desperatlyconfused17

What do you do when your whole life revolves around one person, but you cant be with that one person?? They're too old for you and your parents dont approve? When people think your crazy for believing their promises? When you think they know, but your not sure and you dont know how to find out? You're not only afraid of your own feelings, but theirs are even more frightening?? What do you do when your cornered between your feelings and your respect as a person? If you would like to hear my story about this ^ and give me advice email me @ email removed. If not can you just give me your thoughts on this^^??

I like this boy... he's a little bit younger than me, but he's really cute !!! See thing is... my friends claims that he likes me too 8) ... so i gave him my phone # and he called me, but i wasn't home ... so when i got home and seen his # on my caller id so i called him back but he was outside!! He never called back after that... now my friend tells me he's still with his g/f , the one that she told me he broke up with about a week ago !! The reason she believed that they broke up is because, when she wrote on a piece of paper- Brett luvs Destiny and he scratched out Destiny (which is his supposeid g.f. ) and wrote Angel (ME)! I'm confused... how do i know if he really likes me or not ? He never really told me that they were broke up but he never really told me that they were ever going out... my friend told me!! I just dont know, when he sees me in the halls, he'll smile and say hi, but not only am i afraid to talk to him period ... i'm afraid to ask him about whats going on with him and Destiny and him and me!!

Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes when they realize that they made a mistake by breaking it off they want to come back and see if it is different... sometimes it just happens! Right now im trying to get back with my ex because i realized that we didn't even atempt to make it work before and i just want to actually try!! And sometimes people feel that is the best person that they can find and don't realize that sometimes it just doesn't work out!! Sometimes it takes more than tears to get over someone!!!!!

Im in almost the same kind of thing... my ex is a commitment phobic too, but he's kinda ignoring me and i dont like it... I think you should be straight forward with her... tell her that you want a relationship but you dont want to wait forever for her... it's the simplest way and your not breaking her heart... your letting her make the choice of wheither or not she's ready if she says she's not ready for a relationship then just be friends with her... maybe one day she will be ready and you'll be there to give her support but dont waste your life waiting on her to be there!!

I met Fred awhile back… during the summer of 2004!! I was in between a broken heart and a new life . I just wanted somebody to love me. I began dating him with the hopes of falling in love and being happy but little did I know what I was getting my self into… I can’t lie, I fell in love, but I think I fell in love with his friendship more than his love. This is how it happened… I began to date him… not knowing him or what was going to happen! We broke up because my cousin told me that he was cheating on me. My cousin and me got into a fight and I began to talk to Fred as a friend… we got so close. We talked everyday on the phone and the Internet. We talked about everything and anything. He became my best friend. We hadn’t seen each other for a long time… about 6 months… yet we stayed close… even dated twice (each time not working out). But we remained friends no matter what! Well one day, we decided to hang out as friends. It was so great… we went to his grandmas and hung out for awhile, then we went to his moms… on the way there he had his arm around me and we were holding hands… I felt safe and comfortable and I felt like I was exactly where I belonged. At his mom’s… at first we sat on the couch and I leaned on him while he had his arm around me. His mom ask if I was his girlfriend and he said “I don’t know, you have to ask her”, which to me was so sweet that he didn’t say no and he left it up to me. Well we laid on the couch together… me in front and his arm around me…while we watched The Run Down… after the movie his mom took me home and on the way to my house we ended up dating again… I was so happy because I really loved him (and still do)… The next Tuesday him and his friends came and picked me up and I hung out with him and them for awhile… at his friends house I was going to sit beside him and he pulled me on his lap… which was cool, because I was comfortable sitting on his lap. His friend Brian dropped us off at his grandma’s and me and Fred hung out there for awhile… his grand pap took me home later that night and we had our first REAL kiss on the way to my house!! I was falling deeper and deeper than ever before… After that he disappeared, I didn’t talk to him or see him for a while… actually I haven’t seen him since and that was a while a go. Now, we are talking again, as friends, and I ask him to go back out with me because I he told me that he is afraid of relationships and stuff and that is why he disappeared and he told me that if he decides to go back out with me that he will make sure that we talk everyday and that we see each other at least twice a week!! I want so bad to trust him because I believe I love him and everything but I don’t know if I can trust him or not!! Plus there is this other guy that I have a crush on and my friend told me yesterday that he wants to go out with me, but I don’t know what to do!! I want to give this new guy a chance, because I like him, but I also want to give Fred another chance (if he’ll give me one), because I love him!! I’m so confused and hurt and scared… I just don’t know what to do!! People tell me to follow my heart but I’m not even sure what it wants anymore!! It’s just as confused as my head… my heart just wants to be loved!! And I just want to be loved and needed!!