. boredguy
    attraction, crush: same difference LOL
  8. boredguy
    yeah a lap dance is pretty much a tease, and can sometimes be used as foreplay. hey, it works. what's more sexy than a girl IN ur lap?
  9. boredguy
    i jus joined the thread. where is baby blue?.. baby, exactly why do u think you are SURE about their feelings. beacuse, a lot of times, even though we are seeing that something isnt true, our subconscious can lead us to delusions. in other words u may just be thinking that they like you. but what exactly do u mean though? details details details ! ! !
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    I agree with mentor. emails as a general rule are considered a bit impersonal. heck we all know its easier to email as opposed to call, but its so much more impersonal. and it sounds like your gf has a busy life. so the more personal time u guys get, the better.
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    i love ur poem. i also completely agree with how u feel in it.: i totally agree.
  12. boredguy
    It sounds like your parents are afraid of letting go. a few more details on your relationship with your parents would be helpful. i.e. open? not-so-open? Have you brought up how u feel about ur parents with them? if not, this may be the first step to take. Opening up discussion should allow for you to state firmly that u are ready for a serious relationship. It would probably be good to talk to your parents about it being just a 3 nite trip, not you eloping or anything. parents sometimes tend to jump to the worst possible conclusion.
  13. boredguy
    yeah it depends on the person, but its not really 'stalkerish' to get his number from someone else.
  14. boredguy
    amazing poem. I admire your way of having a rythm without having to lose the comlpexity of the poem by making it rhyme.
  15. boredguy
    well it doesnt have to be a crush...she could jus be making an offhand comment right? see how things go, and if u get anything that may be more solidly classified as 'hints'
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    i agree with hope75. somtimes parents mess around with their kids, and sometimes in doing so inadvertantly say things that may cause problems. The simplest and most likely most effective solution would be to bring it up with your parents-privately of course- a public battle of wits wouldnt be of much use. a couple of tips: Sit them down and basically speak your mind. Ask open ended questions that would help u gain a better understanding of why they make comments. State the facts that you are sure of. ( ) that should clear up some lines of communication, and allow for a good conversation with ur rents. (as odd as that may sound)
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    hmm...i agree mentor. i may be younger than u ppl, but i do understand what stress is like. and stress is usually a precursor to depression. depression in turn is something that can be cured by consulting a health professional.
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    hey sparrow im pretty sure most ppl go thru wat u are going thru in life at some point or the other. its all a matter of how we deal with the crap life throws at us. u can survive this. u will come out of this being a stronger person. i remember once when i was going thru some hard times myself someone once told me: "Its better to walk thru sh*t than to live in it." i knw the language is harsh(sorry moderators); but the point gets accross doesnt it? Nobody said life was going to be easy sparrow. in fact, at times we all think: lifes a b*tch. but in the end it all comes down to this. Its our life, and how we live it will define who we are and will be in the future. stay strong sparrow, u are not alone. ps: PM me if u need to talk.
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    ya knw, sometimes i wonder the same thing --what is love? i dont think its really possible to define. i can say that there is no other topic ni the world that has as many plays, books, movies, songs, poems and so much more. ppl have warred for love, ppl write books and songs and poems and plays. But can anyone really define love? I think every person has his or her own definition for love. its a hugely integral part of life, but everyone has a different or slightly different understanding of what it is.
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    i totally agree. my best friend is a girl, and we haev been mistaken many a time for bein bf/gf. it can get to be quite annoying. ppl mistake this because every damn tv show/movie with cross-sex best friends end up becoming more. its tha media that instills this image into our minds. and it does not necessarily have to be true. this is also another thing that just totally gets on our nerves. i mean why cant ppl just leave well enough alone. we haev a great friendship that we both know will keep going strong for years to come. we are both very mature for our age (16) and thats another reason why we are such close friends. answerin the question in one word: YES guys n girls can be just friends. many times, they do end up becoming more, but the point is we CAN be friends, and bloody good ones at that.
  21. boredguy
    hey thats a reallly great poem, it made me feel better. thanks fer makin my day.
  22. boredguy
    baeutiful poetry. everyone feels like this some tiem or the other... uve done a great job of personifying the feeling. and the absense of the being rather.
  23. boredguy
    well emma34, i know what im bout to say is going to sound pretty cliche, but it seems as though u are thinking with ur mind and not ur heart. it makes a lot of sense to look at the stability of a person and their future and stuff, but at this age, its just time to have fun. so my advive to you is, just relax and have a good time, dont look at people too critically for who they might be in the future, just look at them for who they are now.
  24. boredguy
    hear hear! i agree sleep deprivation sucks... i was thinkin of raisin some money fer charity or smthin by stayin awake....
  25. boredguy
    what to do? what you need to do is talk to him about this. it will be pretty hard and he may try to avoid the subject, but u definitely need to talk to him. not only that you also need to do some soul-searching and think about your relationship with your fiancee and your friend, compare them, weight them. which would make you happier? you need to answer these questions and more. and then talk to him.
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